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Weekly Newsletter March 1

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 21:05:01 GMT

"Never Forget!"
What comes to mind?

What comes to mind when you hear the phrase, "Never forget!"?

I remember these three first:

September 11
Space Shuttle Challenger
COVID Pandemic
What do you remember? (Go ahead and reply. I'd love to hear your thoughts.)

I'm sad when my children (now ages 29 and 25) reminisce about past family vacations and I reply, "We did that? I don't remember that." However, I do remember the time I booked a hotel in Orlando that my family refused to enter. The brochure didn't show the lobby with bars on the windows, and there was no scratch-n-sniff for the marijuana odor! We didn't stay there, but it's a great family vacation memory for us.

Jesus was frustrated and angry one day with his disciples. You can read about it in Mark 8:1-21. Click this link to read it now. They were sailing across the sea of Galilee when they got hungry. They began to argue because no one brought any bread. Just a few days earlier Jesus had fed a crowd of 5000 from only a few loaves. Then he fed a crowd of 4000. After each miracle, they gathered bushels full of leftovers, and now the disciples are worried and arguing about what to eat. Jesus shouted, "Do you not remember anything?"

How quickly we forget God's blessings, power, forgiveness, and love.

Take time today to remember what God has done for you. If you can't think of anything, read Mark 8 and ask someone else to tell you what God has done for them. Give thanks to God. Never forget God's amazing deeds.

Pray with me, please:

Dear Jesus,
Thank you for loving all people, especially me. I know I have not obeyed you always and I have often forgotten your blessings. Fill me today with your Holy Spirit. Remind me of the purpose you have for me, and strengthen me to trust you to do your will through me. Thank you! In Jesus' name; Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter February 16

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 20:56:02 GMT

You Snooze. You Lose.
Wake up to New Life in Christ!

One nightmare every pastor may have is being late for a wedding. I have to confess that has never happened to me--Yet! I would be mortified if it did.

“You snooze. You lose,” may not be the most polite way to tell someone they slept through a critical event, but it is a biblical idea.

“Wake up, Sleeper! Rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you!” (Ephesians 5:14)

Don’t snooze and miss out on the life that God has for you in Christ, Jesus. Wake up and realize your need for God every day and find life through faith in Jesus, our Savior.

Here's a prayer that you might pray with me:

Spiritual Awakenings

Renewing and refreshing God,
How desperately your children need to be awakened from their sleep!

As I look around me in my world, so many people live in darkness: They have no concern for their need of you, are satisfied in their sins, content in their brokenness, and arrogant in their self-centered complacency.
But they are not really alive, God, not as you want them to be.

They are really dead and blind, with no power to be who you have created them to be, no senses to discern your dream and vision for their lives. They seem to be in a deep, deep sleep.

Wake them up, God. Help them to see what is real and what is illusion.

Help them to see who they are and to whom they really belong.

Help them to reclaim their true identity as your children, as creatures who have your image woven into their humanity, who are partakers of your own divine nature, who can be changed inwardly, born again, and renewed by the power of the Holy Spirit in their lives.

May they hear your still small voice within, O Lord, and awaken in faith to the promises that are theirs in Christ.

To all who awake and arise, you promise the Light.
You promise to dwell—to set up your home—in our hearts.
You promise liberation from sin through the gift of your Holy Spirt who comes into our lives, filling us with love.
You promise not only the form of godliness but the power that makes us truly righteous, winsome, loving, and pure.

Awaken us all by the truth and simplicity of your good news which is proclaimed in your promises to every human being, that we might feel the spirit of Christ in us and among us, singing in our heart that we are the children of God.
Amen.

(From Praying in the Wesleyan Spirit by Paul Chilcote)

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter October 27

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 19:37:38 GMT

Shaky Boat - Stable Faith
One Person Makes a Difference

The hurricane raged and the sailors feared for their life. All except one.

Paul was not afraid, but he warned the captain not to sail. It was winter in the Mediterranean, and they risked sailing through a hurricane. The captain set out anyway. Before the storm hit, an angel visited Paul to say they wouldn’t die because they had to get Paul to Rome. However, they would lose the boat.

Sometimes God’s plan leads us through turbulent times. Paul urged the sailors, “Take courage! For I believe God.” Read the story in Acts 27.

Paul’s faith gives us courage to endure rough times with hope because God is with us. When life’s boat seems to be falling apart, let your faith in God keep you stable. If you must, look to someone with faith to encourage your trust in God until you can say for yourself, “God, “I believe you.”

Please reply and let me know if you need some encouragement through a difficult time. And then let’s meet this weekend in worship.

My prayer for you:

Dear Jesus, you endured much and you call us to the same. Following you never promises ease. You do promise joy, hope, and everlasting life. Help us keep trusting in you until you make all people and all your creation whole again. We need you, and we believe you. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter January 26

Fri, 26 Jan 2024 20:23:20 GMT

I Don't Like This Message
But I Need to Hear It Often

I’m old enough to remember former Dallas Cowboys quarterback Roger Staubach. Someone asked him once, "How do you keep on keeping on if you're playing professional football?"

Roger said: "If you're not playing hurt, you're not playing football."

I do not like that message, but I need to hear it.

Life itself is like that. We all experience hurts and pains. However, growth always involves some kind of pain or difficulty. I don't like that reality, but it's true. As followers of Jesus, we boldly trust the One who is the Healer, Comforter, Teacher: Jesus, the One from God who forgives us and restores all things. Even when we hurt, we persevere with His strength, encouragement, and in Him we are healed.

Paul gives great encouragement to his friend Timothy when he says “You, Timothy, are a man of God; so run from all evil things. Pursue righteousness and godly life, along with faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness.” You can read that in 1 Timothy 6:11

I invite you to join me and many this weekend to celebrate God’s love and power. With your hope in Jesus, YOU are a man or woman of God. He strengthens us to continue, to grow, and to persevere. Let's gather this weekend to urge one another on!

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Weekly Newsletter November 23

Sat, 23 Dec 2023 20:00:21 GMT

Add Years to Your Life
With a Smile

Researchers have shown that this one thing can add years to a person’s life. It can even predict how fulfilling their marriage will be. What is this magic activity?

A smile.

If you’re feeling sick, smiling can make you feel better.

Research from 2009 shows that when you smile, you activate your brain’s “happiness” circuits. Smiling is a switch that turns on “happy” even if you’re in a bad mood.
Other researchers measured the smiles of players on Major League Baseball cards from 1952. Players that smiled for their picture lived seven years longer than players who didn’t smile.

How many times in a day do people smile?

How many times a day do you smile?

I feel bad for the people who smile only 5 times a day. But I'm smiling now, so I feel better. I hope I'm closer to the children category.

If smiling can change my mood, I wonder how much better life is when God smiles on us.

‘May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
and give you his peace.’ (Num 6:24-26, NLT)

Happy Thanksgiving!

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter December 22

Fri, 22 Dec 2023 20:12:14 GMT

Unwrap the Present!

Imagine one small gift left untouched under the tree.

Imagine that gift, wrapped raggedly with golden paper because the giver was too nervous to do it carefully. The small box has all the signs of an engagement ring. A young couple sits in front of the fire gazing blindly into each other's glistening eyes. (You've heard someone say, "Love is blind!" haven't you?)

Finally, the young man grabs the gift with excitement, bends down on one knee with confidence and joy. He declares his love for her and asks, "Will you marry me?" Now, I don't have room in this message for all the drama that led up to this "Hallmark" moment, so we'll just finish it with a "Yes!" And then a squeal. And a foot-popping kiss.

If that gift is never opened and lived out, neither he nor she will experience the love it represents. That's Christmas! The present of God's love must be received, unwrapped, and lived.

God is with us through the person of Jesus, God's son. Jesus came so that we all may live in peaceful, friendship with God. God's gift of forgiveness brings new life forever. We need that forgiveness because we all have failed to live the life God created us to live. Jesus came to restore us to God. We have peace.

Be near me Lord Jesus, I ask thee to stay
close by me forever, and love me, I pray.
Bless all the dear children in thy tender care,
and fit us for heaven to live with thee there.
(Away in the Manger)Join us to worship Jesus this Christmas.

Bear Campus
Saturday 6PM
Sunday 9 & 11AM

Elsmere Campus
Sunday 9AM and 7PM

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Weekly Newsletter December 1

Fri, 01 Dec 2023 20:05:37 GMT

A Christmas Without Strife
Can it be?

Growing up on the farm, we heated our home with two wood stoves. We gathered wood for fuel from the acres of wooded lands on our farm. I hated getting wood. It was wet, cold, dangerous and hard work because we only cut wood in the winter as we needed it. We were too busy in the summer with other work. Dad tried to encourage me by telling me (all too often) that I should be grateful because gathering wood warmed me three times:

First we cut down and split the wood.
Then we hauled and stacked it in the basement.
Finally, we burned it in the fire making the whole house toasty-warm but only after a lot of striving.

Dad’s positive view of the hard work never really satisfied me. I was never content to heat with wood, but I am grateful to have a father who taught and expected me to work. I’m a wealthy man because of him.

"True godliness with contentment is itself great wealth." 1 Timothy 6:6 (New Living Translation)

Contentment can be a difficult thing to grasp and keep. A simple definition of contentment is "the absence of strife." Holiday seasons seem to be filled with opportunities for strife. Can we have a Christmas without strife? Yes, but it still may be busy and we still may have difficult things to do. However, the miracle of Christmas is that God is with us through it all, giving us joy, hope, peace, and love even as we endure difficult and sometimes sad moments.

As we approach Christmas, I’m praying that you will experience contentment in your life. We have that by our friendship with God through Jesus. So I invite you to meet with us this weekend to explore how.

Now is a great time to invite a friend, neighbor, family member and work colleague to worship. Let’s celebrate and experience all God’s promises together at CtC Bear and Elsmere campuses. We’ll have a Winter of Contentment and peace in Christ.

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Weekly Newsletter November 17

Fri, 17 Nov 2023 19:55:39 GMT

My Most Awkward Lunch Group
I was genuinely uncomfortable -- until ...

In 2005, I sat in for a day at a workshop for pastors to learn about a week-long program for men recovering from sex-based addictions. Some of the men there were convicted sex offenders. Perhaps all of them. I didn’t know. At lunchtime, I sat at a small square table with three other men I had never met before. My heart raced as my nerves tensed.

Our meal was served and no one knew how to start a conversation until the bravest among us became honest. “Well I guess I’ll start. I’m here because I need help. I’m just getting out of prison for sex crimes, and I’ve got to live a better life.”

That prompted the next guy to get honest. “I’m here because I’m getting married in a few months and I’m addicted to pornography. I don’t want to ruin my marriage before it begins.”

The third guy admitted also to having been in prison for a sex crime. And then there was me. Now, when guys start telling stories, we are tempted to “out-do” the story just told. But I couldn’t do that, nor did I want to. Nervously I said, “I’m a pastor, and I’m here to learn about this program. You guys are tremendously brave to be here and say those things. I admire you.”

It was one of those experiences when I was keenly aware of my own tendencies to judge others. I remembered Jesus “eating with tax collectors and other sinners.” I’m not patting myself on the back because it wasn’t easy for me to sit there. After that introduction broke the ice, our conversation turned to much less personal matters as we learned about each other. We’re all men, facing the same temptations and truths, humbled by life, and now seeking to faithfully follow Jesus. Lunch ended and we returned to our meetings. Even now, I pray for those men that God has and continues to transform their lives.

Jesus changes lives. That’s the good news we have to share. Because of Jesus, we can bravely face the consequences of our sins, experience God's life-changing love, and follow his ways. Whatever your situation, God loves you and wants you to be free from the chains that bind you. Jesus came to free us so that we can live a joyful, abundant, and purpose-filled life now and forever.

If you or someone you know is caught in an addiction of any kind, seek help. Confess it to Jesus and trust him. If you don’t know how to do that, please ask me or anyone at Christ the Cornerstone.

My most awkward lunch meeting powerfully reminded me how good the news about Jesus really is. Keep sharing it wherever you go!

Dear Heavenly Father,
Nothing is hidden from you, yet when you look at us, you see a child created by you and greatly love, valuable, and full of purpose. Each of us is given a life worth living well. Forgive us all our sins. Teach us your ways. Move us to tell others about your mercy and power. We ask this with the authority of the name of Jesus. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter November 10

Fri, 10 Nov 2023 19:49:51 GMT

You Are an Amazing Gift!
What Are Gifts For?

Do you realize how gifted you are?

God has purpose for everyone. It is a purpose that is empowered by the Holy Spirit who gives good gifts to each of us.

“A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other.” (1 Corinthians 12:7)

All the gifts are given so that we can help each other. Here is a list of some of those gifts. Which do you think God has given you?

Counsel others with wisdom
Know spiritual things before others do
Great faith in God
Ability to heal others
Power to perform miracles
Ability to speak with God’s authority and insight
Ability to discern truth from lies
Ability to speak and interpret languages

The Holy Spirit gives these abilities when we trust Jesus with our lives and serve him. The gifts are not for our benefit. Instead, they are to benefit others so that all people may experience God’s life-changing love.

How do you get these gifts? Like all gifts, the Giver decides when and what gift is given. However, we do need to be willing to receive God’s gift. We also can refuse it. This weekend we’ll talk about how we each can know our gifts and how we can use them.

Dear Heavenly Father, You are the Giver of every good gift. Thank You for Jesus who leads us to You with open arms. Help us be open and willing to receive Your gifts, then help us use them for the good of others in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter November 4

Sat, 04 Nov 2023 18:43:58 GMT

A New Season at CtC
It's Still Good News!

November 1, 2023 sets another marker in CtC’s history.

On that day, CtC officially is no longer part of the United Methodist Church. What does that mean?

First it means that our mission remains the same: We are here to love God and all people so that they may experience God’s life-changing love through faith in Jesus.

That’s our only mission. Everything we do, every activity we plan in every corner of every building must be used for that purpose. Every ministry partner (member), every volunteer, and every staff person has agreed to work together to fulfill that mission. That’s what we do. That will never change.

Our plan to achieve that mission has three tasks:

Love.

We call people first to experience God’s love through Jesus. A personal relationship with Jesus gives us a personal friendship with God. Our sins are forgiven. We have peace with God. We experience joy, freedom, and the hope of everlasting life. We live life with purpose instead of wondering “What is the purpose of life?” Because of God’s love for us, we are able to love all people with same love of God. So we commit ourselves to show God’s love to everyone through every word and action.

Serve

So that we can fulfill our purpose, God has given each of us personality, passions, skills, and especially Spirit Gifts, which are abilities empowered by God the Holy Spirit. As we follow Jesus, we learn and practice those abilities. Many of us will use those abilities inside the church helping others grow in their faith and knowledge of God. Many of us will also use our abilities outside the church community so that all people may experience God’s love. We all must serve.

Engage

Jesus commanded us who follow him to go. We serve by going into our communities, workplaces, and families to give evidence of the love and power of God. We engage others to invite them to believe and follow Jesus alongside us. It's a wonderful journey we walk together.

As CtC turns into a new season, I ask you to recommit yourself to Jesus Christ, our mission and our general strategy to love, serve, and engage. When you do that, your faith will grow and others will come to Christ. Let's celebrate God’s love for all people as we worshiping passionately. Let's use all our abilities to serve God and others while we engage everyone with the good message about Jesus. Our relationship with the United Methodist Church has changed, but our mission and purpose remain the same.

On November 18, 2023, 2PM at the Bear campus, we will gather to discuss our mission. We look forward to strengthening our ministries through our weekend services, our school, senior center, and all our ministries in Bear and Elsmere.

My prayer for us:

Almighty God, we are here because you sent your Son, Jesus, to lead us back to you. We revere and honor you by committing ourselves to trust and obey your teachings. Fill all who are part of CtC with your loving presence so that we may joyfully live as you lead us. We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter October 20

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 17:58:14 GMT

When Is It Time to Hide or Not?
Learn to Hide at the Right Time

What’s hiding in your

Text messages?
Email messages?
Photos?
Social media history?

One study shows that 82% of people admit snooping on someone else’s device. Add to that the number of people who snoop but won’t admit it.
Do you have anything to hide?

The wrong time to hide: When we do wrong.
The right time to hide: When we hide our life in Jesus.

Oh, what joy for those
whose disobedience is forgiven,
whose sin is put out of sight!
Yes, what joy for those
whose record the Lord has cleared of guilt,
whose lives are lived in complete honesty!
When I refused to confess my sin,
my body wasted away,
and I groaned all day long.
Day and night your hand of discipline was heavy on me.
My strength evaporated like water in the summer heat.
Finally, I confessed all my sins to you
and stopped trying to hide my guilt.
I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the Lord.”
And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone.
Therefore, let all the godly pray to you while there is still time,
that they may not drown in the floodwaters of judgment.
For you are my hiding place;
you protect me from trouble.
You surround me with songs of victory.
The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life.
I will advise you and watch over you.
Do not be like a senseless horse or mule
that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control.”
Many sorrows come to the wicked,
but unfailing love surrounds those who trust the Lord.
So rejoice in the Lord and be glad, all you who obey him!
Shout for joy, all you whose hearts are pure!
Psalm 32 (New Living Translation)

If I can help you discover what it means to live free of guilt and follow God's way through faith in Jesus, please reply to this email.

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Weekly Newsletter October 14

Sat, 14 Oct 2023 17:52:52 GMT

Who Changed the Game Plan?
Can You Persevere?

Ryan liked his half-day kindergarten program, so he was eager to start first grade. Then a hard reality kicked in.

Ryan enjoyed the morning of his first day of first grade. He began to get his things ready to go home, as he was accustomed in kindergarten. Linda, his kind teacher asked, “Ryan, what are you doing?”

“I’m going home,” he said calmly.

Linda assured him he would get to go home, but they were heading to the lunchroom first. Then they’d come back to the classroom for some more work and activities before going home.

With a look of disbelief, Ryan planted his hands on his hips and demanded, “Who on earth signed me up for this?”

Life is like that. Many times I stand in disbelief about life and this world and ask the same question. I’m sure you have many days like that, too.

Jesus calls us to follow him. He even told us that we would experience difficulty. We must persevere through illness, disappointment, grief, and changes in jobs and relationships. Change comes at every age and stage of life, and we must persevere still to follow Christ through them all.

When you notice that someone or something has changed the plan you expected to follow, turn to Jesus, who perseveres for us, and rely upon the Holy Spirit to give you purpose, strength, and wisdom to endure.

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. (Romans 5:3-5, New Living Translation)

May Christ's peace strengthen you to persevere today!

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Weekly Newsletter October 6

Fri, 06 Oct 2023 17:46:20 GMT

Why Can't You Trust Stairs?
They're either always up to something or they always let you down!

Whoever invented the Internet probably didn't know they were creating a "trust dilemma" for the whole world. I'll save you some trouble if you haven't already heard:

You cannot believe everything on the Internet.
So who can we trust?

Three behaviors that create trust are

Straight Talk
Respect.
Transparency
Does Jesus do any of these? Is Jesus worthy of our trust? Let's see.Straight Talk
Jesus' teachings are clear to all people. He said, "Do not hinder the children," for example. He also said, "If you want to be my disciples, you must take up your cross and follow me." Read Matthew 19 in the Bible. That's straight talk.Show Respect
Jesus visited, shared meals with, taught, and healed all people regardless of their status in life. See Luke 15:1-2Create Transparency

Jesus avoided secrecy and clearly shared information with both believers and non-believers. While other teachers tried to trap Jesus with loaded, manipulative, and dodgy question, Jesus replied with clear, transparent answers that cut through their veil of lies. See Matthew 22:15 and following verses for example.

Best-selling author and leadership guru Steven M. R. Covey lists these behaviors as the top three to build trust. So even from a human perspective, Jesus is worth believing. We can rely on what he says and does so that we experience a joyful and meaningful life of friendship with God.

"The thief's purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life," Jesus said in John 10:10.

I'd love to talk with you more about how you can increase your trust of Jesus. Just reply to email me directly. Come and meet with us this weekend where you'll be encouraged by many people who are learning to trust Jesus day by day.

May today be filled with the peace of Christ in you.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Sept. 29

Fri, 29 Sep 2023 17:41:32 GMT

Ed's Hearing Gets Healed
Jesus Heals and Forgives Us

Ed went to the revival and heard about Jesus’ love and power. When the preacher invited anyone to come forward for prayer, Ed got in line. The preacher asked, “How can I pray for you?”

Ed replied, "Preacher, I need you to pray for my hearing."

So the preacher put one finger in Ed's ear and the other hand on top of his head and shouted, and hollered, and proclaimed "Be opened in Jesus' name!"

After a few minutes, he removed his hands and said, "Ed, how's your hearing now?"

Big Ed said, "I don't know preacher, my hearing not until next Wednesday at the New Castle County Courthouse."

Here’s a truthful message:
“Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven.” James 5:14-15

Jesus has come to heal and forgive. Every weekend at Christ the Cornerstone we gather to pray for one another at both Bear and Elsmere campuses. We announce forgiveness and healing in Jesus' name. So come this weekend, invite a friend, and let’s see God do wonderful things!

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Weekly Newsletter Sept. 22

Fri, 22 Sep 2023 20:41:01 GMT

A Heart Clear and Free
Jesus Forgives You.

Comedian Steven Wright has a dead-pan, stone-face and flat-tone delivery of his jokes, so you’ll have to use your imagination to hear this one:

A clear conscience is usually a sign of a bad memory.

--Steven Wright

Now, read these Proverbs from the Bible that speak a much greater truth:

³ Fire tests the purity of silver and gold,
but the Lord tests the heart. Prov 17:3 ² People may be right in their own eyes,
but the Lord examines their heart. Prov. 21:2 ¹⁹ As a face is reflected in water,
so the heart reflects the real person. Prov. 27:19 ⁹ Who can say, “I have cleansed my heart;
I am pure and free from sin”? Prov. 20:9

And finally,
³⁸ “Listen! We are here to proclaim that through this man Jesus there is forgiveness for your sins.” Acts 13:38

The one who trusts in Jesus to forgive our sins is the one who can say, “I have cleansed my heart. I am pure and free from sin!”

I’d love to talk with you about the condition of your heart today. You may reply to this email for a direct conversation.

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Weekly Newsletter Sept. 15

Fri, 15 Sep 2023 20:35:45 GMT

How Do You Hear God

Tyler asked, “God, what’s a million years to you? God said, “One minute.”

Intrigued, Tyler asked, “What’s a million dollars to you?” God answered, “Just a penny.”

“Well then,” Tyler pushed a little more: “God, can I have a penny?” Then God said,

“Sure! … in just a minute.”

God wants us to talk with Him, for sure. But hearing God accurately is another learned skill. In Acts 13: 1-5, the church members were worshiping God and fasting when the Holy Spirit spoke. God instructed them to send out Barnabas and Saul to tell others the message of Jesus.

Hear are three skills that helped:

1. Worship: To revere, respect, and speak with God.

2. Fast: To deny yourself something in order to remind yourself that you are reliant upon God. "Hunger for God" increases while we fast.

3. Listen: God inspires scripture, thoughts, and words from others that instruct us.

Consider how you're using these skills to hear God in your life. Let's meet this weekend to honor and listen to God so that we can go out and tell others the Good News of Jesus.

Heavenly Father, we need to hear from you, and we need to hear you clearly. We worship you because you have not left us alone to live helplessly in this world. Instead, you call us to friendship with you forever. Teach us, through your Holy Spirit, to hear you. Give us courage to follow you, in Jesus' name. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Sept. 8

Fri, 08 Sep 2023 20:31:30 GMT

Here's A "Jeopardy" Question for You

Jeopardy Answer: This couple, named in the Bible, escaped Jewish persecution in Rome and moved to a city in Greece where they befriended and started a tent-making business with the apostle Paul.
Correct Question: Who are Priscilla and Aquila? (Acts 18)

As they made and sold tents, they told many people about Jesus, and they created a great friendship.

"The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense."

"Never abandon a friend—either yours or your father’s. When disaster strikes, you won’t have to ask your brother for assistance. It’s better to go to a neighbor than to a brother who lives far away."

--Proverbs 27:9-10

Here are two core priorities at Christ the Cornerstone:

To be people who tell others that God, through Jesus, wants a friendship with us. The reality is that we were created to live in friendship with God but we all have turned away from God. Jesus is that friend who keeps us connected with God.
To create a community where we are the kind of friends to our neighbors who give heartfelt counsel that is as sweet as perfume. That counsel is priority #1.

We all need friends and the only way I know to have a friend is to be a friend. So, let’s determine and work today to love others as God loves us. And let’s share the news to our neighbors that Jesus changes our lives for good.

Heavenly Father, thank you for loving us so much that you sent your Son, Jesus, who gave his life so that we can live an abundant and joy-filled life now with hope of eternal life with you. Give us your Holy Spirit to change us, free us from the tyranny of sin so that we can love you with our whole heart, mind, soul, and strength, and we can love all our neighbors as ourselves. We trust you through Jesus. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Sept. 1

Fri, 01 Sep 2023 20:24:12 GMT

Anxiety Is No Power Against Him
Cast All Your Cares on Jesus

Mental Health is a serious issue today. We all must learn to live with and manage stress and anxiety. It’s a normal part of living. God knows that too, and God cares for you. Here’s how I know:

God cares for us so much that he gave his only Son. Whoever trusts in him shall never die but have everlasting life. That eternal life doesn't begin when we die in this world. That new life in Jesus begins here and now. Jesus tells us that "A thief comes to steal and destroy, but I have come to give life and give it abundantly." John 10:10

That sounds too good. But it’s true. We have new life when we trust and follow Jesus. He gives us his Holy Spirit to renew, restore, and fill us with hope now. Today. He is like a good shepherd who leads his flock to safe places full of nutritious grasses and clear water. The Apostle Paul encourages Timothy, a young follower of Jesus, with these words: "For God his not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7

When you feel stress and anxiety today, give your cares to Jesus. Rely on God’s Holy Spirit. Open yourself to God’s power, love, and let Him bring wholeness to your mind, body, and soul. Life a life of peace, strength, and wholeness today.

I look forward to seeing you this weekend at Christ the Cornerstone, Bear or Elsmere. Dear Jesus, your arms must get tired carrying all our burdens! Thank you for lifting the weight off our shoulders. Give us rest from the strain of anxiety. Strengthen us to act according to your teaching; to love others as you love us. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Aug. 25

Fri, 25 Aug 2023 15:58:17 GMT

Motivated by an Ox!
Jesus Sends Us to Tell Everyone Good News

My great grandfather, a Michigan farmer in the 1880’s, was attacked by an ox one day. Every time the ox charged and struck him, my great-grandfather heard words spoken.

He heard God say, “Preach!” When the ox struck again, he heard it again, “Preach!” Finally, on the third attack, great-grandpa Beane, relented and said, “Okay! I will preach!” Then the bull stopped attacking him.

That’s a phenomenal story told by my grandmother, his daughter. Grandpa Beane became a Methodist evangelist after that. Then the family moved to New York state where he served as pastor of Methodist churches until he died in 1943.

God calls us to tell others of Jesus, and sometimes (if not often) fulfilling that call involves pain and suffering. The Holy Spirit inspired, strengthened, equipped, and guided Paul and Silas to travel to many towns telling others about God’s love and forgiveness through Jesus, who is the One who saves us from our sin. Along the way, they suffered angry crowds, imprisonment, and event beatings.

We can certainly tell others of the freedom Jesus gives us. We can share the hope of eternal life. We can tell others about living a life without guilt for all the wrong we’ve done to others and God. We can live with purpose knowing that our life makes a difference to many others. We have good news to tell.

So let’s tell them.

Pray for opportunities to speak to others about Jesus.
Pray for the Holy Spirit to give you the right words at the right time.
Then follow the Holy Spirit’s leading.

Dear Jesus, before you motivate me with a big ox, please send your Holy Spirit to inspire, instruct, and guide me. Move me by your Holy Spirit to share your truth with others so that they may also know your love and everlasting life. In Jesus' name, let it be so!

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Weekly Newsletter Aug. 18

Fri, 18 Aug 2023 19:32:46 GMT

What's Good News?
Does Jesus Make Any Difference?

I asked people in a recent text message: “What about Jesus is good news to you?” I got some great answers. Here are some of them.

“Without Jesus I would have no hope and I would have no will to go on... ... With Jesus I know I have the forgiveness for my past and the strength to go on and face each day trying to please him and serve him to the best of my ability!” -W.

“In the mundane and in the extraordinary He gives me the strength to do the tasks He's placed before me.” -C.

“When I thank Him for watching over me, He calms me and smiles and says ‘your welcome.’” -M.

“Jesus gives hope! And we are never alone because He is with us, which changes everything :)” -N.

Those are wonderful, simple statements of the good news that comes through faith in Jesus.

Lydia was a business woman in the ancient Greek town of Phillipi. She worshiped God but didn’t know about Jesus until Paul told her. She immediately believed it and was baptized, along with her whole household. She influenced many people of every social strata with her good news about Jesus. Let's follow her example as the Holy Spirit moves in us.

Let’s pray: Jesus, we trust you to forgive us and to fill us with your Holy Spirit. Move us each day to share your good news with anyone to whom you send us. In your name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Aug. 11

Fri, 11 Aug 2023 15:09:07 GMT

Do You Open the Door?
Who's knocking?

Are you like my family?

When the doorbell rings, do you refuse to answer it before knowing who's there?

In this world we have little time for sales-persons, surveyors, and political volunteers to take up our time. Some people may quietly look at their security app to see who's there. Others may even run and hide, hoping the person at the door doesn't see or hear anything. The problem of "Who's at the door?" is not new.

Rhoda, a young slave girl heard a knock at the door. She recognized the voice frantically begging to be let in from outside. It was Peter, but he was supposed to be in prison. The other disciples were praying for him to be saved from certain death. Instead of opening it, she ran to the family to announce he was standing there. No one believed her. Finally they opened the door and heard the story of his miraculous rescue.

He said, 'It's really true! The Lord has sent his angel and saved me from Herod."

It's still true. The Lord Jesus saves us from our sins and he saves us for eternal life. Jesus forgives us and restores us to a joyful relationship with God and others. We have purpose in Him.

I hope you'll join us this weekend at Christ the Cornerstone to celebrate what God does in our lives, to pray for others just as Peter's friends did, and to play our part in the Kingdom of God.

Pray this prayer with me: Heavenly Father, we all have days when we wonder if you will help us. Encourage our spirits with your Holy Spirit so that we will pray faithfully and wait for your full salvation to come. Our world needs you. We need you. Come, Lord Jesus. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Aug. 4

Fri, 04 Aug 2023 15:03:05 GMT

If an Angel Appeared at Your Door
How Would You Respond?

Cornelius certainly had big shoulders to carry the responsibility he had. A trained, skilled, and honored soldier, he commanded an Italian regiment for Caesar. He also worshiped God—the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He gave generously to the poor, prayed regularly, and was well respected. So why was he so scared? An angel appeared at his door.

I imagine an angel that frightens a Roman soldier must look big, strong, fierce, and intimidating. The Bible says “Cornelius stared at him in terror. ‘What is it, sir?’ he asked the angel.” (Acts 10:4) In this simple story, we see a man of authority acknowledge God’s greater authority. We can learn from that.

When we worship together, we acknowledge God’s authority in this world. We submit ourselves to God’s love, mercy, and righteousness. God is not a malevolent dictator seeking to destroy us. The opposite is true. God sent Jesus to bring life, not destroy it.

“The thief’s purpose is to destroy and kill. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life,” Jesus says in John 10:10.

Reflect on this question: In what way did God "show up at your door" today? Will you submit to his authority and follow his ways? Do you slam the door in God's face and reject his presence? How do you respond?

You can reply to this email and tell me what you're thinking.

I invite you to meet with us this weekend to worship God, to grow in our knowledge and trust of God, and to tell others good news about

Pray this prayer with me: Heavenly Father, you say that you seek us to have a relationship with us. Help us see you when you show up. Help us respond with respect and willingness to trust you, in Jesus' name. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter July 28

Fri, 28 Jul 2023 13:24:18 GMT

Your Words, God's Power
Speak with God's Authority

“God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light.”

Just like God, when you speak, you create. Words have creative power.

God spoke and created what we know as reality. We were created in the image of God. Therefore, we also create when we speak. Think about it: What you say to others changes their reality. That’s a big idea. Let’s boil it down to something very practical.

The apostle Peter entered the city of Lydda and saw Aeneas who had been paralyzed for eight years. With authority that comes from God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, Peter spoke, “Aeneas, Jesus Christ heals you! Get up and roll up your sleeping mat.” Instantly he was healed. When the townspeople saw Aeneas walking, they turned to the Lord.

We have that same authority, so let’s use it. We see people every day who suffer. Let’s boldly call out evil, announce forgiveness of sin through Jesus, and heal all kinds of sickness and disease. That’s what Jesus did. So shall we.

I hope you’ll join us this weekend to worship God who gives us unending mercy, grace, and power for living an eternal life.

Pray this prayer with me: Heavenly Father, Creator of all, you overwhelm us with who you are and who you created us to be. Forgive our ignorance and unwillingness to believe and trust you. We confess our need for you and we dedicate ourselves to the work that Jesus gives to us: to teach your ways, to announce good news that Jesus forgives our sin, and to heal all kinds of sickness and disease. In His name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter July 21

Fri, 21 Jul 2023 18:25:08 GMT

Need a Fierce Conversation with God?
Do You Hear God Calling You?

“Fierce conversations” are required in the business world, but we need them in every-day relationships, too. A "fierce conversation" is not an angry conversation. Rather, it's one that deals honestly, openly, truthfully, and seeks to bring out the best in a relationship. That often requires a lot of courage and skill. The very first fierce conversation happened between God and Adam and Eve.

It started when God searched for Adam when he asked, "Where are you?" Adam hid, but then decided to engage. Because of that first fierce conversation, God began his plan to save all of humanity from our rebellion against God.

Another fierce conversation was between Ananias and God. God told Ananias to visit, pray for, and heal Saul, who was a known killer. Ananias replied, “But God...” and then whined that it was too dangerous.

God replied in like manner and said, “But Ananias…”

Who do you think prevailed in that conversation? Of course it was God. Ananias obeyed God’s instruction even though it didn’t make sense. Ananias wasn’t ignorant of the danger, but he trusted God and did it anyway. God blesses us all because Ananias obeyed. You can read the story in Acts 9 .

Is God asking you to do something that makes little human sense? Is God’s request in line with God’s will? If so, then trust and obey. If you'll let me, I’ll be glad to pray with you and “walk” with you through whatever God asks. You can reply to this email to tell me about it.

Fierce conversations with God are often the best conversations. So go ahead and have one today.

Here’s a prayer to start:

Gracious and loving God, you are awesome because you not only ask us to do things that go against human wisdom, you teach, empower, and equip us to do them. With you, we are never alone. With you we gain courage, skill, and wisdom. Thank you for choosing us to do amazing things. So let’s go do them in Jesus’ name! Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter July 7

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 14:34:38 GMT

Get the Ripest Sweet Corn in the Store
(and you don't even have to shuck it!)

Here’s how you can always get the ripest sweet corn.

When sweet corn is mature, ripe and ready to eat, the tip of the ear comes to a short blunt end rather than a long tapered end. You can feel it by sliding your fingers up the ear of corn and feel how it tapers. If the ear suddenly ends, then it's ready to eat. If you feel a gradual taper, put it back and try another ear. (Now the produce manager is going to hate me.) Maybe that didn’t make any sense to you, but next time you’re at the store, compare ears of corn. You’ll soon discover how to pick the best from the bin.

You’re welcome.

I was thinking about Jesus saying, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.” I wondered, How do we know when people are ready to hear about Jesus? Here are a few answers:

When they are stressed.

When they are scared.

When they are in need.

When they are sad.

When they are confused.

When they are discouraged.

When they experience a life-stage transition--a wedding, new job, graduation, birth, death in the family, etc.

You can add to the list. Do you know anyone like that? First, pray for them. Second, pray for the right words or actions to show God’s love. Third, speak and act as the Holy Spirit guides you. You are the worker to see the harvest and offer them Christ.

Let’s pray:

Dear Jesus, sometimes it’s easy to see how you want us to show and tell others of your mercy, love, forgiveness, and purpose. Fill us with your Holy Spirit so that we will share your truth whenever and wherever we see someone ready to experience you. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.n Jesus' name, let it be so. (That means "Amen.")

I'd love to hear how God used you today in small but extraordinary ways. Please email me and tell me.

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Weekly Newsletter June 30

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 14:28:25 GMT

How to Be Extraordinary
Stay Ordinary. God Gives the Extra.

If everyone was extraordinary, we'd all be ordinary. So how do we stand out against all that competition?
Too often I compare myself with others and that limits my extraordinary functioning. I simply need to be the best me I can be. I do that by remembering who I am in God's eyes. Let me explain:

Stephen was an ordinary guy who was selected to manage the distribution of food to women, children, and orphans so that everyone had what they needed. But he was also filled with God's wisdom and grace. That made the difference from ordinary to extraordinary. With God, Stephen was able to command miracles, signs of God's power, and wonders. The people were in awe. Read about Stephen in Acts 6 .

God uses ordinary people to do extraordinary things for the Kingdom of God. And God desires to work through you today. Will you allow Him to send His Holy Spirit so that your ordinary day will become extraordinary?

Let's pray this prayer together:
Heavenly Father, thank you for choosing to use me to make a difference for You. I open myself to be filled with your Holy Spirit. Do in me what you want. Use me how you will. Let others see you through me today. In Jesus' name, let it be so. (That means "Amen.")

I'd love to hear how God used you today in small but extraordinary ways. Please email me and tell me.

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Weekly Newsletter May 26

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 18:29:05 GMT

Remember and Celebrate
"In Remembrance of Me"

Do you remember when ... ?

Who comes to you mind when you hear that question?

Memorial Day is a powerful time to remember, celebrate, and inspire. Remember Jesus' words to his followers: "Do this in remembrance of me." Many churches have those words engraved on an altar or communion table at the center of their worship space.

With that command, Jesus tells us to do much more than just recall a brief memory of a person or event. The word actually means "to make a past experience a present reality."

When we take communion and follow Jesus' instructions to "Do this in remembrance of me," we bring the effect of Jesus' death and resurrection into our present reality. We trust that through our remembrance, we re-enact Jesus sitting with us. We see him break the bread, a sign of his body being sacrificed for the forgiveness of our sins. We celebrate the victory that Jesus won and he gives the same victory to us because he has risen from the grave. To remember is to celebrate.

As we remember our loved ones this weekend, we celebrate their lives and the sacrifice they made so that we can live in freedom. Though grief may bring sadness and tears, we celebrate their lives and we rejoice again.

By our trust in Jesus, we experience forgiveness, new life, and the hope of everlasting life. Remember that and let's celebrate!

Pray with me: Dear Jesus, Bring back to us memories of loved ones so that we may experience the good times with them again. To those for whom grief is fresh and harsh, we ask you to give peace, comfort, and courage to trust themselves to you and your care. Come and be a real presence in our lives today. In Jesus' name. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter June 16

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 18:51:46 GMT

How to Get Courage
For I am with you wherever you go!"

“Be strong and courageous!” God instructed Joshua, who had the job of leading a million or so people after their forty year journey out of slavery. They had experienced slavery for four hundred years!

It was a huge task.

This weekend our nation remembers and celebrates that on June 19, 1865, Union soldiers finally announced freedom to slaves in Galveston, Texas. They had been freed more than two years earlier, but they did not know they were free. We celebrate “Juneteenth” now as a national holiday. Abraham Lincoln understood the size of his task to free the slaves. And former slaves quickly understood the challenges of their freedom. We celebrate those who live in freedom, and we work for justice for those who remain enslaved and under the oppression of slavery.

Justice work requires courage. Joshua’s source of courage comes not from within himself, or from a magical potion, or incantation. It comes from the presence of God.

“Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go!” Joshua 1:1-10. Ask God to be present with you. Confess your reluctance or failure to follow God and give yourself to act according to his teachings. Let's work together to do that. That's why we gather to pray, worship, and encourage one another.

Please pray with me:

Dear God, Creator of all people, we rejoice in the life you give us. We seek your presence. Forgive us for ignoring and disbelieving you. As w e turn back to you, receive us and because we will experience your wonderful presence and love, we will fear nothing and have great courage to do your will. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter June 9

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 18:48:19 GMT

How to Sail Through Life
"They were filled with the Holy Spirit"

Change is hard for most of us. Sometimes we don’t even know what to change, nor do we know how to change. But if we want to sail through this life, we need God's help.

God gives us his Holy Spirit, who is God present with us in our own spirits. The Holy Spirit gives us wisdom, desire, and energy to do what God desires for us. The Holy Spirit turns our hearts towards God and others. God’s plan for us always leads to life. We must live life filled with God's Holy Spirit.

I’m not a sailor, and I don’t play one on TV. But I hear that if you want to move through the water, you’ve got to raise your sail. I've watched sailors, and they never stop moving. They are always doing something so that the boat catches the wind, that God created.

Movement is change, and if we want to move through life, we’ve got to do a few things to catch the movement of God.

Scripture reveals God's truth to us. It is trustworthy. That’s a great place to start.

God teaches us and gives us power to follow him and to experience new life forever. Let’s meet to spur one another in the great things for God.

Will you pray with me?

Heavenly Father, we cannot live without your presence, for you created us all. You breathed life into all humanity, and every one of us needs you to keep breathing that life in us. We commit ourselves to be faithful to your ways, through Jesus, our Savior. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter June 3

Sat, 03 Jun 2023 18:39:51 GMT

How to Play the Part Made for You
You Have a Purpose. God has the Plan.

Quarterback, Receiver, or Kicker?
Pitcher, Catcher, or Shortstop?
Lead, Understudy, or Swing?

Whether you're part of a sports team, band, or cast member of a show, you've got to know your part. It's the same in life. Two essential life-questions we must constantly ask are

1. Who am I? and

2. What am I doing here?

If we can’t answer those questions on any day, we’re probably not fulfilling our purpose. These questions keep us grounded and remind us of our value throughout life.

God has great purpose for every person at every stage of life, and when we give ourselves to Jesus, he gives us both our purpose and the power to live in it.

This summer at CtC, we’ll explore the Bible to see how Jesus transforms and empowers many people from the Book of Acts. Each one has a crucial role to play in the Kingdom of God. So do you.

Invite a neighbor, co-worker, friend or family member to join us we love, serve, and engage people with the good and transforming message of Jesus!

Will you pray with me?

Heavenly Father, I know you have a part for me to play in your great Kingdom. I trust you with my life, and I seek to follow you, to know your plans for me. Fill me with your Holy Spirit, guide me in the direction that is good and right, and I will gladly serve others in Jesus’ name as you guide me. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter May 12

Fri, 12 May 2023 18:22:24 GMT

How Do These Jeans Look ?
Over all, put on love!

Whatever you do, answer that question with love!

Pilots wear uniforms.
Surgeons wear scrubs, gloves, caps, and shoe covers in the operating room.
Firefighters wear heavy coats, boots, helmets, gloves and oxygen masks.

Christians wear love.

“Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.” This kind of love shows deep respect and appreciation for the other person with no conditions, and it results in perfect harmony.

Today, I had a conflict with a store employee. I’m stubborn, and we both got a little heated but neither of us said anything that I would consider un-loving. After I left the store, I wondered if I did the “respectful” and “loving” thing. Some wise friends helped me reflect on the conversation, and encouraged me. I prayed and asked God to help me sort through these kinds of encounters so that I can always express respect with no conditions.

This unconditional love is possible only when we receive it from God who loves all people unconditionally. Jesus showed such love often and especially through his death and resurrection He offers forgiveness to us all. I pray that you will trust that God loves and forgives you so that you may be able to show the same respect, appreciation, care, and appropriate affection to everyone you meet.

Let’s pray this prayer together: Dear Jesus, relationships are difficult, but we can’t live life as you designed without healthy relationships at home, at work, in our communities, and in the world. Fill us with your unconditional love so that we may love all people as you love us. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter May 5

Fri, 05 May 2023 19:38:58 GMT

Who Is Mr. Irrelevant?
God Has Chosen You!

"Mr. Irrelevant" is the player picked last in the NFL Draft.

Imagine the excitement of young men, having dreamed since they were boys to play in the NFL. They finally get to draft day and think, "This is my shot!" Their families cheer for them to get picked and wait impatiently for the next announcement.

And the next. And the next. Until the last is picked. Would you be disappointed to be last?

This year's Mr. Irrelevant is Desjuan Johnson, now a defensive lineman for the Los Angeles Rams. When asked about being picked last, he replied, "Just getting picked, final pick, first pick, middle pick, ... I'm very blessed. I was blessed that God picked and I'm blessed that I can continue to play the game that I love and I'm going to give it my all up there on the field and at practice."

His attitude is perfect!.

Many of us know what it's like to be picked last. Speaking from experience, it's not fun, but you get used to it. (Charlie Brown agrees with me.) Desjuan Johnson, was just glad to be chosen. That's important.

Remember that God has chosen you! And not last. God chose you even before you were born. The apostle Paul announces this:

"Since God has chosen us to be the holy people he loves...." Let that sink in. You are chosen. You have purpose. Your life has meaning. Therefore, Paul continues, "Clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other's faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others." (Colossians 3:12-13)

Heavenly Fa t her, we are amazed to think that even before we were born you chose us to live here now and forever. Forgive us for our sins that block the life you intend for us. We thank you for your Son, Jesus, through whom we are forgiven. Fill us with your Holy Spirit, cleanse our hearts, minds, souls, and heal our bodies so that we may gladly serve you until all people come to know your never ending love. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter April 28

Fri, 28 Apr 2023 19:13:43 GMT

Ancient Rocks and Old Sins
Jesus Always Gives New Life

Carolyn and I had a wonderful time after Easter visiting our friends Stephen and Debbie Scholes in England. We saw many, many old and ancient stones that made me reflect with wonder.

At Conwy Castle in Wales, I especially noticed new life bursting out of the ancient rocks. I took this picture to remind me of the new life we have in Christ.

When I remember my past mistakes, big or small, that memory cannot choke out the power of God. By the grace and work of Jesus, I am forgiven. So are you! Ancient rocks can't keep flowers from thriving, and our old sinful ways of life can't keep Jesus from giving us new life. Jesus died on the cross to forgive every sin of every person for all time. Praise God. Now, we need to live in that truth.

The apostle Paul urges us; therefore, “Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him.” Colossians 3:10. Pastor Bill and Daniel Carroll gave great messages while I was away about putting off our sinful nature that brings the reality of God’s wrath upon humanity. That old life must be replaced with new life.

This weekend, we’ll continue our series, “Raised to Live,” and we'll explore what it means to “learn to know your Creator and become like him.” I hope you’ll join me and invite a friend who God leads you to bring.

Dear Jesus, you are amazing because you have defeated death and the power of sin in our lives. Too often we don’t live by your power and we fail to experience the new life you give us. Once again, forgive us. Strengthen us. Heal us. Teach us to follow you. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter April 21

Fri, 21 Apr 2023 19:07:33 GMT

How to Turn Anger to Good
"I can't take any more!"

When was the last time you decided, “I just can’t take any more!”

Some people get angry quickly. We call them “hot heads.” Other’s have “slow fuses” and simmer for a while before acting on their anger. Just reading the newspaper or listening to the news can make people angry. Anger is a powerful emotion that God created us to experience.

God also experiences anger. One difference between our human anger and God’s anger is that God’s anger is always righteous and causes God to act for good rather than evil. Yes, even in the Old Testament when we see many people die because of God’s anger, the greater plan is to restore humanity rather than to destroy it.

This weekend, our message looks at God’s anger as a reality that intends to move us toward life and away from death.

Colossians 3:6 says plainly, “Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming.” It’s a fair waring. God’s anger is real, but you can trust that the outcome of God’s anger is to give and prolong life rather than destroy it.

God loves you. God desires you to have full and abundant life now and forever. He sent his son, Jesus, not to condemn us but to save us from ourselves.

I hope you’ll trust that and join us this weekend to give thanks, to celebrate Jesus, and to encourage one another in God’s presence.

Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for forgiving the sins of all people. Help us to proclaim that forgiveness so that all people will recognize you as the source of life and the one who restores us to new and eternal life. In Jesus’ name we ask this. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter April 13

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 19:02:36 GMT

How to Win by Giving Up
Real Life Requires Death

You won’t believe it until you do it. And when you do it, you’ll discover the truth and the power of it. What is it? Conscious surrender.

To win in sports, for example, athletes must learn to surrender. Consider what every elite athlete (which you know I am not!) must learn to surrender to:

The alarm clock, for early morning workouts and when it’s time to sleep.
The coach, who will quit if the athlete does not follow the coach’s instructions and teaching
Pain, because pain is a natural and necessary experience to grow and improve strength and skill
Fear, so that the athlete can do things they thought they could not do
Fans, so that the noise from the bleachers brings encouragement instead of distraction

If you’re an athlete, you may think of even more times when giving up control to other people or forces brings growth, opportunity, and success.

Now let’s apply the truth of surrender to all of life, especially spiritually. After all, surrender is a spiritual activity.

Jesus said, “If you cling to your life, you will lose it, and if you let your life go, you will save it.” (Luke 17:33) Surrender is a skill that we must learn if we are to experience the fullness of life now and forever.

Surrendering to Jesus is far more than just winning a game or a trophy. It’s winning life that begins now and lasts forever.

I urge to find new life by surrendering to Jesus and follow his coaching, his instruction, and his guidance. You’ll be amazed what changes in your life. You will win life forever.

Dear Jesus, the idea of giving up control of my life seems unreasonable. How can dying lead to life? The only way to find out is to trust you. Jesus, we believe. Help our unbelief. Amen

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Weekly Newsletter April 7

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 18:53:34 GMT

Are You Going Where You're Watching?
Fix Your Hopes on Jesus

Starting on Easter, we'll be considering the effects of Jesus' resurrection in our lives. What difference does Jesus make to me? If you're wondering, come join us. Here's a quick story about one of the effects in our lives. Jesus changes our focus.

My dad loved family car rides. With the family nestled in the station-wagon, he’d lead us over hills and across valleys in upstate New York looking at anything we could see. That meant his eyes were not always on the road. But Mom’s eyes were.

“Larry! Watch where you’re going!” She’d yell.

“Oops!” He’d reply as he jerked the car back into the right lane. Then he’d say with a very slight tone of embarrassed confession, “I guess I was going where I was looking instead of looking where I was going.”

You could feel Mom's irritation seething, but I never heard her taunt sarcastically, “Do you think? Keep your eyes on the road."

We read in the Bible, “Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand.” –Colossians 3:1

Jesus, having been raised from the dead, changes everything. By trusting him enough to live as he says, Jesus gives us new vision for our lives, new hopes, new desires, and all of it comes from our focus on Jesus. He is the one who gives us new life.

We celebrate Him this Easter, and we’ll be talking about what his resurrection means for us. Please ask a friend to join you as we celebrate Jesus together.

Jesus our New-Life-Giver, thank y ou for submitting yourself unto death. We like to think we don't need you, but we do. We pray for our family, friends, and neighbors who do not trust you. Fill us with your love, like bright light, to shine through so everyone can see how glorious, loving, and powerful you are until every knee shall bow that you are Lord of all. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter April 1

Sat, 01 Apr 2023 18:37:13 GMT

How to Listen to God in a World of Clamor
You Were Created With Ears to Hear

You are amazing! God created you that way. And I thank God for you. One of your amazing features is your ears! (Really?) Yes. Let's use them for a moment: Take ten seconds to be quiet. One Mississippi, two Mississippi, three ... Did you hear anything? Most likely. Only a few of us live in complete silence, and even that is a great adjustment to make.

God created us to hear. That's obvious. But not so obvious is that we were created to hear God too. As we learn more about prayer, we'll practice the art of listening to God. For now, just give thanks to God that you can hear.

Ears to hear and eyes to see--both are gifts from the Lord. (Proverbs 20:12)

Learning to listen to God in the midst of a world of noise is tricky, to say the least. One strategy is simply to slow down, set aside a few moments, and to focus on God. Another strategy is God's Word. The Bible is also God speaking to us. Take time to hear God today. Get in a calm, quiet spot, and read a few verses from the Bible. Try Psalm 64 if you don't know what to read. I'll be glad to talk with you and answer any questions or just have some conversation. Email, text, or call me!

Our loving Creator, thank you for ears to hear. We ask for your power to bring hope to this world. Free our friends and neighbors from addiction. Provide food, shelter, and safety to those who need. Thank you for your long-suffering mercy and grace, through Jesus, our Lord. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter March 18

Sat, 18 Mar 2023 18:31:40 GMT

How to Hear God's Silence
When Prayers Are Not Answered

Three bright, wise, and trusted community leaders devoted themselves to follow God's ways. When the King demanded that everyone worship him as if he were God, they refused. As punishment, the King ordered them to be thrown into the furnace alive.

The furnace was no threat. The three declared bravely, "We do not need to defend ourselves before the King. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God whom we serve is able to save us."

Bound and thrown into the fire, the three still believed God would save them. When the King saw them walking around in the fire, he was astounded. He saw four men in the fire, and the fourth actually looked like a god! God did save the three! You can read the whole story in the Bible's book of Daniel, chapter 3.

We may often pray for God's help but we don't see it coming. It's as if God is silent, and we wo nder if he has even heard us. Is God even there? Does God even care?

God's silence does NOT mean God is absent. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abnedgo (the three wise young leaders) knew that too. Their story reminds us to keep trusting that God is working even when we don’t see it. God did not show up until they were in the middle of the flames. In our lives, we may not see or hear God's answer to our prayers until we're already in the operating room, or even after the therapy ends. Or in the courtroom, or even the prison.

Don't stop praying! Don't close your ears to God or his Word in the Bible. Trust what he’s already said. Keep listening. Keep seeking. That’s how to hear God’s silence.

In the end, King Nebuchadnezzar made another demand: "There is no other god who can rescue like this! Anyone who speaks against the God of these three men will be torn from limb to limb!" Even Nebuchadnezzar changed his mind. So can the strongest and proudest among us today. There is no other God who can rescue, heal, guide, provide, save, lead, and give life like the God of the Bible, who came to us as Jesus and dwells in our hearts as the Holy Spirit.

Great God of Heaven, thank you for coming to forgive us through Jesus who died on the cross. Thank you for coming to us as the Holy Spirit who lives in our hearts. Continue to restore us, guide us, teach us. Help us to love others as you love us. Help us to give ourselves sacrificially, as Jesus did, so that all people may experience your life-changing love. In His name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter March 14

Tue, 14 Mar 2023 18:25:14 GMT

Church Conference Vote Results

With gratitude for everyone who came to vote, I want to announce the results.

218 votes were cast.
213 Yes
5 No

The resolution to disaffiliate from the United Methodist Church was approved by 98% of the votes.

This marks a significant point in the life of Christ the Cornerstone. When any relationship breaks up, there are always mixed feelings. We pray for all who voted, and we trust God to continue to guide us.

Christ the Cornerstone remains committed to love God and all people, to serve God and all people, and to engage all people with the good message of Jesus Christ. We have much work to do still because people in our world need not only to hear the message but to experience God's life-changing love.

Remember Romans 1:16: "I am not ashamed of the good message of Jesus because it is the power of God for the salvation of all people."

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Weekly Newsletter March 12

Sun, 12 Mar 2023 18:21:21 GMT

Breathe Life!
Praise God for Breath of Life?

My best days start with a deep breath and as I exhale, I say, “Thank you, Jesus! Good morning!” I’m a bit embarrassed to say this because it’s so simple: “You can’t talk while inhaling.” My point is also simple, we can’t live life without first receiving it from God who breathes his own breath into us to give us life.

At creation, God breathed life into “the man.” That man first received the breath of God and only then could he breath out and speak. We don’t live life unless we first receive it from God. It’s a simple and powerful fact. (But some will argue that point with me.)

Here’s another time God breathed life back into dead and dry bones:

This is what the Sovereign LORD says to these bones: I will make breath enter you, and you will come to life. I will attach tendons to you and make flesh come upon you and cover you with skin; I will put breath in you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the LORD. – Ezekiel 37:5-6

Take a deep breath right now. On the way out, let it say, “Thank you, Jesus!”Dear Jesus, after you were raised from the dead, you met with your disciples. You huddled them together and said, "Peace I give to you." and you breathed on them and said, "Receive the Holy Spirit." We can do nothing in any day without you giving us life every moment. Fill us today with your Holy Spirit so that the fruit of your presence will burst forth from our lives. In Your Holy Name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter March 3

Fri, 03 Mar 2023 19:06:06 GMT

This Riddle Is No Joke
A Fish or a Snake?

What…

Knows no end
Always goes beyond what is expected
Feels no burden
Shrugs off all labor
Aims beyond its own strength
Refuses to say, “That’s impossible”
Never fears
Never tires
Never sleeps
Always keeps watch
Always presses on
Endures suffering
And much, much, more?

Answer: God’s love.

“If any of you were asked by his son for bread would you be likely to give him a stone, or if he asks for a fish would you give him a snake? If you then, for all your evil, quite naturally give good things to your children, how much more likely is it that your Heavenly Father will give good things to those who ask him?” Matthew 7:9-11

God loves you. Accept it. He gives good gifts to those who ask.

Pray to God with faith in Jesus.
Keep it simple.
Keep it real.
Keep it up.

Dear Jesus, we need you in our lives. Thank you for showing God’s love to us through your sacrifice and forgiving us for failing to live as we were created to live. We’ve all missed that mark. Now come and teach us. Help us follow your ways and love all people. In your name we pray. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Feb. 24

Fri, 24 Feb 2023 17:56:45 GMT

Do You Know How to Pray?
Jesus, teach us to pray.

Why Pray?

Because just like a baby is created to bond with mom, dad, brother, sister, and friends, we all are created to have a strong, life-giving, and life-sustaining relationship with God. He is our Heavenly Father and like no parent or friend on earth. His love and justice endure forever. Prayer is how we talk with him.

How Can we pray? Here’s a very simple pattern to follow to P.R.A.Y.

Pause. Slow down. Stop. Take a breath. Look, listen, and see that God is powerful, loving, and good. You don’t have to speak yet. Just quiet yourself in God’s presence. Let God place a few thoughts in your mind.
Rejoice. Now think and tell God "thanks" for whatever you are sensing. It doesn’t have to be profound. What are you grateful for? You could thank God for the building you’re in, or the rocks on the ground. Just give God some praise.
Ask. Now ask God what is on your heart. Are you anxious? Ask him to calm your heart and mind. Hurt? Ask for healing. Someone else needs help? Ask God to supply their needs.
Yield. Give God the opportunity to lead you. Be willing to follow God and tell him so. Let him go first and commit to follow him.

Jesus is God who became a man. He gave his life on the cross to overcome the consequences of sin, which is eternal death and separation from God. When we connect with God through our trust in Jesus, we experience God.

Jesus meets us in prayer and we can trust him with our lives. So let's

Pause
Rejoice
Ask
Yield

Let’s meet together this weekend so we can encourage each other to follow Jesus.

Heavenly Father, I pause. [Pause for dramatic--and prayerful--effect!] Even for just a moment.
I sense your powerful presence, and I thank you that you are here. Now. Give the reader of this prayer your presence and peace. I let you lead my life all for the sake and glory of Jesus, the savior of the world. Amen

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Weekly Newsletter Feb. 17

Fri, 17 Feb 2023 17:12:56 GMT

God's Trombones at the Super Bowl
Honoring Our Black History

Moments before kick-off, singer Sheryl Lee Ralph sang "Lift Every Voice and Sing!" also known in America as the Black National Anthem. James Weldon Johnson wrote the lyrics and his brother J. Rosamond Johnson wrote the music. J. W. Johnson also wrote a small book of poetry titled, God's Trombones. These two works tell two stories: the struggle of Black Americans and the goodness of God. Praise God that He is proclaimed across our land:

Lift every voice and sing,
’Til earth and heaven ring,
Ring with the harmonies of Liberty;
Let our rejoicing rise
High as the listening skies,
Let it resound loud as the rolling sea.
Sing a song full of the faith that the dark past has taught us,
Sing a song full of the hope that the present has brought us;
Facing the rising sun of our new day begun,
Let us march on ’til victory is won.

Stony the road we trod,
Bitter the chastening rod,
Felt in the days when hope unborn had died;
Yet with a steady beat,
Have not our weary feet
Come to the place for which our fathers sighed.
We have come, over a way that with tears has been watered,
We have come, treading our path through the blood of the slaughtered,
Out from the gloomy past,
’Til now we stand at last
Where the white gleam of our bright star is cast.

God of our weary years,
God of our silent tears,
Thou who has brought us thus far on the way;
Thou who has by Thy might
Led us into the light,
Keep us forever in the path, we pray.
Lest our feet, stray from the places, our God, where we met Thee,
Lest our hearts, drunk with the wine of the world, we forget Thee;
Shadowed beneath Thy hand,
May we forever stand,
True to our God,
True to our native land.

Heavenly Father of all peoples, look upon us all with mercy. Forgive our failures in every generation to live holy lives, as you are a Holy God. Let your strength and compassion cause us to trust in you with our whole mind, body, and soul. Flood our land with your peace and salvation through our faith in Jesus, who is our only savior. Come Holy Spirit. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Feb. 11

Sat, 11 Feb 2023 16:59:46 GMT

John Legend, Choir Director?
Our Black History Honors Perseverance

I almost met John Legend. Carolyn and I had just missed him. In 2004, now-famous singer/song-writer/producer John Legend ended his time directing the choir at Bethel AME Church in Scranton, PA. That same year, the choir director at the church where I was the pastor, just over the mountain from Bethel AME Church, joined the two choirs together for a Christmas program.

At one rehearsal, the ladies of Bethel Church learned Carolyn was the pastor’s wife. Carolyn learned of the endearing and honorable moniker “First Lady” for the first time. Those women honored and respected Carolyn so much that when we became the “First Family” of Christ the Cornerstone, she was glad to receive the honor from this congregation as the First Lady.

I rejoiced when our choirs would sing together this powerful gospel song written by Leonard Burks, Every Day Is Thanksgiving:
Everyday is a day of thanksgiving.
God's been so good to me,
everyday He's blessing me.
Everyday is a day of thanksgiving;
take the time to glorify the Lord today.

I thank God for the moments
when I worship His name,
I thank Him for the sacrifice of praise.
It's no mystery to say,
how my God is everyday;
making my way through clouds so dark,
bringing His light into my heart.

Yes, there's pressures all around me
when fighting Satan's descending powers,
that never cease from trying to bring me down.
But I just lift my hands to glory,
believing in God's redemption story;
thanking Him for His saving grace,
as God gives me power just to win this race.

This month, America remembers our Black History. Richard Allen (founder of the AME Church), Martin Luther King, Jr., and many others have called us to work against injustice of all kinds. But today, I'm particularly remembering the musicians who who carry the tune of redemption, justice, and transformation through faith in Jesus, our Savior.

Our courageous ancestors persevered in order that life may be better for all and sought the same salvation the Jesus won for all people. Their perseverance inspires us all to “press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” (Philippians 3:14)

I never met John Legend. I never met Martin Luther King, Jr. or Richard Allen, but they all have persevered so that I can join with all God's faithful people in worship with great thanksgiving! I hope and pray you'll join me in celebration and dedicate yourself to the purpose for which Jesus died on the cross and calls us, for God's glory.

Heavenly Father of all peoples, we so desperately need you. We have failed to be the people you created us to be. Individually, as families, as citizens of every nation, we need to confess our sins and repent of our ways that lead to death instead of life. Help us. We proclaim the forgiving power of Jesus and in his name we work for the salvation of all people. Come Holy Spirit. Amen.

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Weekly Newsletter Feb. 3

Fri, 03 Feb 2023 16:55:18 GMT

Does Whistling Keep Away Fear?
I Don’t Know, But Jesus Does!

Late one hot summer night, my family needed some ice cream. Mom gave me some money and sent me walking to the convenience store just down the road.

As a confident eight-year old, I started out bravely. My eyes focused on the only two lights I could see. One behind me at my back porch, getting farther away. The other one lit up my goal: the little store with the ice cream.

The only barrier between me and my ice cream was a long dark country road. A lonely pasture stretched out on one side of the road. On the other side was a neighbor’s house. It lay hidden underneath tall maple trees whose branches reached like greedy fingers across the road and over my head. My old neighbor must have been in bed already because everything was dark. My path was now lit up only with the dim blue hue of the moon. And it even looked scary, like the tip of a bony old man’s fingernail.

A heavy humid breeze pressed my cheeks and pushed the tall weeds in the pasture. They waved wave back and forth like a stranger wanting my attention. I suddenly imagined something scary. I knew all the farm animals were quiet in the barn, so I imagined some other kind of horrible creature crouching in the grass. I started to sweat as the hairs on the back of my neck stood stiff. I quickened my pace and slapped my black Convers sneakers on the hot pavement. Surely, I thought, the noise would scare away all danger.

I also began to whistle. Slowly and loudly. That gave my ears something to focus on instead of the rustling weeds and the evil lurking behind every leaf. Finally, I made it to the store. Whew!

“Wimpy” sat behind the counter ready to lock-up because it was nearly closing time. I think his real name was Robert, but everyone called him “Wimpy.” I have no idea why. He didn’t look wimpy to me. I was just a kid.

“We need some ice cream,” I blurted as I panted, catching my breath. I picked out a half-gallon box of ice cream, probably butter-pecan, paid Wimpy and headed back up the street with a lot more confidence. Now I was a survivor and thought surely nothing could get me on the way back home. After all, I had an important task. My family was counting on me. Get home before the ice cream melts. Purpose is empowering!

I remembered that experience when I read about King David in the Bible. David was in a battle. Enemies surrounded him. He cried out to God:

The one thing I ask of the Lord—
the thing I seek most—
is to live in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
delighting in the Lord’s perfections
and meditating in his Temple.
For he will conceal me there when troubles come;
he will hide me in his sanctuary.
He will place me out of reach on a high rock.
Then I will hold my head high
above my enemies who surround me.
At his sanctuary I will offer sacrifices with shouts of joy,
singing and praising the Lord with music.

Psalm 27:4-6

David knew something I had not yet learned when I was 8. Jesus is far better than whistling and running to keep fears away. Jesus does protect and comfort. Place your trust in God through faith in Jesus. He is the one who connects us with God’s almighty power, everlasting love, and hope the endures all circumstances.

Dear Jesus, we face many fears every day. We need your help. A whistle is okay. But you are much better. Remind us to call out to you, like King David did. When we do, you will forgive, guide, and protect us from all harm. Give us faith to trust in you today. Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Jan. 27

Fri, 27 Jan 2023 16:36:33 GMT

Your Eyeglasses Are on Your Head!
Never Stop Looking for God.

We’ve all been there: frantically looking for something only to find it in the most obvious spot. What blinds us?

Stress. Anxiety. Perhaps we’re in a hurry. Maybe we’re angry. Maybe we’re just so eager to do something else that our mind cannot recall where we last placed something. Finally we realize we need help so we ask someone else who’s able to see what we can’t. They say, “They’re right on top of your head.”

Did you notice that?

We can’t see what the other person can see. That’s exactly why we need to seek God. God is always caring, always watching, always searching for us. God sees our lives in a way we cannot. We need God's perspective. We need to hear God say, "Hey, what you're looking for is over here."

Remember the son who demanded his inheritance before his father had died. The son squandered all his wealth and ended up in desperate poverty. The father, back home, watched from the rooftop every day for the son to return. And when he did, there was a great party. Only when the son came to his senses and realized he needed the father did he return home.

Even in ancient days, people looked to God:

The poor will eat and be satisfied.
All who seek the Lord will praise him.
Their hearts will rejoice with everlasting joy.
The whole earth will acknowledge the Lord and return to him.
Psalm 22:25-27

Keep seeking the Lord! And let’s do it together. No one is alone. Join us at Christ the Cornerstone this weekend as we seek God.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Jan. 20

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 16:30:58 GMT

God Is the Greater Creator
God Renews Us

Even in difficult times … — No. Let me say it more forcefully: Especially in difficult times, God works in and through us to experience greater things. He's the greater creator! Here's one example:

Imagine the apostle Paul. Once a murderer of people who believed Jesus died and rose from the dead. After seeing Jesus in person, Paul believed. Years later Paul himself is chained and in prison because of his faith. Yet through the pain, Paul continued to give thanks to God for all circumstances. And so can we. I imagine Paul sitting on the rock-hard floor of a jail cell, cold, maybe even with rodents crawling around him in search of anything to eat. I also imagine Paul reciting Psalms that he learned as a boy. Maybe he recited this one from Psalm 68.

Rise up, O God, and scatter your enemies.
Let those who hate God run for their lives.
Blow them away like smoke.
Melt them like wax in a fire.
Let the wicked perish in the presence of God.
But let the godly rejoice.

Let them be glad in God’s presence.
Let them be filled with joy.
Sing praises to God and to his name!
Sing loud praises to him who rides the clouds.
His name is the Lord—
rejoice in his presence!

Father to the fatherless, defender of widows—
this is God, whose dwelling is holy.
God places the lonely in families;
he sets the prisoners free and gives them joy.
But he makes the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land.

Paul surrendered his life and experiences to God, gave thanks, and rejoiced in God's greater work finished in Jesus, our Savior.

Try this alone or with your family: Draw a line down the center of a blank piece of paper. On the left side, write what you experienced today. Good and bad. Happy and sad. Easy and difficult. Then, across from each event, write, “Thank you, God!” God renews us every day when we trust and follow him. Give thanks to the Lord!

God, our Heavenly Father, we need your hope. We need your peace. We need your power in our lives. In all of today's events, we say, "Thank you, God!" Thank you for loving us. Thank you for leading us. Thank you for providing for us. Now strengthen us to do for others as you have done for us, in Jesus' powerful and Holy name. Amen. Let it be so!

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Dec. 9

Fri, 09 Dec 2022 18:24:18 GMT

Here's One Way God Does Care for You!
God sends messengers to guide us.

Hagar and Ishmael were cast out from their home. The story strikes fear in us as we imagine Hagar watching her teenage child die of thirst and exposure. She knows no help will come, so she awaits his and her own death. Then God hears Ishmael’s cries and brings help. Both Ishmael and his mother live and fulfill God’s promise to them—a nation of descendants. Read about it in Genesis 21 .

Hundreds of years later, God sent angels to guide descendants of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob as they conquered the land God promised them ( Genesis 23:20-23 ). God even sent angels to guide Jesus as he endured temptation by the devil ( Matthew 4:11 ). And God sent angels to rescue Peter from jail. ( Acts 12 )

God created angels to serve God’s purposes, and we receive that help at times when we don’t even know it.

This season I’ve heard stories of angels showing up to rescue people in accidents, falls, and even to help start a car! They are beautiful stories of God caring for us by sending messengers who help.

Remember this: angels are simply messengers. Their arrival might be make surprise us, but the message they bring is the important point because it reveals God’s presence, power, and kindness in our lives. They help us realize that God is real, and that he cares deeply for us. His plan is to bring all people into a peaceful, loving relationship with him, as God always intended.

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Let’s be sure to gather this weekend at Bear or Elsmere campuses to worship, pray together, learn of God’s love and his purpose for our lives.

Heavenly Father, we thank you for loving us so much that you care about our lives here. Send your messengers to announce good news, to warn, and to guide us into your plans and purposes. Give us your strength so that we can also be your messengers where we are needed especially at this time of year. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Nov. 18

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 16:22:59 GMT

Gratitude Is the Great Vaccine
Get Rid of Your Gripes. Get Gratitude

One virus that often infects our homes and families is the virus of complaining. We've all met that person who has nothing positive to say. No one wants to stay around that kind of attitude.

My wife Carolyn is excellent about letting me know when I've been griping and complaining. She can feel my negativity just by the way I turn the door knob as I enter the house. Be sure of this: that last sentence is NOT a complaint! Carolyn makes me a better man, husband, father, and friend. I am grateful for her.

Gratitude is the antidote that stops griping. It's hard to complain when you're grateful. I dare you to try genuinely being grateful while you complain. It doesn't work, and it makes me realize how silly my complaints are to begin with.

"Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ." Philippians 4:6-7

Our Great Loving Heavenly Father: When I complain, I know you don't like it. I hardly even like myself when all I can see is the negative. Forgive me. Thank you for all that you have done for me. First, you love me. Second, you forgive me. Third, you give me a new start over and over. Fourth, you teach me. Fifth, ... [You finish the list and be grateful!] In Jesus' name. Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Weekly Newsletter Nov. 6

Sun, 06 Nov 2022 22:13:07 GMT

Do As I Say, Not As I Do
Every Parent's (Lame) Excuse

would bet that you can remember those words as clearly as I can: “Do as I say, not as I do.” I remember my father saying them to me several times during my childhood. Unfortunately I also remember saying them to my children when they caught me doing something I’d told them not to do. If we’re honest, we’re all like that. Hypocrites. We all fail to do what we intend and even desire to do at times.

“Dear Children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. Our actions will show that we belong to the truth, so we will be confident when we stand before God. Even if we feel guilty, God is greater than our feelings, and he knows everything.”

We know that we are to love others as God loves us, but not one of us does that all the time. We're all guilty of saying one thing and doing another. Therefore, we must trust in God’s love through Jesus, who gave himself as the sacrifice and penalty for our failure to genuinely and truthfully love others.

As we trust in him, we lean on him. We follow him because we trust him. We trust his word. We trust his teaching, and we do it. Then we can love others as God loves us and them. Our whole world is changed. God’s love is greater!

Let’s meet this weekend at Christ the Cornerstone. Be sure to scroll down to see ways you can live your faith as we Love, Serve, and Engage the world with good news about Jesus!

Our Great Loving Heavenly Father: First we thank you for having such great love for us that no matter what we do, you still love us. Secondly, thank you for forgiving us through Jesus' suffering on the cross. We confess our continuing need for you. Come and fill us with your Holy Presence so that we can keep our words and actions in line with your plan for us to love you with our whole heart, soul, mind, and strength; and to love our neighbors as ourselves. Amen.

Roger Frederick
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Men's Breakfast

Fellowship and Discussion
October 29, 7:30AM at
Bear Campus' Celebration Room

Men from both campuses are
welcome to join us for a
fabulous breakfast
and then a time of discussion
on the theme:
"Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table"

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 28

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 21:05:56 GMT

God's Grace Is Greater

A few months back my husband tried to be helpful while I prepared the family meal. He decided to clean up the mess I made. He began by wiping the vegetable scraps off the cutting board. He wiped the table down, and then he threw out the mayonnaise jar.

“There’s still some in there! What are you doing?” I blurted out. He quickly held up the jar to look inside and replied, "There isn’t anything in here. Besides, you have a new jar right there on the table.” I mumbled, "There is a little left," while he shrugged his shoulders and just walked away.

Later I realized that to him the jar was empty, and probably most people would have agreed. But I'm different. I NEVER throw out a jar when I can scrape at least a tablespoon of mayonnaise out. I would add just a few more ingredients and make a great salad dressing or add it to something else I was preparing.

My husband was correct. I did have another jar of mayonnaise on the table. I wondered where I got that from, but it really doesn’t matter. There was no need to save the last scrapings of mayonnaise. I was focused on the wrong thing. I not only had an extra jar of mayonnaise on the table, but I’m pretty sure I had one in the pantry too. Not to mention the market is only ten minutes away. I worried more about the little mayo left in the jar instead of realizing how helpful my husband had been. I could have thanked him for helping me and asked him to perhaps set the table, but instead I was focused on the mayonnaise and didn’t take advantage of the gift (help) he was offering me.

I’ve learned as a Christian I lack nothing, yet the little mayonnaise incident is similar to how I live my life at times. I spend it focusing on small mistakes or trying to save something I don’t need when I lack nothing. I was given a gift. I have the unlimited grace of God; but I don’t always take full advantage of the gift I have received. I have the unlimited resource to live a life that is full of love and hope. I can press towards the mark of the high calling of Jesus Christ, yet there are many times when I just go along with people who don't care about Jesus' calling. I act as if I can run out of God's mercy. The truth is there is no limit. I can always experience God’s unchanging love. I can challenge myself to do greater things. I can always improve.

The Bible says in Ephesians 2:4-5; "But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!)" God grace is indeed greater.

Let me offer this prayer. Dear God, thank you for your wonderful gift of grace and righteousness. Thank you for allowing us to win over sin. Because you are our father we lack nothing, and we can daily triumph over sin and live a life rich in love. Teach us to lean and depend on you so we can enjoy the gift you have given us. In Jesus name. Amen.

April Loper-Brown
Children's Ministry Director

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Fellowship and Discussion
October 29, 7:30AM at
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fabulous breakfast
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Weekly Newsletter April 30

Sat, 22 Oct 2022 14:59:05 GMT

Is Your Trash Stuck in the Dumpster?
Give Thanks and Let it Go!

Worry is trash. It does us no good. In fact, doctors and psychologists warn of both the physical and mental damages caused by worry. We can worry about lots of things, like our own health. We worry about having enough money. We worry about getting our work done in time and doing it well. We worry about our children, or our parents, or our pets. Worrying is like swimming against a strong current and getting nowhere. Worry dumps all kinds of thoughts and feelings in our minds and spirit that we have no use for or control over. They stack up and overwhelm us.

When we worry, we need help.

I recently caught myself even using prayer as an excuse for worrying. Sounds crazy, right? Let me explain. My daughter recently got married, but a month before the wedding, she and her fiance still did not have a place to live after the wedding. I worried about how they would get by. They both needed jobs. They had weak credit, so leasing offices wouldn’t accept their application. I took it to prayer, “Oh God, please provide for Emily and DJ.” And then, “Oh God! Please help Emily find a job that will provide for them.” And again, “Oh God! They really need a place before March 1.” And my prayers continued to plead with God.

That’s not all bad, after all. God does want us to tell him our needs. But I was not letting go of my concern and trusting God. When I finished my prayers, I never felt God’s peace. I held on to the anxiety wondering if God would actually do what he promises—to care for us, to lead us, to provide, to teach, etc. All those things would help Emily and DJ. But I held on to the anxiety as if I didn’tbelieve God would actually help. That was my problem. I didn’t pray with faith. God convicted me. So I changed my prayer. Instead of pleading with God to help, I began to speak words of thanks and gratitude as if God had already provided what they needed. Guess what? When I finished the prayer of gratitude for what God would do and thank him

in advance, my worry ran away. I filled my dumpster with thanks and praise instead of faithless appeals. My thinking about God changed from thinking of him as a good luck charm, or a lucky rabbit’s foot, or a Genie’s bottle, to being a person who hears and acts far beyond my own abilities.

Do you worry? Are you casting your cares upon Jesus? Are you replacing them with Jesus’ cares and concerns, which are easy to carry rather than our own burdens that suck life right out of us?

Give thanks for what God is doing. Change your prayers and speak as if God is already and perhaps even completed his good work in you!
“The Holy Spirit is God’s guarantee that he will give us the inheritance he promised and that he has purchased us to be his own people. He did this so we would praise and glorify him.”

Give thanks. Praise our ever-loving God, Jesus.

Pastor Roger

Here is a prayer for you:

Heavenly Father, thank you for seeing, knowing, and hearing every care and concern we think, feel, and speak. Through our trust in Jesus, who defeated death on the cross, we thank you for forgiving our sins, filling us with your Holy Spirit, your Holy Presence, and confirming our hope to everlasting life. Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

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Weekly Newsletter Oct. 14

Fri, 14 Oct 2022 23:37:59 GMT

Know God, Love God, Love Others
Love Your Neighbor as You Love Your Self

"The second is equally important: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' No other commandment is greater than these." -- Mark 12:31

When you read this scripture, what does the word "neighbor" mean to you? Do you think of it in its literal sense like, next-door neighbor? I often do! But Jesus meant that we should love everyone--those in need, those who we call friend, those who are our relations, and yes, even those have wronged us, which is not an easy thing to do.

I remember once seeing a movie on the life of Christ. The scene was the Sermon on the Mount. A tax collector ran to Jesus and asked him, "How can I see everyone as my neighbor especially when they despise me for taking their money?" Jesus explained that everyone who asks for mercy will be shown love.

Jesus teaches us to love God then we can love others. It is the first and great Commandment. The tax collector made many enemies but found mercy through Jesus. Jesus loved the taxed collector and that tax collector began to love his neighbor. All of them. I'm sure everything changed in his life, including his business practices. God's love changes us so we can love all people.

Heavenly Father, we love and adore You. You bless us each and every day, yet we don't deserve those blessings. You love us more than we can ever imagine when we're doing right or wrong. You forgive us before we even pray for forgiveness and when we forget to pray for forgiveness -- Your love never changes. It always reaches us. Thank you Lord for Your unconditional love and help us to be faithful in our love to you. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

Lynne Poindexter

Serving Ministries Director

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Stephen & Debbie Scholes, from northern England, have served our Lord as missionaries, church planters, evangelists and pastors. Their experiences of the joys and pains of life, of wonderous miracles and the depths of grief, all reveal the amazing and life-changing love of Jesus. Stephen and Debbie will be with us Oct 6-16. Pray that God will use their time with us to inspire and instruct us as we see Greater Things in Jesus' name.

Connect with others to learn, pray, and encourage one another to follow Jesus. Contact Crissy Carroll to get connected with an existing group or consider beginning a new group. ccarroll@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 30

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 23:32:38 GMT

Ian's Rain, Like God's Mercy, Pours Down
Imagine How Much More

We certainly pray for friends, family, and strangers who have endured, suffered, and still wait in the path of Hurricane Ian. I encourage you to pray for their safety and restoration. We will all likely be called upon to respond somehow to the need that follows this destructive storm.

I was staggered to see the bottom of the Gulf of Mexico where the normal water level had be drained away by low tide and strong winds. Can you imagine a giant bucket falling out of heaven, scooping up the ocean, only to pour it out over the land, homes, and creatures nearby?! It's quite astounding. But that appears to be what happened.

I do not minimize the destruction or the danger or the task of recovering from such a storm. I do want to remind us all of the immense love and mercy of God, which like Ian's rain, falls upon all humanity. I've been reading Romans 5:15-20 in which Paul discusses the devastation of sin among humanity. He says, "Where sin increased, grace abounded all the more!" We need an immense outpouring of God's love. We need his power that is far greater than that of this storm. His power restores life and makes it eternal.

My prayer today is that you, first of all, rejoice in God's great mercy and kindness through Jesus Christ. Then I pray that you will be moved by God's Holy Presence to help when asked, pray when moved, and serve when needed.

Look below for a few ways that you can increase your awareness of God's grace in your life. Join us for worship and let's love God together, serve others in Jesus' name, and engage everyone who will listen with the good news about Jesus!

Pastor Roger

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

CtC gladly shares with Urban Promise because of your generosity and faithfulness to give. You have contributed $1000 to this year's Paddle for Promise campaign and we pray God continues to transform lives through their meaningful ministry.

Connect with others to learn, pray, and encourage one another to follow Jesus. Contact Crissy Carroll to get connected with an existing group or consider beginning a new group. ccarroll@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 16

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 23:26:50 GMT

What Am I to Do?
I Need a Change of Heart

As I read my Bible today, I remembered a classmate I had in school. She and I became friends pretty quickly -- we sat together in several classes, rode the same bus, shared similar interests, and what's more: she was popular. My friend came from a family that did not attend church, but when I invited her to activities she was very interested and wanted to attend with me. Obviously, I was excited too! She and I enjoyed a Sunday School picnic, a few field trips, Christmas bazaars, and the like. Quite naturally, I thought that my friend would want to start attending church and become a Christian. But I discovered she was interested only in the activities. She was not interested in attending church or becoming a member.

I also learned something about myself. I wanted her to join because of our friendship and because she was popular. Honestly, I wasn't too concerned for her salvation. God knew my heart completely at that time, and it was not right. Both of us had hearts that were not right. What did I have to do? I knew somehow that I had to make my heart right before God.

The Bible gives an answer to that question in a story about a man named Simon, Acts 8:18-23. "When Simon saw that the Spirit was given when the apostles laid their hands on people, he offered them money to buy this power. Let me have this power, too," he exclaimed, "so that when I lay my hands on people, they will receive the Holy Spirit" But Peter replied, "May your money be destroyed with you for thinking God's gift can be bought! You can have no part in this, for your heart is not right with God. Repent of your wickedness and pray to the Lord. Perhaps he will forgive your evil thoughts, for I can see that you are full of bitter jealousy and are held captive by sin."

"Pray to the Lord for me," Simon exclaimed, "that these terrible things you've said won't happen to me!"

Simon didn't realize what he was doing when he tried to purchase the Holy Spirit's power. I didn't quite know what I was doing when I just wanted a popular friend to join me at church. And my friend didn't quite understand that church is much more than a place for fun activities. Peter reminds us all that these are spiritual matters of the heart, and God looks at our heart. It's about friendship with God, first of all. And Jesus brings us into that friendship when we trust him.

Jesus is always forgiving. We can confess our need for God, and God can and will transform us from the inside out. It's a matter of the heart.

Heavenly Father, please come into our hearts. Because of Jesus, make them right, and help us to walk in your footsteps daily and do what is pleasing to you. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Blessings,

Lynne Poindexter,
Director of Serving Ministries

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

What are your skills? Talents? Spiritual Gifts?
To discover your GraceGifts , or spiritual gifts, you can go follow this link.
It's free. Just click this graphic, create an account, then follow instructions to GraceGifts to learn something about how God might have equipped you to serve God and others. https://app.assessme.org/v1/10580.aspx

Connect with others to learn, pray, and encourage one another to follow Jesus. Contact Crissy Carroll to get connected with an existing group or consider beginning a new group. ccarroll@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 9

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 23:22:06 GMT

What Can God Change?
Their Minds Were Changed

Have you ever believed one thing but after witnessing something wonderful, exciting or miraculous, changed your mind?

I know I have plenty of times. And at times, I have witnessed other people having that same change of mind.

When I was in second grade, like most kids I loved recess. I enjoyed playing with my friends running back and forth until I could hardly catch my breath. One day it was time to go out for recess, and my classmates decided they were not going to play with me. I remembered a girl said, “Let’s not play with April today”. The class listened to her suggestion and when we got outside not one person played with me. For a moment I was upset, but it was RECESS!!! I decided I wasn’t going to sit on the ground and just watch everyone else play; so I started playing by myself. I was having a great time! I was having so much fun one by one my classmates started coming over and asked if they could play with me. Hmm imagine that. Of course I allowed each one to join in the fun. My classmates had changed their minds and we had a joyful time. It is possible they changed their minds because they realized they were wrong, but I suspect they saw or “witnessed” the fun I was having and wanted to experience it too.

I imagine this is how it was for the people in Samaria when Phillip told them about Jesus, the Messiah. The Bible says in Acts 8:6-8, “Crowds listened intently to Philip because they were eager to hear his message and see the miraculous signs he did. Many evil spirits were cast out, screaming as they left their victims. And many who had been paralyzed or lame were healed. So there was great joy in that city.” A little later in Acts 8:13 we read that even Simon himself believed and was baptized.

My classmates witnessed me having a good time playing by myself and wanted to be part of the fun. Now that I am an adult, I know people al so have the opportunity to witness what I do; be it working with the children, making coffee or simply putting a liner in the trash bin. I hope they are able to see the joy I feel and perhaps want to experience it too.

I would like to leave you with this prayer: Dear God, thank you for my friends, family and church family. Thank you for all that you do. Please help me be a witness to others who don’t know you, so they too may change their minds and want to know more about you. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

April
Director of Children and Family’s Ministry

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Connect with others to learn, pray, and encourage one another to follow Jesus. Contact Crissy Carroll to get connected with an existing group or consider beginning a new group. ccarroll@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 3

Sat, 03 Sep 2022 23:15:11 GMT

Saying "No" Helps Set Our Priorities
It's OK to Say "No"

I had a conversation with another church member this weekend about learning how to say “no” when someone has a request that puts an unreasonable strain on our personal time and resources. My friend was trying desperately to fill a gap that had been left when someone else didn’t follow through on a project.

Our Scripture for this weekend talks about how the apostles in the early church were in that very situation. They were desperately trying to serve the people around them, and still be strong spiritual leaders. They fell under criticism because their food distribution program wasn’t reaching enough people (whatever “enough” is).

In Acts 6: 2-4 it says: So, the Twelve called a meeting of all the believers. They said, “We apostles should spend our time teaching the word of God, not running a food program. 3 And so, brothers, select seven men who are well respected and are full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will give them this responsibility. 4 Then we apostles can spend our time in prayer and teaching the word. “

They delegated the responsibility of their food ministry to others so that they could spend more time praying and teaching---both of which were their called positions.

To what is the Lord calling you? What is preventing you from saying, “Yes?” It’s ok to say “no” to people and activities that prevent us from giving our full “Yes” to God,

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for calling us. Give us the strength and wisdom to know how to focus on what the most important task of all—serving you and telling all those we meet about your grace and love. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

Pastor Sharon
Christ the Cornerstone

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Be encouraged with new and old friends on a boat tour along the Delaware River to New Jersey and area sites. Cost is $10/person. BYO-Food, and a little to share. Reserve with Kevin Sturgis, 302.834.5625. Arrive by 5:30 so we can depart by 6:00. Click this image card to RSVP by email.

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 26

Fri, 26 Aug 2022 23:07:02 GMT

Was It Really a Miracle
Seek God's Presence Among Us

We’re all looking for a miracle, aren’t we?

Our culture, however, tends to explain miracles away depending on our intelligence and sciences to understand what really happened. In other words, people in our society tend to deny actual miracles happen. They say that we just haven’t figured out yet how the “miracle” happened. I believe there will always be something we can’t figure out because miracles are real. That’s because God is real. Jesus is real. The Holy Spirit is real, and he is with us.

I’m not alone in my belief. Thousands of years ago, people also believed:

“O God, your ways are holy.
Is there any god as mighty as you?
You are the God of great wonders!
You demonstrate your awesome power among the nations.
By your strong arm, you redeemed your people.” Psalm 77

Is it a miracle that a marriage headed for divorce suddenly changes course?
Is it a miracle that a cancer cluster seen on a scan disappears when the doctor looks again?
Is it a miracle that a judge decides justice in a trial?

Maybe. Maybe not, but God’s ways are holy, mighty, awesome. And God’s presence here is to redeem people and our lives. All of us.

God has not stopped redeeming his people. His miracles, signs, and wonders display his power and purpose to bring us back to God so that we can live a new life in a new world. Tell someone about Jesus and the miracles you’ve seen him do among us.

Thank you, God, for loving us enough to send Jesus, our savior and the Holy Spirit, our Helper to change our lives from the inside out. Thank you for your mercy and kindness to forgive us. Continue to help us call on you to transform our own hearts and all things in this world. Use us as you desire and plan. We commit to serve you and depend on your help.

Pastor Roger
Christ the Cornerstone

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

God heals our brokenness. Discover how healing can be yours. Group meets Saturdays at 2PM. Clink this link to contact Pastor Vaughn for more information.

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 18

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 22:59:28 GMT

Invest in Courage
Encourage Someone Today

His real name is Joseph, but friends called him Barnabas because he was a generous, faithful friend, and a great encourager. The Bible talks about him: "There was Joseph, who the apostles nicknamed Barnabas (which means "Son of Encouragement"). He was from the tribe of Levi and came from the Island of Cyprus. He sold a field he owned and brought the money to the apostles." Acts 4:32-37

I have always been a lover of crafts. Sewing, knitting, embroidery, wreath making, jewelry making, and the list goes on. On a visit to the home of one of my best friends I discovered what was going to be my lifetime absolute favorite craft: miniature dollhouses.

Since that visit back in the early 80's I have become a "miniaturist.” I build dollhouses from kits, make dioramas and room boxes. I create miniature hats, miniature food, and teach young people the art of miniatures. Miniatures and dollhouses have become and remain my passion. After numerous trips to a local dollhouse shop I became friends with the owner, Alice. I never stopped to pick up just one item from her store. Instead, I'd spend the entire day talking with Alice, learning, having lunch, browsing through the shop, sitting on the floor looking through miniature magazines and how-to's, and even offering a bit of advice (from my limited experience) to customers. Alice was more than happy to spend time with me and to share her lifetime passion. One day, Alice complained that she was up to her ears in dollhouse assembly and repair or restoration requests. She showed me her workroom. Wow! I was like a kid in a toy store! Dozens of dollhouses in various stages of completion! Then Alice asked me if I would be interested in helping her. I thought she was joking. She wasn't. Alice admired my p assion for miniatures, and the projects I had created on my own. She encouraged, supported, and became my mentor. She wanted me to excel in the world of miniatures, and I wanted the same thing. I'm still learning and enjoying the journey! Alice believed in me. Alice encouraged me.

I would never nickname Alice “Barnabus,” but just like him, God wants us to be sacrificial and generous givers. He wants us to invest in others to build relationships with them so they can become all God created them to be and to encourage and mentor them especially in the way Jesus wants us to go. I hope you’ll find ways to serve others through encouraging them.

Lynne Poindexter
Director of Serving Ministries
Christ the Cornerstone

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Can you donate diapers and wipes? We need sizes 4 and 5 and wipes, too. CtC is one of only a few places the Delaware that will help families who get stuck without diapers. We can really help families avoid messes with this ministry! Bring donations to either campus, and may you absorb all God's blessings!

God heals our brokenness. Discover how healing can be yours. Group meets Saturdays at 2PM. Clink this link to contact Pastor Vaughn for more information.

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 13

Sat, 13 Aug 2022 22:53:11 GMT

We Must Celebrate Milestones
Celebrations Along the Way

On Wednesday of this past week, my husband Danny and I celebrated our 25 ^th wedding anniversary. It’s hard to believe that many years have flown by…and even harder to believe that two people, as different as we are, have been married 25 years! In my opinion, one of the things that contributes to the success of marriage is being able to boldly communicate with one another…. our needs, our desires, our dislikes and even our fears.

In our Scripture for this weekend, we hear about how those that opposed Christianity are amazed by the boldness of Peter and John. In many ways, our Christian walk is not unlike a marriage. Our commitment to Christ is even stronger than our bond with each other. And we are committed to bold communication about Christ…. we have been chosen to tell others of the wonderful ways in which the love of Christ is working in our lives.

This week we received many cards and wishes from friends and relatives. Many of those people were at our wedding and it’s so incredible to have them continue to share in our joy.

My prayer though, is that everyone reading this message would know the joy that comes from hearing someone say, “You introduced me to Christ, and that changed my life.”

We celebrate many different milestones in our relationships with loved ones. Celebrate your milestones with Christ also. Celebrate those whom God brings into your life who need to know what Christ has done for you. And may you have the opportunity to share milestones with them as they grow in their walk with Christ.

I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

Pastor Sharon
Campus Pastor, Elsmere

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Whatever worries us, we are never alone. If you need encouragement or friends to listen to you, that's why we are here. Click these links to contact Pastor Vaughn or Crissy Carroll to connect with others who care.

God heals our brokenness. Discover how healing can be yours. Group meets Saturdays at 2PM. Clink this link to contact Pastor Vaughn for more information.

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 5

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 17:31:50 GMT

Tag! You're It!
Be Prepared

I love celebrations, especially birthday parties. Many years ago my family and I were planning a big 100 ^th birthday party for my great grandmother Viola. At the planning meeting, the family decided we would invite all our family and friend and sing her favorite hymns. Of course we planned to have entertainment and her favorite foods, but we still had one part to work on, and that was the speakers. We had invited the mayor and some other “dignitaries," but we needed people from the family to speak also. My Aunt Nita decided she and my mother would figure out the rest and the rest of the team could go on with their day.

Later in the week my Aunt called. My mother put the call on speaker-phone and together they declared, "Tag, you're it!" I didn’t know what they were talking about, but it wasn't some game. They giggled for a moment and explained that I was the chosen one to speak at my great grandmother’s party. Needless to say, I was not expecting it nor was I especially thrilled; but I knew I was the best choice for this occasion. After all, she was my great grandmother. She named me. I was used to speaking publicly and my family needed me (I thought to myself). Of course I would do it.

Sometimes we don’t always volunteer on our own to do things. In my case I was “tagged it” or selected; but my family knew I could do it. The disciples did something similar when they selected Matthias to replace Judas. Among the men who followed Jesus, the disciples narrowed it down to two. To make the final choice the Bible says in Acts 1:29, “Then they cast lots, and Matthias was selected to become an apostle with the other eleven.” Tag, Matthias was “it."

When I look back I am happy I was selected. I was able to contribute and help my grandmother’s special day be a memorable occasion, which we often talk about and reflect on. Everyone played a role. In my family we all have our own special talents or gifts, as I am sure is true of your family. I am glad I was able to do my part. We all can do our part. We are all given special gifts and abilities to be used at work, home and at church. So let’s all get together to praise God, help one another and spread God’s word. Tag your it!

I look forward to seeing you this weekend. Below are several ways you might use your abilities and gifts to serve God and others.

April
Director of Children and Family’s Ministry

Heavenly Father, we thank you for the gifts you have given to us. We thank you for those of us who recognize our own gifts and are willing to use them for Your glory. Please help us recognize the gifts in others so we can be bold enough to say “tag your it." Forgive us for the times we haven’t used the talents you have given us. Fill us with your Holy Spirit, so that we can boldly use those gifts to spread your good news, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

We are never alone. If you need encouragement or friends to listen to you, that's why we are here. Click these links to contact Pastor Vaughn or Crissy Carroll to get connected with others who care.

God heals our brokenness. Discover how healing can be yours. Group meets Saturdays at 2PM. Clink this link to contact Pastor Vaughn for more information.

Christ the Cornerstone's Scout Troop 902 Summer Camp. For information about our Cub Pack and Scout Troop for male and female scouts contact the church office 302.836.2862 or email info@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter July 29

Fri, 29 Jul 2022 16:48:56 GMT

Ticks Are Tough!
Be Prepared

I’m with CtC’s BSA Troop 902 at Camp Olmstead in Goshen, Virginia this week. It’s hot. I’m sweaty. It’s rainy. I’m wet. And we’re doing great!

We left for camp last Sunday morning before church. Just after we pulled out of the church parking lot, I remembered that I forgot to bring any insect repellant. Only a few hours after arriving, I felt something itchy on my neck. I reached back to scratch and discovered through my short sweaty hair something small. It was a tick, and I’m thrilled that I found him before he made a home in me. I tried to squash him but he was tough. I got rid of him, for sure. And the next thing I did was to go to the camp's trading post to buy and spray myself with repellant. And I haven’t stopped using it. Evil is like that tick. It sneaks up on us, ready to poke it's little head into our lives and devour us little by little, bit by bit.

The apostle Paul warns us to prepare against the evil that is all over this world. In his day, he used a soldier's armor as a metaphor for God’s protective and instructive work in our lives. We live in dangerous times, and evil is as sneaky as that tough little tick. It will creep into our lives in the simplest ways. I was just walking through the grass. It wasn't tall. I was minding my own business, but like a tick, evil seeks us out. Evil thoughts, evil words, and evil actions stick to us and suck the God-created life right out of us. Like a tick, evil gets a hold of us, within us, where it lives unnoticed until it grows, spreads, and destroys the life of its host. It’s a parasite, which by definition supports its own life only by stealing from any other living thing.

God never intends for us to live with ticks burrowing in and sucking our blood. We must be vigilant, wise, alert, and act accordingly. Had I prepared myself with repellant, the tick would have left me alone.

Spiritually, we protect ourselves in order to live the life God intends. Here is what that includes: salvation from evil’s attacks, faithfulness to God’s ways, discerning truth from falsehood, knowing and acting rightly instead of unjustly, and peacefully instead of seeing everyone as being against us. Faith in Jesus repels evil. And the Holy Spirit comes to us.

Thank you God, for protecting me from this dreaded tick. Small as it was, it could do great harm. Help us all trust, follow, and seek your good presence in our lives every moment so that all people may experience your life-changing love. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

I hope you'll worship with us at either campus this weekend. Let's keep loving God, serving others, and engaging them with the message of Jesus, the Christ.

Pastor Roger

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Talk about last Sunday's message. Ask questions. Discuss. Pray. Learn and grow! Both campuses are invited to join.

Men from both campuses are invited to enjoy great conversation and food at
Schaefer's Restaurant, 208 Bank St., Chesapeake City, MD.
Call Kevin Sturgis or click the graphic to RSVP by email.

Weekly Newsletter July 22

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 16:39:50 GMT

It's War Out There--And in here!
We Need a Plan

"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places." -- Ephesians 6:12

When you hear the words spiritual warfare what comes to mind? Wars waged with flesh and blood? Fighting temptation?

Spiritual warfare is the battle of good versus evil -- Satan trying to separate us from God. Deception; attacking our faith; self-reliance; isolation; shame; busyness; comparison; distractions; temptation; and the list goes on. We live in a world that is spiritually at war and it's battle is within our own hearts and minds. We need a plan.

I have a Facebook "friend" -- we know each other because we are craft enthusiasts. I don't think I've ever read a post where she wasn't complaining or feeling sorry for herself. Not long ago she posted that she had found a church and was joining a Bible Study group. I was so very happy for her! No complaining, no "Oh woe is me." But most importantly, my friend had found God. Unfortunately, the beginning of her spiritual journey came to an abrupt end. She had been in the process of decluttering her apartment and was feeling overwhelmed. Furniture and many other items needed to be moved or thrown out. She complained about not knowing where to start. She complained about things she could not move because they were too heavy. She complained about other things, too. I suggested that she pray about it. Her response was, “Does God move furniture!!??” No, but can you see her inner spiritual battle? I imagine Satan whispering to her, probably saying something like, "God will not help you. Why bother calling on him!"

We are in a constant battle with Satan. We have to be on guard! We have to recognize when he's using one of his schemes to try and turn us away from God. Ephesians 6:13 tells us, "Therefore, put on every piece of God's armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm." The armor is to defend, not attack. Help us Lord to stay spiritually grounded in you so we can stand confidently after every battle.

Let's pray: Heavenly Father, fill our hearts and minds with wisdom and all that is spiritual. Help us not to focus on the things that are evil and wicked. When Satan whispers in our ear, remind us to put on your armor, to stand firm, to turn our hearts and minds from his lies, from all that is worldly, and focus on You and only you. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

Below are several ways you might use your abilities to serve God and others with grateful generosity.

Lynne Poindexter
Director of Serving Ministries

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Family VBS Party at Bear Campus!
All Families Welcome!
Wednesday, July 27, 6PM-8PM

Can you share non-perishable food items to restock our food pantry to assist others? Please include pop-top cans for our ministry with homeless persons in the area. You can drop off your donation at either campus.

Weekly Newsletter July 8

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 16:31:56 GMT

Your Light Blasts Hope in a Dark World!
Jesus Makes the Difference

Fourth of July sparklers were always my favorite, even if I was a little scared of them. Residents of New York State were prohibited from setting off fireworks, but we did have those old sparklers that shined bright and scattered hot sparks of many colors. I remember holding the metal tip while Dad lit the other end. My sisters, brother and I would swing the sparkler around in circles. We’d write our names in the air, and for a millisecond our names were written in the light. Then as the sparks got closer to my tender finger tips, the metal rod got hot and I dropped it to the ground where it fizzled out. “Happy Fourth of July” we would shout and run around the yard. Then we’d settle down for some ice cream or watermelon on the hot summer night. Great memories.

Jesus calls us the light of the world. He says, “Don’t hide your light under a basket.” Many scriptures talk about our role in shining the light, the truth, of Jesus throughout this world. We have that task. But how do we get that spark started? How do we keep it hot and bright?

Just like my father brought the igniting fire to my little sparkler, which always had the potential to burn bright and hot, God our Heavenly Father sent Jesus to ignite the fire of life, hope, peace, joy, and many other good words, in our lives. It’s not a fire for us to hide or keep to ourselves. So share it. Celebrate it. Keep it burning by staying close to Jesus and being fueled by the Holy Spirit day by day.

We also need to encourage each other to keep those spiritual fires shining to others. So let's get together to pray, worship, and listen to God’s Word. He keeps us on fire to complete the task he has for us. And we all are very aware of the darkness in this world, which flees in the light of Christ. So let’s shine Christ’s truth everywhere!

I look forward to seeing you this weekend.

Below are several ways you might use your abilities to serve God and others with grateful generosity.

Pastor Roger
Lead Pastor

Heavenly Father, we thank you for the spark of life that ignited each person on earth and their potential to burn your light brightly. Forgive us for not reaching out to you so you can ignite the spiritual fire that creates new life within us and shines your love and truth everywhere. Fill us with your Holy Spirit so that we can stay warm, and even hot, with your love and power, in Jesus’ name .Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

Weekly Newsletter July 1

Fri, 01 Jul 2022 15:49:07 GMT

We Need Inside-Out Change in Our World!
Jesus Changes Everything

Charles was in charge of the church’s finances. He was gifted to do that job because he was an accountant. In retirement, he volunteered to manage the church’s money. The problem was that everyone was scared of him. He was bald, overweight, hunchbacked after a career of sitting at a desk poring over figures. He hardly said a word anyone could understand because he mumbled with a heavy yet sophisticated southern drawl. (We lived in south Georgia then.) And he was gruff. He absolutely protected the finances of the church and demanded great rationale for spending any money. He was the “poster-child” of a crotchety, miserly, old curmudgeon. He was Scrooge.

But then something strange happened. Charles had heart surgery. Literally. After a serious heart attack and following open-heart surgery, Charles was a different man. He never talked about what happened. But we all experienced the change. No, he never stood up straight, and he still mumbled, but his attitude about money, and church, and people changed. He loosened his grip on the church’s purse-strings. He was much more easy to talk with. He still expected good reasons to spend money, but he became glad to help others through the church’s resources. Charles was a changed man because of his faith in Jesus.

Still, no one knows how Jesus changed his mind and attitudes, but even Charles would say Jesus did.

Jesus changes lives. When we trust in Jesus, we are not the same. Everything changes. Sometimes the change in attitudes, thoughts, and behaviors is immediate. Sometimes it’s not. Either way, Jesus transforms our lives through his love and power.

You can trust Jesus, confess your wrong-doings, trust his forgiveness, and begin to do as Jesus teaches. Your life will change from the inside-out.

Below are several ways you might use your abilities to serve God and others with grateful generosity.

Pastor Roger
Lead Pastor

Dear Jesus,
Our world needs a change. I need a change. Families and children need change. We all know that we don’t live and love others the way you want us to. Forgive us. Give us your Holy Spirit. Transform us. Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

Enjoy dinner together on July 6, 6:00PM at the Crooked Hammock Brewery in Middletown. Call Kevin to make a reservation.

Share the Gift of Life. July 9, at Bear Campus.

Click Here to Sign Up .

Weekly Newsletter June 24

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 15:40:06 GMT

You Are Gifted!
God Equips You with Gifts

"For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."
Ephesians 2:10

As far back as junior high school I was a member of the church choir. It was something I did for many years and I enjoyed it. I expressed an interest in singing in the choir because, for one, I loved church music; and two, I would be following in my mother's footsteps.

After moving to Delaware in 2005, the commute to Philadelphia for choir rehearsal and worship service was not working out. I had to move on. How would I handle not sitting in the choir loft singing to God's glory? I didn't know then what it meant to have spiritual gifts, but I've learned recently. Was singing in the choir all those years something I did but not aware that it was a spiritual gift? Yes. As I've learned, one of my gifts is creativity which includes music. In the past few years God has given me abilities to bring other spiritual gifts to the surface. Thank you Lord! Thank you!

In1 Corinthians 12:31 and following verses, Paul encourages Christians to "eagerly desire the greater gifts....and the greatest of these is love." To pray and ask God to give us spiritual gifts so that we can use them for the greater good of the body of Christ.

At CtC, we have ways to help you discover your Spiritual Gifts. Please ask me how.

Let’s continue to love, serve, and engage the world with the great message of Jesus. It’s God’s plan, all in God’s timing.

Lynne Poindexter

Director of Serving Ministries

Here is a prayer for you:
Heavenly Father, give each of us the gifts of the Spirit so that we are able to meet the needs of the people of the church and community. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

Enjoy dinner together on July 6, 6:00PM at the Crooked Hammock Brewery in Middletown. Call Kevin to make a reservation.

Share the Gift of Life. July 9, at Bear Campus.

Click Here to Sign Up .

Weekly Newsletter June 10

Fri, 10 Jun 2022 14:18:58 GMT

You Can Plan on It!
God Has a Plan for You!

After I retired, I joined the staff at CtC. I figured my job would be typing, filing, making copies, etc. My background had been law. I was a paralegal and notary public for many years, so what could I possibly contribute to serving God using legal experience? Well, God's plan for me was to be Serving Ministries Director. Wow! God’s plan wasn't about my background in law at all but something else. That’s how God works.

Yesterday, I asked my friend and coworker April what is the plan of the group that meets at Elsmere Campus each Wednesday evening. Her response surprised me. She told me that the group would walk the streets, pick up trash, and talk with anyone willing. They set up a canopy in a park, gave out snacks and water to people. They had bubbles for kids and tossed footballs with other children. Certainly it was not the preconceived notion I had about sharing the good news of Jesus.

Ephesians 3:1-13 talks about God’s plan for people. He plans for “all people to share equally the riches inherited” by believing the message of Jesus. Paul had a plan for his work. God changed it. God has a plan for all people, and it may not look like we expect. God simply calls us to trust, follow, and obey.

So, what is our plan? It's something different for each of us, of course. It's what God leads us to do and He doesn't reveal that plan until the time is right.

When the time is right God reveals His plan, and gives each of us the tools to carry out His plan. Think about some of the serving opportunities you've participated in and around church and your communities. God gave you the skills to carry out the responsibilities. God spoke to your heart. God planned it.

Let’s continue to love, serve, and engage the world with the great message of Jesus. It’s God’s plan, all in God’s timing.

Lynne Poindexter

Director of Serving Ministries

Here is a prayer for you:
Heavenly Father, we thank you for all that You have done for us. We thank you for the knowledge, the insight, the love, and the tools we need to carry out the plans You have for us. When we fall short or become self-involved, help us to get back on track and put others' needs in front of our own. All of these things are part of Your plan for us. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

FATHER'S DAY CAR SHOW
Bring Dad, the family and friends to worship then enjoy music, food, and lots of cool cars. To register your car in the show, go to https://www.ctcde.church/events

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

CtC Senior Center is sponsoring a trip to Sight and Sound Theaters in Lancaster to see “David” on Friday, July 29 th at 3:00pm. Dinner at a local restaurant after the show is optional and transportation is available. Tickets are $39 for those up to 12 and $79 for those 13 and over. To reserve your spot, contact Mary Ann Strahorn at 302-836-6463 by June 15th .

Weekly Newsletter June 4

Sat, 04 Jun 2022 13:57:30 GMT

Are You Boldly Following?
God Equips Us to Do What He Calls Us!

I find it hard to believe that this month marks 11 years since I was “downsized” from Wilmington Trust Company. Even though I never thought that banking was my true calling---it was what I knew, so when my job ended, it was somewhat traumatic for me. I really didn’t know what type of position to seek, and I was floundering for a while. The bank was a place where we were taught that everything we did should follow the company “strategic plan.” I didn’t have a “strategic plan” for my own life.

But God had a plan. Five years, almost to the day, from leaving Wilmington Trust, I found myself in the pulpit of Christ United Methodist Church—which is now the Elsmere Campus of Christ the Cornerstone. What in the world…..? I didn’t know how to be a pastor….I knew how to be a banker!

But, over these past six years, God has given me the tools I needed at the very moment I needed them.

Hebrews 13:20-21 has this prayer for us:

Now may the God of peace—who brought up from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great Shepherd of the sheep, and ratified an eternal covenant with his blood— may he equip you with all you need for doing his will.

May he produce in you, through the power of Jesus Christ, every good thing that is pleasing to him. All glory to him forever and ever! Amen!

I know now that I don’t have to be afraid of anything the Lord asks of me. If I follow God, in faith, he will equip me.

I may not have a “strategic plan.” But thankfully, God does.

Pastor Sharon

Here is a prayer for you:
Thank you, Lord God, for inviting us to share you with others. Thank you for equipping us to invite others into your family. Continue to lead us to those with whom we can share your story, so that others may know the Good News of Jesus.
Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

FATHER'S DAY CAR SHOW
Bring Dad, the family and friends to worship then enjoy music, food, and lots of cool cars. To register your car in the show, go to https://www.ctcde.church/events

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

CtC-SUMMER CAMP for children completing grades k-6. Each summer, CtC offers an 11 week camp for elementary and middle school (6th grade) students. Children experience the excitement of summer with outdoor activities, arts and crafts, games, and field trips. Camp starts June 13 and goes until August 26th. Sign up for a week or two or join us for the whole summer. For more information, call 302-836-6445 or email Ralynn Norris at rnorris@ctcde.church

Weekly Newsletter May 27

Fri, 27 May 2022 13:50:18 GMT

Can I Really Make a Difference?
Yes! So Look Up and Keep Going!

I know many cyclists ride farther and faster than I do, but I don't ride my bike to compete. I ride it because I enjoy it. I don't intend to brag when I say this, I just rejoice in what I've done. So far this year I've ridden my bike 1,106 miles. (On second thought, I admit: It's bragging. Forgive me.)

While I was enjoying God's handiwork along the lazy Wicomico River, horrible events were happening other places in the world. People were preparing to do evil things to others. In the past week we've all watched, learned, grieved, and prayed for others who suffer. And I'm not just talking about shootings in cities far away. Much tragedy happens very close to home. We can easily get discouraged and depressed.

Don't allow the evil of this world to tear you down.

When I'm riding my bike and I'm tired, or I have a hill to climb, or the wind blows against me twice as fast as I am traveling, I look straight ahead and keep going. Even if I have to peddle at a slower pace. Keep going.

God created us to be people who care about others. That's one way we live God's own image. God cares for us, so we care for others. And we feel other people's pain. When they hurt, we want to fix things. And some of us have the ability to help. We all have something to do, but we all don't have to do the same thing to make a difference. Just remember this: You make a difference. We make a difference.

“Together, we are God’s house, built on the foundation of those he sent to proclaim his messages. Jesus himself is the chief cornerstone. We are carefully joined together in him, becoming a holy dwelling for the Lord.” Eph. 2:20-21.

God is building his people, those who trust in Jesus, into a place where God resides in this world and makes a difference. We each have our part, and Jesus fits us together to do it when we trust and follow him. So let's lift up our eyes to the Lord and keep following him. Press on. Keep going. Don't quit loving God and loving others. That's why where here.

Let’s love, serve, and engage.

Pastor Roger

Here is a prayer for you:
Loving Heavenly Father, thank you for creating us, for creating me. Help us today to be that place where you live so that we can make a difference in this world, right here. Right now. Strengthen each member of your household to carry on in your great and powerful truth and love. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

FATHER'S DAY CAR SHOW
Bring Dad, the family and friends to worship then enjoy music, food, and lots of cool cars. To register your car in the show, go to https://www.ctcde.church/events

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

Weekly Newsletter May 13

Fri, 13 May 2022 13:37:35 GMT

Are You Powered-Up for Life, Abundantly?
Connect with God's Incredible, Life-Giving Power!

When I was a teenager on the farm, I drove tractor-trailers to haul feed for our cows. As soon as you pop the clutch and step on the gas, the engine roars and tons of torque push the truck and pull the immense load. I also loved to drive the big farm tractors that tore up the soil like it was hot butter. On the back of every tractor is a “PTO shaft,” which stands for “Power-Take-Off.” It’s a large rod of metal that connects the power of the tractor to any piece of equipment that the tractor is pulling. A PTO shaft transfers power to a harvester that cuts hay, chops it, pushes it together, and ties it up with a string. Or the PTO shaft transfers power to a machine that digs peanuts out of the soil, shakes off the dirt and throws them into a wagon to be taken to the granary. It also powers a manure spreader that throws (you know what) to fertilize the soil and increases a harvest. You get the idea.

Ephesians 1:19-23 says, “I pray that you will understand the incredible greatness of God’s power for us who believe him. This is the same mighty power that raised Christ from the dead…for the benefit of the church.”

Jesus is our link to God’s incredible and mighty power in our lives. Without Jesus, we are powerless, but with Jesus as our “PTO,” we are connected with God’s power so that we can harvest souls and save them from death. With God’s power, we spread good news, like (you know what) to bring life to those who live in despair. And with God's power, we have the hope of our own forgiveness and eternal life.

How are you connected with the great power of God, the creator of the world?

Let’s not neglect getting together this weekend to give thanks to God, to encourage one another, and to continually connect with God through Jesus, whom we believe.

Let’s love, serve, and engage.

Give thanks. Praise our ever-loving God, Jesus.

Pastor Roger

Here is a prayer for you:
All Powerful God, who created us, we need you in our world. We need you in our lives. I need your strength, wisdom, and power. Forgive me for neglecting to obey you and live according to your ways. Teach me to follow you. I ask this in the name of Jesus, your son. Amen.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Family Vacation Bible School at Both Campuses!
Elsmere: Every Saturday, 11AM-1PM, starting June 25
Bear: Every Wednesday, 6PM-8PM, starting June 22.

Weekly Newsletter April 15

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 21:16:31 GMT

Never Alone Again!
You Belong With Jesus

The loneliness surprised and scared me. I had never felt that alone before. I was fresh out of college in my first real job. But it took me a thousand miles from home. This Yankee boy felt very out of place in the deep south. Few friends close by. Great expectations. Financial stress. And confusion about the decision I had made. I remember crumbling in despair, crying out to God for help. Forty years later I look back on life. Obviously I survived, and I grew a lot. Since then I’ve faced many challenges, and more will come. Yet I have hope. Why? Because I am with Jesus, and Jesus is with me. I most likely will feel that kind of loneliness again in life. I will feel alone again, but I won’t be. Look at this verse:

"God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son.” Ephesians 1:5-7

On Easter Pastor Sharon and I will begin sharing messages on the theme, “You Belong.” Our scripture journey will take us to the book of Ephesians, and we’ll focus on how God teaches us to live in God’s family, a community of hope, love, challenge, growth, and more. I hope you’ll join us in person at one of our campuses or online. I will encourage us all to review our relationships and to see where they can be strengthened and to help others experience what it means to belong in the family of God.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Many times, Jesus, we struggle to find where we belong. Children need family. When one is not there, someone needs to adopt them. Teens and young adults are challenged to stretch their independence from mom, dad, and siblings, and at the same time they are looking for other friends, colleagues, and co -workers who share their interests and passions. At every life stage, we look to belong. We all belong with you through faith in Jesus. Help us find you. Keep searching for us until we find our home with you. In Jesus’ name, amen.

We are always ready to talk and pray with you.

Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter April 9

Sat, 09 Apr 2022 21:03:38 GMT

He Faced Pain Majestically
And Strengthens Us To Do the Same

Palm Sunday, April 10, marks the beginning of Holy Week. It begins with the joyous celebration of Jesus riding into Jerusalem on a donkey. The crowd waved palm branches and spread their cloaks in front of him. That’s how they honored royalty, and they shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!” However, by the end of the week, this same crowd who cheered turned on Jesus and screamed for his crucifixion.

As a youngster I remember Holy Week starting at church with a big procession, palms waving, and wonderful worship service with beautiful music! I particularly remember this hymn:

Ride on, ride on in majesty!
Hark! All the tribes Hosanna cry.
O Savior meek, pursue your road,
with palms and scattered garments strowed.

To me, the choir sang as if they were the crowd on the road welcoming Jesus into Jerusalem! Then the tempo changes and the final verse is,

Ride on, ride on in majesty!
In lowly pomp ride on to die.
Bow your meek head to mortal pain,
then take, O God, your pow'r and reign.

As we Palm Sunday and Holy Week, let us remember the importance of this time in history, the real meaning – the victory Jesus would bring over death and the grave. He is our savior and hope of eternal life. ”Ride On! Ride on in majesty!”

What are you facing today that calls you to trust God courageously? I’d love to hear about it and we’ll pray for you at CtC.

Here are some ways that you might share God's love with others:

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Heavenly Father, how wonderful is Your love for us. Your love is immeasurable -- whoever calls on You receives your love. When hearts are broken, when we have sinned, You pour out your love to us. God, Your plans for us, your love for us are more than we can ever imagine. Thank you Lord! Thank you!

Lynne Poindexter

Serving Ministries Dir.

Weekly Newsletter April 2

Sat, 02 Apr 2022 20:53:11 GMT

Telling Our Story
We all have a story to share!

When I was in college, I majored in English, with a concentration in Journalism. I wanted nothing more than to be a writer. Recently, I was reading an issue of Guideposts magazine, and an advertisement caught my attention. Readers are invited to submit an unpublished, short (1,500 words) story that tells of a life-changing experience. The stories will be reviewed by Guideposts staff. Some of those submitting stories will be chosen to attend a week-long writer’s workshop. Regular contributors to Guideposts will present the workshop, including some well-known writers.

I must confess that the idea appeals to me. I love to write and I love to tell stories. Like many of you, one of my favorite stories to tell is how God has changed me into the person I am today.

I remember hearing an old hymn when I was a child. It was called I Love to Tell the Story.

The chorus says:
I love to tell the story;
'Twill be my theme in glory
To tell the old, old story
Of Jesus and his love!

Remember that you, too, have a story to tell. Have the courage to tell YOUR story. It may be life-changing for those who hear it.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for creating a story within each of us. Give us the courage to
share our story with others so that others may know the Good News of Jesus.

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter March 18

Fri, 18 Mar 2022 22:58:28 GMT

Training Wheels Off

Recently the weather was so nice, I decided to sit on my porch. I began to watch the neighborhood children riding their bicycles outside. It took me back to when I first learned to ride my “big girl bike”. My father had taken the training wheels off and I wasn’t really confident that I would be able to successfully maneuver what seemed to be an unstable bike. My father however, told me I could do it. I tried a few times by myself but I was unsuccessful. I kept saying I can’t do it. I remember him telling me, “yes you can, I’ll be right here holding on”. So I got back on my bike reluctantly and looked back at my dad and said, “you promise you’re not going to let go” and he said, “I promise I will be with you the whole time.”

I began to ride my bike again and this time as the bike seemed to sway a little to one side or another I could feel my dad helping me balance the bike. He was encouraging me the whole way. He kept saying you got it, keep going. I seemed to go a little faster and I felt nice and steady, but I then realized my dad was no longer holding on. He was running beside me. It reminds me how God is with us. He never leaves us. He holds us close when we need him most and

He is right there beside us all the other times. We are never alone. Isiah 41:10 says, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

A spot opened up on our April 300-mile mile ride to support missions in South America. Click here to send me, Pastor Roger, an email if you're interested in knowing more.

Pastor Roger invites you to a great time exploring God's creation and work throughout England. Sites will include This is open to people from CtC and other churches and communities. Bring a friend for a great time together. For information email Gwen Montague at info@ctcde.church

Dear Heavenly Father, let us be reminded that we are never alone. Thank you for continually strengthening us and upholding us with your righteous hand. In Jesus name we pray amen.

Always in Jesus' name,

April Loper-Brown, Director of Childrens and Families Ministry

Weekly Newsletter March 11

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 23:43:31 GMT

Look Who's Waiting for You!
Are You Here Yet?

Carolyn and I are on the road this week traveling to Georgia to celebrate the marriage of our daughter, Emily to her fiancé, DJ. It’s a reflective time for me. I remember being single, wondering and waiting if I’d ever get married. I would wonder for whom was I waiting. What would she look like? What experiences would we have together? I never thought if she’d wonder about me. Then one day I met Carolyn and discovered that she also had been wondering and waiting for me, her husband. It’s beautiful to be wanted and to find that person who's waiting for you.

The story in the Bible about the son who took his early inheritance and left home comes to my mind. The father of that young man was rightly offended, but he never allowed any anger or disappointment to keep him from waiting for his son’s return. Every day the father stood at the highest point in the village and watched the horizon, waiting for his son to return.

We followers of Jesus are waiting for Jesus to fulfill his promise to “come again and take us to be with him.” But Jesus delayed. And we’re still waiting. Why? In 2 Peter 3:8-9, he tells us, “But you must not forget this one thing, dear friends: A day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day. The Lord’s isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent.”

Two big ideas impress me:

First, Jesus wants no one to be outside the will, purpose, and plan of God’s eternal life. So he’s waiting for them to get the message and change their mind about him.

Second, Jesus has given those of us who do believe in him a task. We, whose names are firmly written in his Book of Life, have the task of telling all people about Jesus, God’s love, forgiveness, and new life.

Jesus is waiting for you. Are you willing yet to recognize him for who he is? Are you showing and telling of his love and power to anyone and everyone around you? What are you waiting for? Jesus is waiting for you?

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

If you don't have a group of friends who encourage, support, and pray with you, you're like a car with one flat tire. You're struggling along. One of our groups for guys meets Mondays, 7PM, led by Daniel Carroll (the guy in the drum cage). Email Daniel for information. Or go to CtC Life Groups to see more options.

Donations can be dropped off at either campus.

Dear Jesus,
We often get so busy that we can't hear you knocking. We rely so heavily on our own resources that we don't even think how much stronger, wiser, and faithful you are. Help us listen for and to you. Send your Holy Spirit to inspire, empower, and guide us. Amen.

Roger L. Frederick, Lead Pastor

Weekly Newsletter March 4

Fri, 04 Mar 2022 23:33:09 GMT

Are Your Works Wondrous?
How Wondrous Are Your Works, O Lord!

Through the years I have vacationed in other states and out of the country. Each trip gave me something memorable to take away (not always souvenirs). But there was one trip -- Cancun, Mexico -- the beaches were beautiful, the shops colorful, and the food delicious! Everything that you would expect!

I usually like to venture out on my own to sightsee but there was a bus trip coordinated by the hotel to a place called Chichén Itzá that struck my interest. I had no clue what Chichén Itzá was. I just followed the crowd.

When we arrived I was excited, speechless, surprised! Here I was standing in a city surrounded by structures built by pre-Columbian Maya civilization 250 AD. Wow!! One of the most prominent tourist attractions was a pyramid called "Castillo Pyramid". It stands 79 feet high and has 91 steps on each of the four sides that tourists could climb. I wanted to climb. The steps were not easy andthe heat and humidity made the climb even more difficult, but eventually I made it to the top. The view was magnificent! I could see for miles and miles!! But what made this all so magnificent? I was looking at some of God's work from way up high, marveling at the sky, the trees...awesome! I'm reminded of an anthem I used to sing in church, "Great and marvelous are thy works, Lord God. Just and true are thy ways, thou King of saints."

Psalm 40:5 "O Lord my God, you have performed many wonders for us. Your plans for us are too numerous to list. You have no equal. If I tried to recite all your wonderful deeds, I would never come to the end of them."

Check out these ways that you might share God's love with others:

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Go beyond Sunday's message and talk about it with others with Pastor Sharon This informal Zoom meeting is a great way to meet new people, share thoughts, pray together and strengthen your faith.

Pastor Roger and Tim Slagle will be participating in a 300-mile bike ride at the end of April that will begin in Frederick, Maryland, and end in Pittsburgh, PA. Because of your regular contributions to CtC, we are able to support Inca Link and their ministry to share the gospel and change lives of young people in South America. You are welcome to make an "extra mile" gift in addition to your regular offering and tag it for our ride.

Lynne Poindexter, Serving Ministries Dir.

Weekly Newsletter Feb. 25

Fri, 25 Feb 2022 23:25:39 GMT

Changed by Love
We are modified and changed in the hands of the One who loves us!

About ten years ago, I was looking at Auto Trader magazine, skimming through advertisements for used cars. I already had a car…so I didn’t need one. But I’ve always been a “car person.” So I looked through the pictures of shiny machines. And, as I looked through the ads, one picture nearly jumped off the page at me.

The picture was of a 2005 Ford Mustang. Ever since I was about 8 years old, I have dreamed of owning a Mustang. Over the years, the Mustang changed its appearance and evolved, but in 2005, they began to look once more like the Mustangs I remembered from my childhood.

I had collected Matchbox and Hot Wheels versions of the Mustang, and so, on this day in February of 2012, I found myself practically drooling over this well-kept red Mustang. I had recently gone through some major life changes, and was feeling a bi sorry for myself. So, I bought the Mustang.

I loved the car from the moment I first turned the key. And I set about making the car “mine.” Through a series of small modifications and some cosmetic changes, I eventually had a car that only slightly resembled the original. The car, in my hands, was different. It was MINE!

2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!”

That’s the way it is with us.

Christ seeks us out, and purchases us with his life and love.

In Christ’s hands, we become new. We are changed, modified and loved into creations that are different than our former selves. We become HIS!

What changes has Christ made in you?

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you:

Thank you, Lord God, for selecting us as your own. Give us the courage to yield to you as you change us from within.
all that You have planned for us. We rejoice that you are with us always.

Pastor Sharon O'Connor
Elsmere Campus

Weekly Newsletter Feb. 18

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 22:12:32 GMT

A Headstone and A Stethoscope
A Headstone and A Stethoscope

First:
A bill collector knocked on the door of a country debtor. "Is Fred home?" he asked the woman who answered the door. "Sorry," the woman replied. "Fred's gone for cotton."

The next day the collector tried again. "Is Fred here today?" "No, sir," she said, "I'm afraid Fred has gone for cotton."

When he returned the third day he grumbled, "I suppose Fred is gone for cotton again?"

"No," the woman answered solemnly, "Fred died yesterday."

Suspicious that he was being avoided, the collector decided to wait a week and investigate the cemetery himself. But sure enough, there was poor Fred's tombstone, with this inscription: "Gone, But Not for Cotton."

Second:
A nurse on the pediatric ward, before listening to the little ones' chests would plug the stethoscope into their ears and let them listen to their own hearts. Their eyes would always light up with awe. But she never got a response to equal four year old David's.

Gently he tucked the stethoscope in his ears and placed the disk over his heart. "Listen", she said, "What do you suppose that is?"

He drew his eyebrows together in a puzzled line and looked up as if lost in the mystery of the strange tap-tap-tapping deep in his chest. Then his face broke out in a wondrous grin. "Is that Jesus knocking?" he asked.

What do these stories have in common? Knocking.

When you hear Jesus knocking on the door of your life, I suggest you pay attention and let him come in. Too often we rely on our own resources to get us by: our smarts, our skills, our education, our talent, our hard work, and many other things we have under our control. All the while, Jesus stands “knocking at the door,” ready and willing to help us, guide us, forgive us, strengthen us, and reassure us of the eternity of life. He desires to be our friend. Many times we ignore him, and don’t even care. But he is always there.

“Look, I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we still share a meal together as friends. Those who are victorious will sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat with my Father on his throne. Anyone with ears to hear must listen to the Spirit and understand what he is saying to the churches.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Roger L. Frederick, Lead Pastor

Weekly Newsletter Feb. 11

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 16:23:04 GMT

Grouchy Neighbors?
Maybe a Change of Perspective Will Help.

When I was three years old my family moved into a huge 10-room house! We had an enclosed porch, a vestibule with full lead glass doors, walls with wainscoting, the ceilings had beams, and there were columns between the living room and dining room. It was really cool! My brother and I had our own bedrooms and the guest room became dad's den. Besides my bedroom, the porch was my favorite spot. My brother and I could play out there for hours and hours when the weather was nice and my parents didn't have to keep an eye on us.

One of the features of the enclosed porch was windows between each house. We could wave to our neighbors as they were coming and going, which was really nice, or so I thought. Our neighbor on one side was an older couple with two dogs and no children. The wife would spend most days sitting on the porch staring out the window watching people pass by. Her expression was usually that of annoyance. How do I know this? Whenever I was out front I would look up to her window and wave, and she would just stare at me. Perhaps her annoyance was addressed only to me. What was worse, was when I would walk in and out the front door or play on the porch; she would turn around and glare at me. Many times I felt like I shouldn't be playing on my porch because I was bothering her. At this point I was becoming annoyed.

One day went over to my neighbor's house, although I can't recall why. I remember her being a good conversationalist. She still stared out the window from time to time with an annoyed look. I hoped despite her hard exterior there must be a nice person inside waiting to get out!

The voice of reason (a.k.a. my mother) helped me start to change my mind about my neighbor. Perhaps her “annoyance” was because she was home alone all day while her husband worked. She had no one to talk to, and she was not strong enough to go outside on her own. God teaches us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves; to be kind and respectful to each other, to not judge unfairly, and to watch out for one another. Now that I'm older, I like to think that “annoyance” was my neighbor's way of watching out for me! Awesome!!!

Jesus says, "The most important commandment is this: 'Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.' The second is equally important: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' No other commandment is greater than these." Mark 12:29-31. I had a hard time loving my neighbor as a child, but when I allow Jesus and others to influence me, I'm able to love others as Jesus teaches.

Check out these ways that you might share God's love with others:

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

The United States has 90% of the world’s youth ministry resources and only 4% of the world’s youth. Ends of the Earth Cycling believes that everyone deserves the same access to the gospel. Pastor Roger and Tim Slagle will be participating in a 300-mile bike ride at the end of April that will begin in Frederick, Maryland, and end in Pittsburgh, PA. The goal of this ride is to bring the good message of Jesus to youth around the world. Your faithful and generous giving to CtC ministries allow us to partner with Ends of the Earth Cycling through Tim and Pastor Roger on their tour.

Gather with us at either campus, Wednesday, March 2nd for worship with communion and imposition of ashes.

Heavenly Father, help us to love our neighbors with the same love You give us. Teach to respect them. Show us ways to help them when they are in need despite any issues we may have with them. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Lynne Poindexter, Serving Ministries Dir.

Weekly Newsletter Feb. 4

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 17:25:37 GMT

Remember Me
We remember loved ones who have passed away, but God remembers us in both this life and the next.

A few days ago, a group of us gathered at the graveside of a gentleman who was a “fixture” in the Elsmere community. Butch would walk to the local Wawa every morning, buy a cup of coffee, and sit on the benches near the Wawa or the bus stop and talk with a group of locals.

Everyone around Elsmere seemed to know Butch. He was hard to miss, as he was over six feet tall, and had rather long hair. And he was always walking. As we gathered to remember Butch, neighbors told stories of his unassuming kindness. One neighbor talked about how Butch “never asked for anything,” but how, without being asked he would shovel the sidewalks of neighbors when it snowed.

Sadly, Butch passed away in his home in December. He had no immediate family. But he will be missed.

Butch wasn’t famous, but it was clear to me that he will be remembered.

Yet, we are “remembered” on earth for only as long as there is someone still around that knew us. That’s a sobering thought, but it reminds me of Isaiah 49: 15-16 which says, “Can a mother forget her nursing child? Can she feel no love for the child she has borne? But even if that were possible, I would not forget you! See, I have written your name on the palms of my hands.”

Each one of us will one day be “remembered” by someone. But, praise God, we will be held in the mind and heart of our Creator God forever! We don’t have to leave this life to be “remembered!”

Death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.”n Romans 8:38-39: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Remember to bring a canned food item to support our Food Pantry. You can make a difference!

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for creating us with such care. Please give us the courage to fulfill all that You have planned for us. We rejoice that you are with us always.

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Pastor Sharon O'Connor
Elsmere Campus

Weekly Newsletter Jan. 28

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 23:12:31 GMT

If It Smells Wrong, Don't Eat It!
Jesus Warns Us Against False Teachings

For some reason, the “Frederick” family was endowed with extra sensitive noses. We smell nice. Pun intended.

Now, I apologize to my DE and MD beach loving friends who enjoy Thrashers French Fries. I like the fries, but the smell of vinegar, in my opinion, is just wrong. So I don't eat them. I’ve got to be upwind from anyone with them, and I don’t allow them in the car. On long trips, my family likes to snack on salt & vinegar potato chips. But as soon as the bag is opened, my nose wrinkles and twitches. I open the window for fresh air before any chips even get out of the bag. Yuck. I stay away from stuff like that.

I’m also the one who checks if food in the 'frig' is too old to eat. My nose can tell if meat has spoiled. On the way home from the grocery store one day, I had to slam on my brakes to avoid a collision. The groceries all slid forward. It took me a week to figure out that the six-pound package of ground beef had slid under the back seat of the van. When I first smelled it, I just thought it was "road-kill" stuck under my van. The stench of the rotting meat saturated everything. If there’s a question about meat, I’ll sniff out the truth. The test in our family is, “If it smells bad to Dad, don’t eat it.”

Jesus warns us about the stench of false teachers. Everything we believe needs to be compared to the pure and holy truth that Jesus teaches us. Jesus does not lie to us. Jesus is trustworthy. His teachings never get old. They never turn sour. They are always fresh and nurture in us healthy, new life. Even though we may not fully understand why God instructs us on certain things, we can still trust it. Sometimes we only discover God’s truth because we act on it. Jesus teaches us how to live life. He teaches us what leads to death. He teaches us how to live rightly with one another. He teaches us what happens when we don’t. We can trust Jesus’ teaching for life—eternal life. So let’s commit ourselves to trust in him and follow his ways.

At Christ the Cornerstone we talk often about three words: Love, Serve, and Engage. These three words keep us focused to grow in our faith, act out the teaching of Jesus, and share his message with the whole world. Join us this weekend to be encouraged to live the life God has for you!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Do you like tech? Help us share God's love through our Media Team. We have several openings for various tasks. We'll train you. Contact Pastor Bill, bjenkins@ctcde.church .

Dear Jesus, so many thoughts, ideas, and behaviors tempt us every day to follow other pathways. They may claim to be good and right for me, but they are not. Help me to learn your ways, to trus t you, and give me the power to act according to your truth. Thank you for forgiving me and leading me in the way that truly leads to life everlasting. Amen.

- Roger L. Frederick, Lead Pastor

Weekly Newsletter Jan. 21

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 14:38:17 GMT

It's Just Tea and Lunch ... Or Is It?
Stay True to Jesus. No Compromise.

Back in the day Center City Philadelphia was THE place to be for shopping, fine dining, night life, culture and to work! Tall buildings and not-so-tall buildings were filled with businesses! Chestnut, Walnut and Market streets were always abuzz with people...especially at lunchtime. Just about everyone would run out to grab a bite to eat, do some shopping, or just walk around and enjoy the sights.

I worked in an office building on a charming street lined with quaint shops, smaller office buildings, residences, and nice eateries. My coworker and I would go out to lunch every day to grab a bite or just to walk aroun. Woolworths was one of our fave spots.

One day we decided to walk around and check out some of the eateries closer to our office. I don't recall the exact n ame of the restaurant but the words "Tea Room" were in the title. So we decided to go in -- the place was really cute! The furniture looked to be maybe early American or Colonial and each table had a setting for tea, lovely silverware, and dessert plates. None of the dishes or cutlery matched but that sort of lent to the uniqueness. Tea was served using loose leaves that were in the bottom of the cup...I found that a bit odd (I'm strictly a tea bag person). We dined on little pastries along with the tea -- everything was delicious.

After we finished our meal a woman came over to our table -- she asked if we wanted our leaves read. I was hesitant but my co-worker wanted to give it a try. So we did. I don't remember everything that was said but it made me uneasy. I remember her speaking of goddesses and fairies to protect me and then read my palm. At that point I could not wait to get out of that place. Unfortunately, my coworker was taken in by what had been told to her. She wanted to know more, she wanted to go to this place once or twice a week. On the walk back to the office she shared that she did not believe in the Bible and was not convinced there was a God.

That evening I kept thinking about what had happened earlier that day -- the more I thought about those events the more I felt they were wrong. The next day my coworker told me that she wanted to go back to the Tea Room for lunch on a regular basis. She tried to convince me that I could still go to the restaurant but not participate in the readings...we never went to lunch together again. I didn't give up my daily lunch walks. I just did them alone and had great fun! I did not compromise!

The Bible tells us that seeking advice from psychics and fortune tellers is wrong. Leviticus 19:31 states, "Do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritists, for you will be defiled by them."

Before I offer a prayer, below, here are some ways you can stay confident in your faith with Jesus.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

For more information about Divorce Care, contact Crissy Carroll: ccarroll@ctcde.church .

Heavenly Father, we want to live before You completely without compromise. Help us to turn our backs on the world and all that is evil and keep our focus on You. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter, Serving Ministries Dir.

Weekly Newsletter Jan. 14

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 14:39:45 GMT

The Maker's Mark

Just as a piece of artwork bear’s the mark of its creator, we bear God’s mark.

This Christmas, a friend gave me an amazing print entitled “God’s Fingerprint.” The picture I took does not do it justice. From a distance, it looks like a large fingerprint. But, when you get closer, you see that each of the lines in the fingerprint are handwritten verses from Scripture. There is one verse for every book of the Bible. At the bottom, it begins with Genesis 1:1: “In the beginning…” At the very top is Revelation 19:6:” Hallelujah!”

This awesome print reminds me that God’s fingerprints are all throughout Creation. That includes you and me.

Ephesians 2:10 says: “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”

You are God’s masterpiece! And you are personally signed by the Creator!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for creating us with such care. Please give us the courage to fulfill all that You has planned for us. We rejoice that you are with us always.

In Jesus name we pray, Am en.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Jan, 7

Fri, 07 Jan 2022 21:18:16 GMT

Let's Get Back to Our First Love

I felt very nervous as a freshman at my college in small-town Virginia. It was nothing like Philadelphia. This was my first time being away from home and on my own so my first week was awkward: orientation, trying to figure out which side of my dorm room was the best, meeting my classmates and upperclassmen, finding out where the dining hall was, getting schedules and figuring out the fastest routes across campus to classes. All-in-all my first year went well -- then home for summer break. A friend of my mother's mentioned a part-time job opening for a clerk typist and thought I may be interested in applying. The money part sounded wonderful! However, the only job experience I had was working after school at Woolworth's for one year, and my typing experience consisted of three years of typing classes. Yikes! I filled out the application anyway, was interviewed and got the job. Woo-hoo!

The next August I was back to school, but my classes frustrated me. The school did not offer what I really wanted to major in. Plus, I began to get a little homesick. By the end of second year I decided to transfer to a school closer to home. When a few bad incidents occurred just during the first week, I began to realize that the school was low on academics and high on socialization. But I had to stay there. I had to give it my best. Maybe things would get better. They didn't. I was unhappy but I didn't dare tell my mother. I couldn't wait for Fridays so I go home for the weekend. I was miserable but little did I know my misery was eventually going to come to a positive end.

I took a swimming class and had to walk all the way across campus to get to the gym. Too many walks with wet hair gave me colds and severe sore throats. The campus nurse sent me to an Ear-Nose-Throat doctor. The diagnosis: "Tonsils, secondary to infection. Must be removed as soon as possible." The procedure was scheduled for two weeks before the end of the semester.

I stayed home recovering from surgery. Besides thinking about all the pain I was in, my thoughts drifted to school. I missed finals and would have to study to take them later or repeat the courses in the Fall. But I didn't want to go back—ever. What was I going to do??? God knew how much I did not want to return to that school, but I couldn't transfer again and I had no job experience to speak of except for the summer part-time job I held years before.

Wait a minute!!! That job! Light bulb moment! It was long shot but I called the employer to see if perhaps there were any openings! Praise God there was an opening and they were willing to wait until I was fully recovered from my surgery to take me back! When I returned to that job, they trained me in accounting and I remained there for nine years!!!

God made a way when I thought there was no way!!

We remember after Jesus’ birth, Wise Men visited the child who would make the way for all people to see and experience God’s life-changing love. Sometimes God’s way takes time to play out, but we can always trust Him to get us there.

"Then Herod called for a private meeting with the wise men, and he learned from them the time when the star first appeared. Then he told them, "Go to Bethlehem and search carefully for the child. And when you find him, come back and tell me so that I can go and worship him, too!"

After this interview the wise men went their way. And the star they had seen in the east guided them to Bethlehem. It went ahead of them and stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were filled with joy! They entered the house and saw the child with his mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. -- Matthew 2: 7-11

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Heavenly Father, thank You for giving us back our first love.

- April Loper-Brown, Children's Ministry Director

Weekly Newsletter Dec. 31

Fri, 31 Dec 2021 15:53:33 GMT

Brilliant Stars Start Dimly Sometimes
Here's one light-bulb moment that took time to shine.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Please bring non-perishable food items that require no preparation before eating--such as nutritious pre-wrapped items and pop-top canned foods. These are needed at our Elsmere Pantry-On-the-Street.

Heavenly Father, thank You for giving us the strength to keep going. Thank You for blessing us even when we make decisions that are not in our best interest. Thank You for putting people in our lives who will always look out for us. Thank You for blessing us each and every day. In Jesus name, Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter

Weekly Newsletter Dec. 21

Tue, 21 Dec 2021 15:46:33 GMT

This Gift Can Rip-Apart Your Family
But God Can Bring Healing

Larry and Patricia had been married for about twenty years. When their daughter convinced Larry to research their ancestry through DNA, Patricia panicked. That night, she confessed that she'd had a long-term affair about fifteen years ago. As a result, Larry learned that he was not their daughter's bio logical father. The marriage did not survive. Their story illustrates the reality of many families: secrets get found out. Skeletons have a way of slipping out of their closets.

Jesus' family tree has a few shaky branches in it. In ancient days, women were not supposed to be part of genealogies, but the biblical writers list five women as significant parts of Jesus' ancestry. And they are probably more influential than the men. You might enjoy reading about them:

Tamar (See Genesis 38)
Rahab (Joshua 2)
Ruth (Ruth 1-4)
Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11)
Mary (Luke 1-2)

Many times we think that God only uses the perfect, mature, faithful, trained, and most blessed persons to accomplish his purposes. But that's totally wrong. The point of Christmas is that God became human in order that we humans can be restored to a right relationship with God. If God can't take what is wounded and heal it, or what is broken and mend it, or what is unjust and transform it into what is just, then God can't do what he says he can. God had to become human in order that we could experience the powerful renewal and hope of everlasting life that Jesus brings.

We celebrate Jesus' human birth not only because it is a miracle of virgin birth but more importantly because God has come to take on the very life we seek to flee: a life destined to destruction and death. Jesus entered this world through Mary. He grew. He matured. He carried the penalty of our own selfish and hurtful ways to the grave. He left it there and rose to live forever. But that's the rest of the story for another holy day we call Easter.

You may have tragic events in your past that come from consequences of your own decisions or those of someone else. You may be in a family that hides some history from younger generations. But God knows. And God is merciful to remain with you as you deal with those things. If you need forgiveness, God forgives. God heals. God restores. God gives new life! That's why Jesus came, and that's why we celebrate Christmas. Life need not tear apart your family.

So enjoy and revel in the festivities of Christmas and constantly give thanks that God does not and will not leave us. Trust in Jesus with your whole heart and follow him.

Merry Christmas!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Gracious God, you have knitted us all together not just as individuals but as family. You have placed us together so that we can experience your love and life in intimate friendship with you and others. However, we're not very good at keeping those rel ationships whole. Forgive us. Show us and strengthen us to live as you want us to live. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Dec. 10

Fri, 10 Dec 2021 15:07:17 GMT

Don't Unwrap that ... Yet!
Enduring the wait for that gift right in front of you.

At home on Christmas morning is, without a doubt, the best time! Moms, dads, kids, come bounding down the stairs in their robes excited to see what's under the tree! Moms and dads watch the wrapping paper flying all over the place, and listen to the kids squeals of joy!

Each year my brother David and I anxiously looked forward to Christmas morning! But in our household, there was a part of that special occasion we didn't like much. My father would not allow us to go to the tree until after we were dressed and had our breakfast. Can you imagine walking past a beautifully decorated tree with lots of gifts and having to sit down to a full breakfast first?? Oh, the agony! What kid wants breakfast when there are bunches of gifts and toys waiting??

There was a time (before I was born) when mom, dad and David would open Christmas gifts in their pajamas and robes. Hmmm, something changed in five years. I eventually asked my mother what the reason was for daddy's rule -- her response: "Your father said that you need to have a healthy meal before opening presents." Huh??!! For years I wondered if perhaps we had done something wrong.

David and I had no choice but to accept this change and for several years that's the way it was. For the record, mom was not happy about the change either.

Fast forward many years -- mom, David and I still talk about those Christmas mornings from time to time...but now we can laugh about it!

James 1:2-4 tells us, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Heavenly Father, help us in times of need, to pray for change in ourselves and not our circumstances. Help us to understand that You have a Plan for each one of us. Guide us through the difficulties, help us to persevere. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter

Weekly Newsletter Dec. 3

Fri, 03 Dec 2021 13:59:42 GMT

Why Bethlehem???
Bethlehem, at first glance, is nothing special.
Why did God choose this little town as the birthplace of Jesus?

Five years ago, I had the privilege of visiting the Holy Land. During our visit, the site that was the least inspirational and the most forgettable was, at least for me, the city of Bethlehem. I had a picture in my head of a Thomas Kincaid rendering of a beautiful site that served as the earthly birthplace of God’s son.
But Bethlehem is nothing like a Christmas card.

It’s small and kind of dirty. There are dark alleys. There is a sense of unrest in the air, and quite frankly, feels a little creepy. The highlight of our visit was the Church of the Nativity, which, according to legend, stands on the site where Jesus was born. Upon entering this cathedral, visitors are invited to journey down a narrow, twisting stairway that leads to an area under the main altar of the church. There, in thisbasement-like space, a star on the cold tile floor marks the spot where legend says the birth of Jesus took place.

As I stood there, two thoughts came to my mind:
1. It doesn’t really matter to me where the birth occurred. What matters to me is that God loved us enough to want to be with us!
2. God can use the most unlikely places, times and people to accomplish great things!

Remember that God has called each of us. And God will equip each of us…even the most awkward and unlikely…like me! As we continue this journey toward Christmas, may God use you in amazing ways!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for sending us Emmanuel to dwell among us. May we prepare a place in our hearts to be God’s dwelling and may we confidently share the Good News of Jesus with all we meet. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Nov. 26

Fri, 26 Nov 2021 13:48:29 GMT

Black Friday Is Just a Test
The Day-After Giving Thanks

Before my family moved to Delaware, we would travel every year to Dover to enjoy Thanksgiving with Carolyn’s mother. Those were the still the days when Black Friday was actually a one-day event. On that Friday morning, I woke up at 4:30AM to rush to Best Buy for a chance to get a great deal on a DVD player as a Christmas gift for the family. The line stretched around the parking lot for a quarter mile at least. The crowd was calm and cordial as we waited for the 5:00AM opening. Most people warmed themselves with hot coffee. Not me. I sweated it out and endured the icicles dangling from my ear lobes. It was a sacrifice for the family!

The doors finally opened and the line sped into the store. By the time I got to the display of the featured DVD players, you can probably guess the outcome. Of course, the shelves were already empty. I walked back to my car, defeated, but not discouraged. I brushed it off and thought I’d just have to make another plan for that gift. To redeem my efforts and not to go home empty handed, I stopped by Dunkin for a few donuts and Wawa so I could surprise Carolyn with a cup of her favorite coffee. I quietly entered Mimi’s apartment, set the donuts where Ryan and Emily would surely find them when they woke up from sleeping on the sofa-bed in the living room. I sneaked back into the bedroom with Carolyn’s coffee, placed it on the table beside her and slipped back into bed to catch up on my sleep.

When Carolyn woke up a little later, she enjoyed her coffee and we laughed at my episode. About 10:00AM, she and her mom went out shopping. They stopped at Best Buy, and guess what: Carolyn walked right up to the display of DVD’s on sale. It had been restocked, so she picked one up. When she told me of her success, I vowed that was the last time I would get up that early on Black Friday. And I’ve stuck to that promise.

I find it interesting that the day after families gather for great thanks, we immediately rush back into life where we are challenged to be grateful. That’s just life, isn’t it? I could have been angry and bitter about getting up so early for nothing. On the other hand, perhaps it’s the fact that I had spent the previous day celebrating life with a family feast that prepared my mind and heart for the challenge the next day.

As we get back to the busy-ness of cleaning, decorating, partying, spending, celebrating, keeping up with work and school, and all that comes with these holiday seasons, let’s decide to give thanks for every situation. Giving thanks is the skill. Black Friday, and every other day, is the test. Keep giving thanks! “Rejoice in the Lord always. I say it again: Rejoice!”

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Heavenly Father, just yesterday we celebrated a feast of thanks. That's good and right, and we want to continue to rejoice in all circumstances. Give us your Holy Spirit, teach us with discipline to face all things with the hope that y ou are working them out for the good of those who love you. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Nov. 19

Fri, 19 Nov 2021 13:37:11 GMT

How to Create Family Unity
My Grandparents Set a Tradition for Harmony

In my early years, I lived with my mom, dad, and my brother in an apartment around the corner from my mother's parents. Holiday get-togethers were a big deal, but money was tight so mom and dad weren't in a position to host a holiday meal. For Thanksgiving we would go to my father's parents, the Poindexters, and for Christmas, we'd go to my mother's parents, the Jordans.

On Christmas when I was two, Santa left a bed, high chair, and carriage under the tree for me and my doll. When it was time to go to my grandparents, I didn't want to leave my new toys. I insisted that the bed, high chair and carriage go with me. Just picture this: There we all were--Mom, Dad, and two small children walking down the street--me pushing my doll's carriage and my father carrying the high chair and bed.

The following year we moved into a big house with plenty of room for get-togethers. It even had a fireplace and chimney for Santa! Thanksgiving was not far off and the dinner was supposed to be hosted by my parents, which meant the family Christmas celebration was supposed to be at Daddy Ira and Lelah Jordan's house. But for the love of us children, my grandmother and grandfather switched the plans and hosted Thanksgiving. That way, my brother and I could have Christmas in our own home. Neither Lillian nor Ira (their real names) felt that it was fair to take children away from fun at home on Christmas day. This tradition started for our family and lasted many years … even beyond the years that David and I were too old for toys. I thank my wise grandparents for showing us how our extended family can live in harmony especially through life's changes.

"How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in harmony." Psalm 133:1

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

We are looking for Elves to phone families and determine what an appropriate gift for the kids would be. Can you help us?

Please pray with me: Heavenly Father, Lay Your hands on our hearts so we can learn to live and love one another in unity just as You love us. Show us how to care for our families especially during holiday. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen

- Lynne Poindexter

Weekly Newsletter Nov. 12

Fri, 12 Nov 2021 13:26:31 GMT

Seeking Recommendations
Are We Quick to Recommend Jesus?

Earlier today, I received a text message from a friend whose cat was sick. She was asking me the name and telephone number of my veterinarian, because she has heard me say how much I trust our vet, Dr. Scheiber, for advice and care for all of our pets. My friend told me that she had a call into a veterinarian that she’d used once, and that doctor wasn’t returning her call.

I quickly gave her the telephone number to our veterinarian, but I also started thinking…. Dr. Scheiber is so responsive to us because we have a long relationship. We have always taken our pets to her…. for the past 24 years. She knows us and she knows the level of care we give our four-legged family.

I wanted to help my friend. But it also made me think….when a friend has a problem of the heart or spirit, am I as quick to connect them to Jesus as I am to connect them to a veterinarian when their pet is ill? Even more than forming a relationship with a reputable veterinarian, I should be leading friends into relationship with the One who heals all ills.

May God give me the strength to do just that.

I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM tonight or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

II’d like to finish with this prayer. Thank you, Lord God, for taking care of all my needs. Open the hearts and minds of those you would like me to encourage today, especially those to whom you are calling into a relationship with you. Speak their names into my heart, that I might lead them to your loving presence. In Jesus name, Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Nov. 5

Fri, 05 Nov 2021 23:26:40 GMT

Have You Ever Hit the Wall, Literally?
One Time When Reality Slapped My Icy Cold Face

I was an overconfident, ungrateful teenager that day on the farm. Okay, maybe more than one day, but this was a day I will never forget.

One bitter-cold Sunday morning when I'd much rather stay in bed, I rushed to feed the cows and calves so that we could get to church on time. The cold wasn't the only bitter thing about that morning. I was angry. About what I don't remember, but that's no attitude to have while I was driving a 4-ton tractor and pulling a 4-ton wagon over ice. I turned my steering wheel to guide the tractor around a corner, but the tractor kept straight, sliding across the ice until it smashed right into the corner of the barn. I watched a 4-foot chunk of wall fly through the air and land about 100 feet away. I was driving far too fast and the sub-zero temperature did nothing to cool my anger. Then reality slapped my icy, cold, face and heart. My anger was harmful and dangerous. I realized I needed to change my attitude and my behavior quickly. I felt embarrassed and ashamed as I went to tell my father what I had done. Fortunately I was not hurt, nor did I harm any cattle. And the tractor was fine. It was just a dumb and immature thing to do.

My father saw that I was upset and remorseful, and he treated me with stern kindness. After he finished milking the cows, he helped me fix things up and we went on to church. My lesson was learned, at least for that moment. There have been several times since that I have had several other “wake up” moments. We all have them. They hurt, but if we’re humble enough to submit, God will help us grow up. That’s how He created us.

Many of us are familiar with the story of the prodigal son in the Bible from Luke chapter 15. Go ahead and look it up. The key verse says, “Finally, the son came to his senses.”

I pray for wisdom to come to my senses even if I don’t see that I’m headed in a wrong direction. That’s especially when I need God’s help. God does send us “wake up” calls often. Are you listening to them? Are you willing to humble yourself to learn the lesson that will lead you to better life? I pray so.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

THANKS

to everyone who volunteered to make Trunk or Treat a great success. Over 200 people visited and enjoyed games, balloons, candy, and prizes as we met neighbors and made new friends. THANK YOU!

November 7

Remember to turn your clocks back one hour this weekend, November 7, so you'll be on time to worship with us!

A prayer for you:
Here is a prayer for you: God who is always full of kindness, we do not always see your way as the best way for our lives. Forgive us, and receive us with kindness when we return to you. Teach us your ways so we may live joyfully and eternally with you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 29

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 23:16:05 GMT

Tony's Life and His Death Taught Me a Hard Lesson
How to Love a Difficult Neighbor

"God will reward you for inviting those who could not repay you." Luke 14:14

I grew up on a street in Philadelphia where all the neighbor's knew each other's business. It was that kind of neighborhood, but things changed when my nearest neighbors both passed away. When a new neighbor, Tony, moved in, he clearly failed to live up to the saying, “You only get one chance to make a good impression.”

I found Tony to be disrespectful to people and their properties, especially those who lived on either side of him. One year he decided to renovate the front of his home. He added rooms that reached over and onto my property. He ignored my repeated requests to fix the problem. I also learned that he never finished paying the contractor for the work he had done. At some point out of anger and frustration I gave up "fighting" with Tony. We no longer spoke to each other and I was fine with that.

A few years passed when I started noticing his newspapers were piling up on the front step, and his car had not been moved in quite some time. I asked one of my neighbors if she had seen him lately. Ann told me that all of his utilities had been shut off, the lock on the front door had been changed, and he was doing odd jobs at the gas station in exchange for a place to sleep on the store room floor. He was homeless!

One day my doorbell rang. I went to the door. There stood Tony, man who had once lived a lavish lifestyle—expensive clothes, jewelry, and a luxury car. He cared about no one but himself. Now he was wearing many layers of clothing to ward off the cold. All his earthly possessions were in a trash bag. For some reason he had lost his job at the gas station and had nowhere to go. My heart broke. Here is someone I know, someone who lived next door to me for years and now he's standing on my steps with nothing but the clothes he's wearing. He asked me if it would be okay to use my bathroom so that he could clean up a little. That was all he wanted. After he cleaned up I gave him a little money and he left. I had planned to get a list of homeless shelters together... sadly I would never see him again.

A little more than a month later I came home to find several policemen up and down the block questioning neighbors. I don't know exactly when it happened but Tony had broken back into his home and was staying there. Apparently another person was with him because Tony had been thrown down the basement steps. A chair was shoved up against the basement door so that Tony could not escape. When he was found he had been dead for some time.

Tony’s life ended horribly. I wish I could have done much more to help him. I’m glad, though, that he had come to trust me enough to ask for help. And I’m glad I did not reject him that day, even though it was too little too late.

When I read Jesus saying that we should “invite those who cannot repay us,” I think of Tony. Who is near you who you might not know the depth of their need? Can you show kindness and generosity to them today? Will you show God’s kindness to them even if they cannot repay it to you?

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Tuesdays 7 pm

Go Beyond Sunday's message by joining this Zoom group to talk about how to live out what Pastors Sharon and Roger talk about over the weekend. This is discussion and prayer group open to all.

A prayer for you: A Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank you for all that you have given us; remind us daily to help those in need and look for nothing in return. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 22

Fri, 22 Oct 2021 23:10:41 GMT

Walking the Walk
Servant's Hearts

Yesterday, I met two amazing people. Their names are Scott and Faye. They are homeless.

Actually, by most people’s standards, they are homeless. But, being creative and resourceful people, they have created a home on the back of their vehicle, by using scrap material they have found (see picture). The interior is functional, and provides a place for them to sleep and shelter from inclement weather. On the front of the truck there is a small generator, that provides power to heat or cool this tiny home on wheels. The generator also provides power for lights,
charging cell phones, AND a flat screen TV! They have even named their vehicle LOSEABAGO (it took me a minute to get the pun).

Scott and Faye have lived this way for about two years. They have taken their situation, however, and created their own purpose and ministry. They load their truck with food, sleeping bags, tents, coats---whatever donations they can obtain or purchase at a low price---and they take the supplies to known places where the homeless congregate. They pray with those who need prayer. They offer rides to folks. When they are able, they even open the back door of their home, where the TV is hung, and set out stools and blankets, and show a movie to a small group of folks who are living outdoors, in an effort to “make it feel a little like home, even if it’s just for a night.”

Scott and Faye freely shared their story, accepted a couple cartons and bags of food, prayed with me and went on their way promising to keep in touch. I went home yesterday blessed and humbled. Scott and Faye are working hard to make the world around them a little better right where they are—in their current situation. As we continue our Parables of Invitation message series, I am encouraged to have seen living proof that each person really can extend an invitation to SOMEONE without looking too far.

Let’s all open our eyes to those around us. And let’s ask God whom God is preparing to accept our invitation to God’s table. I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

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Oct. 31 5 - 8 pm

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I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for our many blessings. Lead us to those people and places where we can best serve you. And, give us eyes and hearts like Faye and Scott, that we might see those opportunities that are right where we are. Jesus name we pray, Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 15

Fri, 15 Oct 2021 23:05:01 GMT

Don't Miss This Bus!

Are You Ready and Watching?

I switched on the flashing amber lights of the school bus as I approached the end of Johnny’s drive way. The brakes squealed, the bus stopped, and I opened the door to let him on as the red lights flashed to stop traffic. But Johnny was not standing at his usual spot. I looked up his long driveway toward his house up at the farm. That's when I saw a porch door swing open and Johnny ran out.

He was about ten years old and had not yet hit the age when his hormones would slim down his rounded little-boy body into that of a young man. He wasn’t quite in shape to run frantically down his quarter-mile driveway to catch the bus, but I admired his determination!

Something had caused him to miss the bus--almost. Sweat ran down his red-hot cheeks as he huffed and puffed to catch his breath. A few minutes after Johnny pounced into his seat, I heard other children scream “Eeeewww! Johnny threw up!” He had pushed himself so hard running that he over-heated and got sick. I wish Johnny had slowed down. I would have waited for him and that would have been much better than cleaning up a mess.

Some things just can’t be missed—like busses. Jesus spoke of a wedding party waiting for everything to get ready. He said some of the guests were prepared, and others were not. The prepared guests were welcomed into the party, but the others missed their opportunity. You can read the parable in Matthew 25:1-13

That comparison sounds harsh, but sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Jesus has forgiven the sin and wrongdoings of very person. But to "get on that bus," we have to trust Jesus is who he is and did what he came to do. At Christ the Cornerstone, we tell that good message--Jesus wants everyone to be ready so that when we returns, we all will rejoice with him in Heaven. I pray that you will always be ready by trusting in Jesus. If you're not sure, I'm willing to pray with you.

Keep reading for a couple opportunities to help others get ready by loving, serving, and engaging them with Jesus' good news:

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Do you have gently used infant items? A newly-relocated couple, expecting t heir first child, is asking for assistance with baby needs. Are you in a position to help? Use the button below to contact Lynne Poindexter for more information.

Oct. 31 5 - 8 pm

Can you donate a couple large bags of pre-wrapped candy?
Can you decorate your car trunk and pass out candy ?

A prayer for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, your mercy and kindness endure forever! Thank you for loving all people so much that you gave us the way to live with you forever. Give us faith every day to follow your ways so that others may also experience your eternal love. In Jesus' name, amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 8

Fri, 08 Oct 2021 22:55:24 GMT

Chri stian Friends

On Thursday night I went to see the Christian artists Big Daddy Weave and Ann Wilson in concert. After over a year of not seeing live performances, due to COVID-19 restrictions, it was so exciting to be in a venue where Christian artists were playing and singing in praise to God.

The best part of the evening was watching all those around me, standing and raising their hands in worship. I was reminded of how blessed I am to have Christian friends to walk with me on this journey…to enjoy one another’s company and to sing and worship together.

I treasure my friends.

I hope each of you has others to walk with you….to share joys and sorrows and to support you, and to share your faith.

This weekend we will be talking about things of value, and when I think of my treasures, my friends are at the top of the list.

I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for friends to walk with us on the journey. Life is often not easy, but we are grateful for those you have placed in our lives to share your love. They are reminders of how very much you love us. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Oct. 1

Fri, 01 Oct 2021 18:02:33 GMT

1 Life-Skill Y ou Must Learn!

Can you say, "I'm sorry?"

Last Wednesday I talked with the school-age children at CtC while they waited for their school bus. They are part of our before and after care program. I told them about a time I learned to say, “I’m sorry.”

I was six years old and my brother had caught me doing something I wasn’t supposed to do. It was one of those things Mom had told me not to do a million times. Paul threatened to tattle on me, so I decided to beat him to the punch and “tattle” on myself. Now I’m not sure I was as smart as I thought I was. But hold your judgement until the end.

Before my brother could get to her, I went to Mom and asked, “What do we do when we keep doing things we know we’re not supposed to do?” I expected her to shout, “What did you do now!” But she didn’t. She told me to go upstairs, kneel beside my bed and pray. She said, “Tell Jesus you are sorry. Ask him to forgive you for what you’ve done to help you remember to do what you are supposed to do.”

I did what she said. When I returned to her, I said, “I did it.” She was washing dishes at the time but she pulled her hands out of the water and wrapped her arms around me with a big, wet, loving hug. I’ve never forgotten what it feels like to say, “I’m sorry.” Even Calvin and Hobbes recognize it's the most obvious solution.

When we admit our wrongs to God, he does not cast us away because Jesus took the punishment for our sins. Instead, God wraps us in his love, care, and strength so that we can continue to live Holy lives, pleasing to him. Then we will live abundant lives full of the joy of Jesus Christ. I hope you experience that every moment. If not, please, let’s talk. I’ll pray with you.

Here are a couple ways we can love God and others:

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Please bring non-perishable food items to share through our food pantries.

Oct. 31 5 - 8 pm

Can you share God's love by
Donating a large bag of great candy?

Decorate your trunk and join the fun?

I offer this prayer for you:
Jesus, thank you for taking the punishment for our wrong-doings. All of them. As we trust in you, fill us with your Holy Spirit who teaches us all things you want us to learn and strengthens us to live for you. In Je sus’ name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 24

Fri, 24 Sep 2021 17:52:35 GMT

Desperate to Ge t Out!

Trusting Jesus to Lead Me Thro ugh

I stood still gazing blindly toward a camera that no one could see.

For 30 years of my working life my career was in the corporate legal world as a legal assistant and then a paralegal. For the first 10 years I worked for a business in the legal division in what was called in-house law in mergers and acquisitions -- It was fast paced and I found it to be very interesting. Fast forward to the last 10 years of my career -- I worked for a law firm in corporate litigation although I had no experience in that field. I reluctantly took the position because corporate paralegal jobs in Delaware were hard to find and the travel from Delaware to Philadelphia could, at times, be a nightmare. From day one on the new job I had a feeling that working in litigation was not going to be what I thought it would be. It made me very uncomfortable.

Should I stay? Should I go? God spoke to my heart and told me to stay. I didn't understand why He would want me to be in a situation where daily yelling, screaming, stress and fear would be the norm.

One day, a thought came to mind that I couldn't shake -- to retire early and devote myself to serving at Cornerstone. I prayed on that thought. I claimed that thought. No matter what, I was not giving up! With each work day situations became increasingly unpleasant....and then the time came when I understood why God wanted me to stay at the firm -- in His time, not mine, He would answer my prayer. On March 1, 2019 ( retirement date) and March 19, 2019 (starting day at Cornerstone) I was given a newness of life and I am so blessed and thankful! Thank you Jesus! Thank you Lord!

Romans 6:4 tells us, "We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life." God loves you!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

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Our Lord Jesus, we wake every morning to the sunshine you created. By our trust in you, you lead us to abundant life. We ask you to shine in and through us so that others may know your joy and eternal li fe. We pray this in your Holy Name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 17

Fri, 17 Sep 2021 17:46:06 GMT

Deep in a Dark Cave, I Stood

Looking for any sign of ligh t..

I stood still gazing blindly toward a camera that no one could see.

We had travelled to Honduras on a mission trip. On one of our “fun days” we explored some caves that went deep into the rugged mountains. We slid through diagonal crevices slick with mud, but I’m not sure it was just mud. We waded waist-deep through murky waters without knowing what was floating--or swimming--past us. Only a few of us had flashlights. Cell phones were not invented yet. Someone had the bright idea to take a picture of the group inside the dark cave. We all settled in one spot for a photograph, the camera shutter clicked and the flash burst. When I had the film developed a couple weeks later (what’s film?), I was shocked to see the image. Thirty college students staring blankly in different directions, wide eyed trying to guess where the camera was and when it would click. Once it did, we all screamed because of the sudden flash of light burning our eyes. I wish I still had the picture to show you. But you’ll just have to use your imagination.

We need light! Jesus’ “life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it.” (Read John 1.)

Take a moment to think about the darkness you saw in our world today. Was it close by? In another family or even nation? Jesus’ light is in you when you trust in him. He said that no one lights a lamp and hides it under a bowl. Instead, they shine it into the dark places where it reveals what was hidden. (Now read Luke 8:16-17.) Jesus asks you to live the life he creates in you to bring light to others and cast away all darkness. As brothers and sisters in Christ, we do that all around the world. Do not be discouraged about your own life or others. Instead, trust Jesus with your life. Let him shine in yours to expose any lies you’ve been living. Turn toward Jesus. Follow his ways, and shine his light on everyone you meet.

In that cave that day, I realized even the smallest light would have guided me to focus on a friend’s face so I could take a better picture. Jesus wants to guide you into the life that he has for you, but you must follow his light. I’ll be glad to help you.

Let’s meet this weekend to encourage one another, and bring a friend to our Community Day at the Bear Campus. Food trucks, classic cars, carnival games, and inflatables will b e here for you to enjoy friends and fun together. Come and join us and we’ll share the light of Jesus with all.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Divorce Care

Find hope and healing through divorce recovery. Meetings begin Sept. 21. Contact Crissy Carroll, ccarroll@ctcde.church for more information and to register.

This Weekend !

Community Day

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

Invite a friend. Worship at 9:00AM then enjoy all kinds of fun!

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 10

Fri, 10 Sep 2021 16:16:06 GMT

September 12

What I'd like to remember...

September 11, 2001 was one of those days that each of us (at least those of us of a certain age!) remembers in great detail. Everyone can remember exactly where they were and what they were doing the moment they heard the news of an airplane striking the North Tower of the World Trade Center. Glued with horror to our televisions and radios, we watched and listened as the drama unfolded. Another plane hit the South Tower; another struck the Pentagon. And then, due to the bravery of some passengers, another plane, destined for the Capital, crashed in a Pennsylvania field.

But then came September 12.

The alarm went off in the morning. And most of us went to work, like any other day. I was working at a bank in Wilmington. On September 12, a church just a few blocks from the bank had a large sign outside announcing that there would be a prayer service at noon. Several of my co-workers and I decided to attend. The church was packed. A Presbyterian minister, a Catholic priest, an Islamic mullah, and a rabbi co-led the service. Those in attendance represented all different faiths and all different races. And, just for that day, it seemed, our similarities were more noticeable than our differences. We were Americans. We gathered to lift our voices in prayer for those who had lost loved ones and those who had been injured. We gave thanks for the heroic first responders. And even though our prayers may have been voiced differently, we all had the same hope that evil would not prevail. This was faith, at its strongest.

Likewise, my co-workers who attended with me were Christian, non-Christian, and agnostic. We were white, black and brown. And when we returned to the office, we did something we had never done before. We talked about our faith. We shared a common bond and a common hope. Even if just for that day, we all voiced true belief that someone or something beyond our own weakness, anxiety and fears had it all under control.

The phrase “We will never forget,” seems to be on everyone’s lips this week. Of course, we will never forget. But each of us chooses to remember in our own way. I choose to remember, and long for September 12.

I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Next Sunday!

Community Day

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

For more information, email mpasswaters@ctcde.church

Lord, we worship you and give you thanks. Protect our nation and bring peace to all nations throughout the world. May all creation one day raise our voices in unison with the cry, “Jesus is Lord of all!”

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Sept. 3

Fri, 03 Sep 2021 16:00:40 GMT

Broken Skin. Broken Pride.

Does God Abandon Us?

My bike accident tore open flesh on my finger, wrist, elbows, belly, and knees. I’m sure I took it on the chin, too. Worst of all, my pride was shattered. Later that day, I laid in my bed, hurt, tired, embarrassed, and hungry. From outside my window, I could hear my family and neighbors enjoying a picnic in the yard right outside my bedroom window. I wanted Mom to bring me a hot dog, but I didn’t want anyone to see me. Nor did I want to explain that my condition was caused by my own disobedience and foolishness. So I screamed through the window, “Mo-o-o-o-o-om! I’m hungry!” No answer. I could still hear laughter and conversation. So I yelled even louder, “Mom!” Still no answer. Mom was letting me endure the consequences of my own actions. It was a tough lesson. I felt abandoned. But I eventually got the point. I settled myself down and simply waited. I never did go outside. I was too full of pride. But after a while Mom did bring me some supper. And after that, I probably did go play with my friends. And my skin eventually healed, too.

I’ve been thinking of Jesus dying on the cross, and about the time when he cried out to his Heavenly Father, “Why have you forsaken me?” It’s important to realize that Jesus was convinced that God had left him. We know that God was there, but that was not Jesus’ experience. We know God was there because days later, God restored the broken flesh and bones of Jesus and breathed new life into him again. Jesus lives even today, and by our trust in him. Our sins are forgiven. He gives us new life here and now and the hope of eternal life with him.

As you face daily life, give thanks to God for new life through Jesus. If you are not aware of God’s work in your life, send me a note, give me a call, or worship with us this weekend. We’ll encourage you to trust him, and when you do, you’ll see that he has never left you.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

You've got a skill we need. Help us show God's love at

Community Day

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

For more information, email mpasswaters@ctcde.church

Here's a prayer for you:
Loving Heavenly Father, the words I’ve written come easily, but the truth of them is often difficult for some people to believe. Help our unbelief. Send your Holy Spirit so that these words become real life, active, and powerful to shape our life forever. In Jesus’ name, Amen

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 27

Fri, 27 Aug 2021 15:53:39 GMT

It's Just a Car

One of those days...

Did you ever have one of THOSE days? Yesterday, nothing I did seemed to go right. I got up in the morning and had to clean the floor before I even got showered or dressed because a cat had been sick. Then, I had some unexpected calls from folks…. pulling me away from my “to-do” list. Finally, as I went to leave church last night, at about 9 PM, my car wouldn’t start. All I wanted to do was to go home and go to bed. But there I was, stuck, trying to figure out what to do.
I was eventually able to get the car started, and I did get home, but it is pretty obvious that the car has some real problems. I was angry at myself because I got so frustrated at the situation. So, I decided to ake a list of all the blessings involved…. to improve my attitude:
1. I was at the church when this happened, not on the side of the road.
2. I did get the car home.
3. I have a working cell phone that was fully charged…. should I have needed it.
4. I was headed home… not to some emergency.
5. It’s not my only car.
Focusing on these blessings helped me to admit that this was merely a minor inconvenience.
After all, it’s just a car.
Jesus faced many difficult situations in his earthly life, and this weekend, we will look at how Jesus handled being on trial for his life…. something I pray none of us will ever have to face.
I hope you will join us this weekend, either online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11 AM on Sunday, or in-person in Bear at 6 PM Saturday or 9 AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Community Day
Su nday, September 19

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

For more information, email mpasswaters@ctcde.church

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you:
Thank you, Lord God, for helping us to face life’s challenges with confidence. Life is often not easy, but we are grateful to have Your Holy Spirit to guide us and accompany us on our journey. Remind us to listen to your guidan ce and to follow you. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 20

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 22:09:39 GMT

Stay Alert!
Strange Times Point Us to Hope

A road sign is not the destination. It only points you along your way to the place you want to be.

Imagine I invite you to go to the beach with me. We’re driving along the highway and when I see the first road sign for “Bethany Beach” I pull the car over to the side of the road and come to a dead stop right under the sign.
“Okay, we’re here!” I shout.
You’d think I was crazy and you’d tell me to step on the gas and follow the road to the beach! The road sign isn’t the destination. It only indicates which direction to go to get there.

Jesus said to those who trust in him:
"At that time, after the anguish of those days,
the sun sill be darkened,
the moon will give no light,
the stars will fall from the sky,
and the powers in the heavens will be shaken.
Then everyone will see the Son of Man coming
on the clouds with great power and glory!” (Mark 13:24-26)

Jesus is coming again, and we have been seeing the signs of his return ever since he ascended into heaven. Every generation of believers has recognized the signs that show us to turn back to God and place our trust in Jesus. COVID, wars, and mysterious events all are part of the signs. Still no one knows the day or time of Jesus’ return. We simply must be ready. While we wait. We wait. I mean, we serve—just like a “waiter” at a restaurant. We serve one another lovingly as we trust Jesus to be who he says he is. He forgives all our sin. He restores our soul. He comforts and teaches us his ways. We have hope. The world may have dark days and difficult times. These are merely signs that point us to place our hope in Jesus. So let's trust in him and have hope!

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the

life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE - We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE- We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE - We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Volunteers Nee ded

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

For more information, email mpasswaters@ctcde.church

Christmas Musical

Sunday, August 22- 1:30-3:30pm
Tuesday, August 24- 6:30-8:30pm

For more information, email mpasswaters@ctcde.church

Heavenly Father, thank you for your promise that through faith in Jesus, you will take us to be with you always. Restore us with that hope and help us serve you and others so that all people will experience your life-changing and eternal love. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 13

Fri, 13 Aug 2021 23:05:14 GMT

"You'll Never Use That!"
"One man's trash is another man's treasure."

We all have something of value for another person.
This Saturday, August 14 from 8:00 a.m. until 2:00 p.m. Christ the Cornerstone will be sponsoring a “Yard-Sale-Giveaway.” This event gives us the opportunity to take inventory of items we have around the house that we:

no longer have use for
bought and never used
"I might need it someday"
can't seem to part with it for some reason

We look at the Yard-Sale-Give-Away as a chance to "get rid of stuff" but why not look at it another way: Some of our neighbors who attend may be in real need of items for their families but may not have the means to provide them. So let's think as we are doing our inventory, "Do I really need to keep this? If I keep it, am I really going to use it?" But before asking yourself these questions, pray about it. Ask God what you should do. No doubt, He will give you the right answer.

"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also." -- Matthew 6:21

Save the Date!

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

Yep! It's all free.
8:00AM-2:00PM
at the Bear Campus

Donations will be received on Aug. 13

from 6-8PM
Items left over will be donated to benefit the American Red Cross

For more information contact ccarroll@ctcde.church

Christmas Musical

Sunday, August 22- 1:30-3:30pm
Tuesday, August 24- 6:30-8:30pm

CANNED ITEMS NEEDED

for Bear Campus Food Pantry
Drop off anytime

just inside the front entrance on your left

Heavenly Father, thank you for helping us to see the needs of others and respond to those needs with the gifts that You have blessed us with. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter
Director of Serving Ministries

Weekly Newsletter Aug. 6

Fri, 06 Aug 2021 22:56:51 GMT

Mustard Seeds

It's the little things...

On Wednesday evening, a few of us ventured out into a neighborhood near the Elsmere Campus. Our intention was just to connect with some folks and, hopefully get to know a few people and to share some of God’s love.

We met one young lady, and after talking with her, offered to pray for her, her family and her employment needs. A neighbor happened to be looking out of the window, and, as we were finishing, literally burst out of her home and asked for prayer!
Of course, we prayed with her, and afterward, she invited me into her home where she showed me a piece of paper upon which she had written, “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” (Matthew 17:20)

Then, she told me that she had gone to the grocery store and purchased a small jar of mustard seeds, so that she could understand just how small they were. She then poured some of the mustard seeds from her jar into a zip-loc bag and gave them to me….to help me remember it only takes a little faith to do great things.

I started out that journey with little faith.

But a mustard seed was all it took.

Sometimes the little things make a big difference.

By doing the littlest thing for someone else (praying), my faith grew that day, by leaps and bounds.
I hope you will join us this weekend, either on line at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, or in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

We are here to love God and all people so that all people may experience the life-changing love of Jesus!

LOVE We meet every weekend to experience God's love for us and show His love for others.

SERVE We use our abilities, talents, skills, and passions for the good of others.

ENGAGE We engage with friends to care for one another and to make new friends so they may experience God's kindness too.

Save the Date!

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

Yep! It's all free.
8:00AM-2:00PM
at the Bear Campus

Donations will be received on Aug. 13

from 6-8PM
Items left over will be donated to benefit the American Red Cross

For more information contact ccarroll@ctcde.church

Christmas Play
Audition Call

Sunday, August 22
1:30-3:30pm
Tuesday, August 24
6:30-8:30pm

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for giving us hearts to love. As we share that love with others give us your Holy Spirit to guide us. Show us the best way to teach others about your life-changing love. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter July 30

Fri, 30 Jul 2021 13:13:35 GMT

Realizing the authority of God's love
I Should Have Obeyed mom.. .

When I was ten years old, I asked Mom if I could ride my bicycle with two friends to another friend’s house. She said “No.” But a few minutes later, we were out of her sight and on our way anyway. She never would have known (I thought) except that on the way home, I lost control of my bike going down a hilly dirt road and fell off my bike. I skinned hands, elbows, chest and knees. I was really sore and bleeding. A neighbor, and friend of Mom’s helped me get cleaned up, but of course she had to call my mom. I took a while healing from my disobedience. I also learned my lesson. Mom wasn’t trying to be mean. She was looking out for my safety because she loves me.

God is the same way. We can look at the authority of God and rebel against it thinking that we know better than God how to live our own lives. But that’s a very childish way to live life that God gave to us in the first place. When we trust that God is love, and God’s ways for us bring us life, then we can more quickly turn toward God and love him along with others. God forgives us and restores us to a good relationship with Him and others.

Colossians 1:13-14 says, “For God has rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us into the Kingdom of his dear Son, who purchased our freedom and forgave our sins.”

Let’s meet this weekend to love God, serve one another in Jesus’ name, and engage the world with God’s love.

Save the Date!

Sunday, September 19

10:30am-2:00pm

Yep! It's all free.
8:00AM-2:00PM
at the Bear Campus

Donations will be received on Aug. 13

from 6-8PM
Items left over will be donated to benefit the American Red Cross

For more information contact ccarroll@ctcde.church

Christmas Play
Audition Call

Sunday, August 22
1:30-3:30pm
Tuesday, August 24
6:30-8:30pm

Now Enrolling for
KINDERGART EN

Limited Openings
Call 302 836-6445 Today!

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 and 11AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Crissy Carroll
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Loving God, your authority over all of life is motivated by love because you are love. Forgive us for turning away from you. Fill our hearts and minds with your Holy Spirit so that we can fully trust in you and live as you desire and create us to live. Then we will have full, abundant, and joy-filled lives.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter July 23

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 14:23:26 GMT

"A Friend in Need Is a Friend Indeed!"
Do you have a friend in need ?

I woke up bright and early Monday morning (my day off) with plans to walk my dog Xena before the temperatures climbed, to reduce my ever-growing to-do list by five items, and then tackle a craft project. Xena and I had a nice long exercise walk, but somehow my motivation to do anything else started slipping away.

As the day wore on, I could not shake this "blue" mood – perhaps it was the weather or maybe not being able to decide which item on my to-do list to tackle first. Whatever the reason, the fact that I was not accomplishing anything was not sitting well with me and I didn’t know what to do about it – I didn’t like wasting a day doing absolutely nothing -- not when I had so many things that I could be doing!

God knows my heart and He knew that this was really bothering me. Around 2:00 I received a phone call from a dear friend and Sister-in-Christ. She needed help with a family matter, and I was able to provide that help. My mood immediately changed! I remembered reading somewhere how helping others helps us by improving our mental health and wellbeing. How awesome is that!! I am so very happy to have been able to help my friend and I thank God for the blessing!

“Don’t forget to do good and to share what you have because God is pleased with these kinds of sacrifices.” – Hebrews 13:16.

At CtC, we seek to help all people experience the life-changing love of Jesus, by deliberately loving, serving, and engaging all people with God's good work and message. Come join us...

Yep! It's all free.
8:00AM-2:00PM
at the Bear Campus

Donations will be received on Aug. 13 from 6-8PM
Items left over will be donated to benefit the American Red Cross

F or more information contact ccarroll@ctcde.church

Student Mis sion Trip

Pray for our students and adults traveling to repair homes in West Virginia.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 and 11AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Crissy Carroll
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly Father, thank you for always being by our side. Thank you for reminding us that we all need help, and that we need to help one another. Bless us with gifts that we can share with others to uplift them, to support them, to encourage the m. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

- Lynne Poindexter, Director of Serving Ministries

Weekly Newsletter July 16

Fri, 16 Jul 2021 19:21:01 GMT

We All Have Something to Learn...
Whis kers and Paws

I recently helped a friend rescue a litter of four kittens. That’s right four. Right now, the kittens are in my home, pending initial visits to the veterinarian. They are so much fun to watch…. four little whiskered faces and 16 little paws come running up to the door of their enclosure whenever they hear me coming. While they are with me, I am teaching them some basic kitten manners. Living indoors is quite different than living outdoors for a cat, so they needed to learn how to use a litter box, how to eat solid food and how to clean themselves.

People who are parents understand that teaching basic life skills to your children is your responsibility. If you were not around, the children would still have to learn those skills somehow. Many people don’t realize that baby animals are not born with all the knowledge and skills they need to survive. They, too, have to be taught. Whether we are born with fingers and toes or whiskers and paws, we have to learn from someone else.

Our spiritual walk is like that also. Paul, in his letter to the Hebrews says, “You have been believers so long now that you ought to be teaching others. Instead, you need someone to teach you again the basic things about God’s word. You are like babies who need milk and cannot eat solid food.” (Hebrews 5:12) When we were new to our faith, we needed patient teachers and mentors to teach us the Good News. As we mature in our faith, we become the teachers.

Who can you nurture in their faith? Can you think of anyone that you can walk beside and help them grow in their relationship with Christ?

This Saturday evening at the Elsmere campus, we are again hosting our open mic night at 7PM. Please come and share your talent with us.

We will also worship as always online at ctcde.online.church at 9 or 11AM on Sunday, We also worship in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

HELP WANTED

Infant and Pre-School Teachers
Before- and After-care Counselors

Contact Shelly at sstrickland@ctcde.church

OPEN MIC NIGHT

Living Waters Cafe
Elsmere Campus
This Saturday Night, July 17th, at 7:00 pm

Coming Soon!

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 and 11AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Crissy Carroll
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for giving us hearts to love. As we share that love with others, give us your Holy Spirit to guide us. Show us the best way to teach others about your life-changing love. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter July 9

Fri, 09 Jul 2021 19:33:04 GMT

Saying "Oops!" Takes Courage and Humility
Do n't Tell Me Where to Go!

Every trip I take for the first time—even if it’s only a few miles away—I make a wrong turn. It’s become a joke in my family. Once I took a wrong turn in Orlando, FL and turned into the parking lot of a psychiatric hospital. The family almost left me there while they enjoyed the rest of our vacation. Carolyn tries to help by telling me the next turn. But my pride causes me to send subtle messages, like groans and eye-rolls, that say, "You don't have to tell me where to go." But then I still make a wrong turn someplace. She's a beautiful and patient wife (as she watches Facebook to avoid my bad habits!) It's hard for me to admit my mistakes, especially big ones.

Admitting we’ve made a “wrong turn,” figuratively or literally takes courage and humility. But we must learn to admit when we need to turn around.

Last week in my weekend message I defined sin in most basic and literal terms: “missing the mark.” All of us have “missed the mark” of the plan and purpose for which God created us. It’s a human problem, and it’s a personal problem. Every culture recognizes some kind of “wrong doing” that must be cor rected.

Before Jesus began his adult ministry on earth, his cousin John called people to recognize the error of their ways, turn around and obey the ways God was teaching them to live. Their change in behavior was a sign to God that they desired and intended to follow him. Turning around and following God did two things. First it showed their trust in God. Secondly, the people learned that God’s ways were the best way to a full, joy- and purpose-filled life. We all want that! God’s way is the way of life abundantly and eternally. Any other way leads away from God for eternity.

Perhaps you can't say that you “believe” all the things in the Bible. But what if you simply started just to DO what God says and let God show you the wisdom of His ways instead of demanding to do things according to your own understanding? It’s a challenge, for sure. I’m trusting that God will prove Himself to you.

I am committed to admit the error of my ways, trust that Jesus is who he says he is, and that the way he teaches me to live is the way for life abundantly and eternally. I don’t always succeed, but I will continue to make the turns necessary to follow Jesus. I hope you’ll join me.

At CtC, we seek to help all people experience the life-changing love of Jesus, and we commit to love, serve, and engage God and people for this purpose. Come join us...

Saturday, July 17

Relax with Friends.
Sip some coffee. Get inspired.
7:00pm
Elsmere Campus

Welcome to the Ct C family!

If you'd like to become a member, please reserve your seat at our next class
Sunday, September 26

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 and 11AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Crissy Carroll
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly father, You love us so much that you sent Jesus to tell us and make the pathway straight to you. We know we stumble, fall, get side-tracked, and tired. Give us your Holy Spirit so that we can tru st you every day and act according to your way which leads to life abundantly forever. In Jesus' name, amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter July 2

Fri, 02 Jul 2021 19:26:34 GMT

You're Never too Old for Mom to Take Care of You
A M other's Love

Almost two years ago my mother returned home to live with me, after having resided in Florida for a little over thirty years. She and I had discussed this arrangement some time ago so this was not a surprise. I was excited and looked forward to her return!

Living together has brought a few challenges here and there -- for the most part readjusting to living under the same roof again.

However, more and more I am reminded how blessed I really am to have her with me -- challenges and all. I had forgotten some of the "mom" things she used to do when I was younger -- making my favorite dishes, making and packing lunches for school, saving magazine articles on topics she knew I was interested in, surprising me with little gifts, and most important making sure my brother and I were in church on Sunday mornings. And despite some age-related health issues she still does the "mom" things for me, including the lunches!

God loves each of us -- challenges and all. Thank you Lord for Your love and for Mom's love!

"May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful." -- Proverbs 23:25

Youth Ministry

N ow Accepting Applications
Appalachian Service Projec t

See Daniel Carroll for more information

Saturday, July 24

Brandywine Summit Campground
Hosted by Elsmere Campus

Open to Everyone

7:00 am Every Wednesday
Bear Campus Prayer Room

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Crissy Carroll .
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll .

Heavenly Father, we thank you for the gift of our mothers. We thank you for their love and for their sacrifice. All the love we have been given comes from You through them. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

- Lynne

Weekly Newsletter June 25

Fri, 25 Jun 2021 12:55:20 GMT

God's Already Fallen for You!
R omance Is God's Idea

In a rush of feelings, Sarah said to her fiancé Jake, a goalie for the city’s pro soccer team, “I will never break up with you!”

“What makes you so certain?” Jake asked with glad surprise.

“Because you’re a keeper!” (Insert bad Dad-joke groan!)

Romance is God’s idea, and that’s great news. God created us to live in loving relationships with other people and with God. Love is much more than a feeling in a moment, and sometimes the best love comes even when we don’t feel like it. But I am glad that God created us to experience love as an action as well as a feeling.

Love can also be painful, but that also is part of God’s plan for us. When the people we love get hurt, we feel sorrow and other emotions along with them. It’s all part of being human.

“Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one an only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.”

God loves you!

At CtC we’re all about telling people of God’s love and helping one another live in the reality of God’s love every day. That’s not always easy , and we can’t do it alone. Let’s meet this weekend to encourage each other toward love and all good things.

Below are a couple ways you can experience God’s power in your life this weekend

VBS - MISSION: POSSIB LE

Teaching Kids Nothing is too

Difficult for God!
"Backyard VBS" at Both Campuses this Summer

For more information contact Toni Rayfield at trayfield@ctcde.church

Youth Ministry

Appalachian Service Project
August 1 - 6

For more information contact D a n i e l C a r r o l l at dcarroll@ctcde.church

NEW MEMBER ORIE NTATION

Learn how membership can strengthen your faith and our reach to others.
Sunday, June 27, 4:00-5:30PM

at Bear Campus

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly father, we thank you for loving us so much that you sent Jesus to lead us back to you. Fill us with your Holy Spirit so that we can experience a joy-filled life, as you desire for us. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter June 18

Fri, 18 Jun 2021 14:38:34 GMT

Being the youngest has its advantages
The B aby of the Family

I am the baby of my family. My brother was born in 1944, my sister was born in 1946, and I was born in 1960. So, I am the youngest by quite a few years.

Being the youngest worked well for me. Both of my parents and my older brother and sister took great care of me, seeing to my every need and yes, spoiling me.

The interesting thing though is that, even though I am quirky and have always marched to the beat of my own drum, my family has loved me through all my strange choices and wanderings.

God’s family is like that. Once we are adopted into God’s family, we are blessed with brothers and sisters in Christ who accept us, quirks and all, and love us with a holy love. And we have the Ultimate Parent in our creator God who loves us when we stray.

I hope you’ll join us this Father’s Day weekend as we come together as God’s family. On Saturday 8:00am we will meet at Kathy’s Crab House in Delaware City at 8:00 AM for a family bike ride along the Mike Castle Trail. On Saturday evening at 7:00 PM, we will enjoy each other’s talents and company at an open mic night at the Elsmere Campus. And on Sunday from 9:00 AM – 1:00 PM, we will gather for a car show at the Bear Campus.

We will also worship as always online at ctcde.church at 9 or 11AM, in person in Bear at 6PM Saturday or 9AM or 11 AM Sunday or at 11 AM Sunday at Elsmere.

THURSDAY 9am-12pm

Breakfast / Movie / Swim
At the home of Daniel and Crssy Carroll

WEDNESDA Y 6:00-7:30pm

Elsmere Campus

SUNDAY, JUNE 27

Membership Class
4:00 - 6:00pm
Bear Campus

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for adopting us into your family. Your love for us and our love for each other sustains us through life’s ups and downs. And we thank you for Jesus who gives us the assurance that we will be part of your family forever. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter June 11

Fri, 11 Jun 2021 13:49:19 GMT

Taking care of our vision is important. So is taking care of our spiritual sight.
I C an See Clearly Now

The doctor went through the usual process of performing a thorough exam and issuing a new prescription. He told me that in the last six years my eyesight had changed quite drastically.

When I picked up my new glasses today, I was amazed …and humbled at the difference. I hadn’t realized how much of the details around me I’d actually been missing with my old glasses. Everything is so much clearer now.

In order for our bodies, including our eyes, to function properly, we need to have regular medical checkups. In order for our spirits to function properly, we need to have regular check-ins with God. Just as the eye doctor can help sharpen our vision by looking into our eyes, God can look into our hearts and help us to see the world the way God does.

Join us this weekend as we experience the first presentation in a series of periodic messages called, “It’s a Cultural Thing.” We’ll hear from John Ikeocha from our Bear campus who will talk with us about being a Christian in his home country of Nigeria. John will speak at both campuses and give us a view inside a culture that may be different from our own.

The experiences of our friends and neighbors are all different from our own. They may not all be different culturally, but everyone has different needs and is at a different place in their lives. This week, ask God to open your eyes to those around you and to show you ways to share Christ’s love with others.

FAMILY B IKE RIDE
Saturday, June 19

Ride at your own pace. Meet at Delaware City Trailhead (adjacent to Kathy's Crab House) at 8:00am

Car Show

The Father's Day Car Show returns next weekend, June 20th, to the Bear Campus. Stop by the welcome table and pick up a few rear visor advertising pieces to hand out and help us promote the event.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for giving us your Word. It is through listening to you and through reading of your love for us that we begin to see t he world through your eyes. Show us how we can be better examples of life changing love to all we meet, for it is in His name that we pray. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter June 4

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 13:01:58 GMT

Jesus Hiked Pikes Peak With Me
When You're On Top of the Worl d

Last week at this time, Carolyn and I were climbing Pikes Peak in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado. I was tremendously grateful to be riding on the brand new cog-rail train! Pikes Peak is not the highest mountain in the Rockies or in the world, but the view is still pretty cool. I enjoyed walking through knee-deep snow and looking across hundreds of miles. God's creation is simply breath-taking from almost any location.

Jesus walked up a mountain with James, Peter, and John. At the summit, they met with Moses and Elijah. That's pretty breath-taking when you think about it. Peter blathered about building some kind of shelter...kind of like placing a plaque atop Pikes Peak to commemorate the climb. But while Peter was blabbing away in amazement, God shut him up with a great thunder clap. God spoke and said about Jesus: "This is my beloved son. LISTEN TO HIM!"

Do you ever get talking too much and forget to be quiet to listen to God? Then something happens to snap you back to another reality? I do.

Jesus is worth listening to. You don't have to struggle up a mountain to learn that, either. Pause right now. Jesus will come to you wherever you are. Mountain top or deep dark valley. Jesus meets us where we are, and he is still God's beloved son telling us that God forgives us. He teaches us how to live lives full of joy, peace, and purpose. We need-- No, I need that every day. If you haven't already, ask Jesus to remind you of God's love for you. Then listen to him.

By the way, here's a picture I took from the mountain top. Enjoy it while you listen to Jesus today.

Please bring non-perishable food items to share from each campus' food pantries.

Car Show

Can you help? We need
Parking attendants & Greeters.

If you're interested in being part of our hospitality team, contact Lynne Poindexter, lpoindexter@ctcde.chu rch

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly Father, I'd like to know you love me as much as you love your son, Jesus. As I listen, please speak your comforting words of love, hope, peace, and joy. In Jesus' name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter May 28

Fri, 28 May 2021 12:41:23 GMT

Don't let others define your purpose.
Who Do You Say I Am?

We sometimes put a lot of stock in what people say about us. we aren't talented enough, smart enough, pretty enough, rich enough. When we internalize those things, it can cripple us to do anything. Last week, Pastor Roger talked about the idea that we are not just saved from something, but saved for something; for a specific purpose. When we allow what people say about us to dominate our thinking, we can lose sight of that purpose. In Mark chapter 8, Jesus was having a conversation with His disciples. He wanted to know what people were saying about Him. I kinda think he knew, he just wanted them to say it. Then Jesus asked them, "who do YOU say I am?" {eter got the right answer, but, regardless of what Peter had said, Jesus knew His worth and purpose. He knew that He was the Messiah. He wants to give us that kind of confidence so we can live out our purpose in this world.

This weekend, we will continue with our series, Mark My Words, with a message entitled, Jesus is Messiah. We are live, in-person at 6pm Satruday and 9 & 11am Sunday at the Bear C ampus. 11am Sunday at the Elsmere Campus. Our online Campus is live Sunday at a or on-demand at any time.

We hope to see you this weekend!

Father's Day Weekend
FAMILY BIKE RIDE
Saturday, June 19

8am, Delaware City

Ride at your leisure. Enjoy the company!

If you're interested in being part of our hospitality team, contact Larry Wilder at lwilder@ctcde.church

Car Show

Make plans to attend our

Father's Day Car Show
Sunday, June 20 from 9am - 1pm

If you're interested in helping out, contact Larry Wilder at lwilder@ctcde.church

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

God, You sent your only son to forgive us and wash away our sins, but He also came to live in us and empower us to live out our purpose in this life. Help us, Lord, to not listen to what the world says about us, but what you say about us. In Jesus' name, Amen.

- Pastor Bill

Weekly Newsletter May 21

Fri, 21 May 2021 20:17:55 GMT

When things become habits or rituals, sometimes it robs busof the joy
Dail y Routines

My two dogs, Bridey and Carter, have a routine. This is largely due to the fact that, when I had a 9-5 job, things like feeding and walks had to be on a schedule. Lately, though, I’ve been stopping for a break in the middle of the day at different times and taking the dogs for a walk. This brings me joy, and I believe the dogs are happier also. When we allow things to become routine…. or just a chore…. the real meaning is gone. For me, the walks are a bonding time for the dogs and I…. so much more
than just a chore.

Join us this weekend as we talk about how we can avoid making worship a chore, by not allowing spiritual actions and symbols to become routine and ritualistic. The spiritual fire can be extinguished when we allow empty rituals to become the end rather than a means of grace.

This week, try varying your spiritual routine. Take a walk, or do something else you enjoy…..and invite God to join you. Making time to talk to God while you are enjoying yourself might open up a whole new experience of the Creator who enjoys spending time with YOU!!

Father's Day Weekend
FAMILY BIKE RIDE
Saturday, June 19

Ride at your own pace. Meet at Delaware City Trailhead (adjacent to Kathy's Crab House) at 8:00am

Car Show

The Father's Day Car Show returns this June 20th to the Bear Campus. Stop by the welcome table and pick up a few rear visor advertising pieces to hand out and help us promote the event.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you. Thank you, Lord God, for sending Jesus who wants to be part of all we do. May we invite Him into our times of joy, and not just when we are crying out in despair. Help us to make time with Jesus something to which we look forward. It is in His name we pray, Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter May 14

Fri, 14 May 2021 13:36:59 GMT

Jesus always gives us power.
Up a creek. No paddle.

Yesterday evening, I enjoyed a short kayak trip on the Christiana River, but it didn’t start out so pleasant. I almost was up a creek without a paddle. The last time I used my kayak, I thought, “Put everything inside the kayak so when you need it next, it will all be together.” Assuming I had done that, I lowered my kayak from it’s hooks in my garage. I slid it into the back of my van, and when I opened the van, I noticed that my paddle was still in the from my last trip. If I did not see it, I would have assumed it was still inside the kayak and I’d end up a creek without my paddle.

A paddle to a kayak is the primary tool for power. In Mark 6, Jesus sent out his disciples, two by two, and he gave them authority to cast out evil. Jesus never sends us to do a job without giving us the authority and the power to do it. Jesus sends us to do the same thing he does, as Mark 4:23 says, to teach, announce forgiveness, and heal all kinds of sickness and disease. Just like my kayak trip was beautiful because I had the power, life with Jesus is beautiful because of His power. By your trust in him, he fills you with purpose, power, and authority to do his will, which is good for you!

7pm TUESDAYS

Beyond with Pastor Sharon
Zoom ID 841 206 2425

Life Grou ps

There's something for YOU!

Car Show

Father's Day Car Show

Sunday, June 20 from 9am - 1pm

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Jesus, thank you for calling us. Thank you for forgiving us. Thank you for giving us purpose and power to do your will so we may have life and have it abundantly. In Your name we pray!
Amen.

- Pasto r Roger

Weekly Newsletter May 7

Fri, 07 May 2021 20:26:00 GMT

Tom? Hank? Tiger? Prince? MJ?
Who is the GOAT?

We love to have conversations about who is the GOAT, the greatest of all time. Is it Tom Brady? Is it Hank Aaron, Tiger Woods, Prince, Michael Jackson, Thomas Edison? The only thing we can say with any degree of certainty is that these people were maybe the greatest of their time. Jesus, however, because of that authority of given to Him by God, is the greatest of all time. He's raised the dead, cast out demons, forgiven sins, restored broken lives. The others on this list? They've given us some entertainment and something to talk about. The authority of Jesus in our lives means that we can live above our circumstances because of what He has done. In Matthew 28:18, as Jesus was giving what we know as the great commission, He says, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me." This weekend, we are continuing our series, Mark my Words, wth a message from Mark chapter 5. We invite you to join us 6 pm Saturday, or 9 and 11am on Sunday at Bear, 11 am Sunday at Elsmere, and online at 9 and 11 Sunday.

We hope to see you this weekend!

Family Bike Ride

Father's Day Weekend
Saturday, June 19

8am, Delaware City

Ride at your leisure. Enjoy the company!

If you're interested in being part of our hospitality team, contact Larry Wilder at lwilder@ctcde.church

Thank you

for your donations to the

Sunday Breakfast Mission

Car Show

Make plans to attend our

Father's Day Car Show

Sunday, June 20 from 9am - 1pm

If you're interested in helping out, contact Larry Wilder at lwilder@ctcde.church

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

God, will you remind us that even in the middle of what seems like impossible circumstances, you have all authority over everything. We choose to put our hope and trust in You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

- Pastor Bill

Weekly Newsletter April 30

Fri, 30 Apr 2021 15:50:32 GMT

The cares and distractions of this world can easily overshadow...
Worl dly Bamboo

It is nearly impossible for me to get anything to grow in my backyard. Years ago, someone who lived in the house planted bamboo in the backyard. No matter what remedies I try, the bamboo keeps returning and it seems that each time, it returns with a vengeance. Part of the problem is that I didn’t address the problem early….and truthfully, I wasn’t very diligent with keeping the bamboo restricted. So now, the root system is established, and I will have to totally obliterate the bamboo infestation if I have any hope of having a usable backyard. Our hearts and minds can be like that backyard soil. If I allow worldly concerns to take over my mind and heart, there will be no room for the will of God and the Holy Spirit. Anything Jesus plants will be choked out if the things of this world have established themselves.

For me, it’s helpful to take a spiritual inventory from time to time. I try to get rid of any distractions that are influencing my thoughts and behavior in ways that are not pleasing to God. Sometimes it can be as simple as clearing some time in my day to spend in the presence of God. Allowing God full access to my thoughts and feelings is a way to invite God to plant in me that which should be growing. So read God’s word. Listen to the teachings of Jesus. Follow what Jesus asks of us in Scripture. God seeds will grow in us if we keep our hearts ready for God’s planting. And God will use us to plant the seeds of the Gospel in others.

Food Pantry

Holy Communion weekend is food donation weekend at Christ the Cornerstone Bear. Bring non-perishable food items and drop in the wagons inside the front doors.

Also, accepting pre-paid GIFT CARDS to Wawa and area grocery stores to help those in need.

Family Bike Ride

Father's Day Weekend
Saturday, June 19

Ride at your own pace. Meet at Delaware City Trailhead (adjacent to Kathy's Crab House) at 8:00am

Car Show

The Father's Day Car Show returns this June 20th to the Bear Campus. Stop by the welcome table and pick up a few rear visor advertising pieces to hand out and help us promote the event.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at AssessME .
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you. Thank you, Lord God, for sending Jesus to plant your love within us. Teach us how to be open and ready for those things you wish to grow within us. Encourage us to share your Good News with everyone we meet. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter April 23

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 22:55:45 GMT

Discover God Through Jesus, His Son
Like Son Like Father

Who are you?

My father died about five years ago, but you can learn a lot about him by getting to know me. I’m discovering the older I get, the more like my father (and sometimes mother) I become. Just today I complained that I could not do something perfectly. (I can’t remember what it was now. That’s also my aging.) I remembered how my father, Larry, would fuss over his clothes when he got dressed for church. He expected his shirt buttons, belt buckle, and pant’s zipper to be perfectly lined up. As his Parkinson’s disease progressed he fussed even more and more. When he could no longer dress himself, he still expected every piece of clothing to line up.

Today, when I caught myself fussing over a small imperfection, I said to Carolyn, “Larry’s coming to visit!”

J esus is God’s son. You can get God’s power and love in your life today by getting to know His son, Jesus. That’s how it works. The Son reveals the Father, our Heavenly Father, to us. Like son. Like father. God loves you. God has a purpose for you. Jesus will lead you to experience all that God has for you I you’ll get to know him.

UNDIES DRIVE

See the Collection V ehicle in the Mall Area this weekend.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9 & 11 AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11 AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11 AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly Father, we want to see you. Help us get to know Jesus, to trust him, and to follow him. Fill us with your Holy Spirit, in his name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter April 16

Sat, 17 Apr 2021 00:38:49 GMT

Have you ever prayed and asked for healing?
God Heals

It's one of the things He promised to us in His word that we could ask for. All the way back to the prophet Isaiah, who said, "by His wounds you are healed", we have been given that promise.

But healed from what? The psalmist say in 103 who heals all your diseases.

There is great power in the testimony of someone who has been physically healed, I've bee on the receiving end of that kind of blessing more than once.

That's not the whole story, though. In Mark 2, Jesus is getting grief from the religious leaders about an encounter Jesus had with a man who was paralyzed. Jesus told the man his sins are forgiven. Then, after being called a blasphemer, he asked them, which is easier? To say his sins are forgiven or tell him to get up and walk. Then, just to show His power, He told the man to get up and walk, and he did.
Physical healing is just part of the story, Lazarus? He was raised from the dead, but he died again. When Jesus forgives our sins, that's permanent.

We're in part two of our series, Mark My Words, this weekend wth a message entitled Jesus is healer. Join us at the Bear Campus in person at 6 on Saturday, or 9 and 11 on Sunday. Elsmere Campus is in person at 11am Sunday, Online Campus broadcast at 9 and 11 on Sunday.

WORSHIP MINISTR Y

Thurs, May 6

7:00pm

Volunteers nee ded

Contact Jim Booker fro more information

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

God, will you remind us of your great power as we seek to see you as healer, not only of our diseases and heart, but in relationships as well, with you and our brothers and sisters.

- Pastor Bill

Weekly Newsletter April 9

Fri, 09 Apr 2021 19:49:48 GMT

Once you've earned authority, it should be used to help and lift up one another.

Use Authority Wisely!

Shortly after I graduated college in 1982, I got my first teaching job in a Catholic school. I had a hard time in the beginning, because I was the youngest teacher on the faculty, and the students had a difficult time accepting my authority. But as time went on, my relationship with the students grew.

I learned back then, that it takes time to earn the trust and respect of the students before the teacher has any real authority over the class. Years later, I learned the same was true in the business world. Sometimes real authority is earned. Jesus, though, is the ultimate authority. His authority comes from Himself as God. In Scripture, we see that Jesus has authority over even the spirit world. Whenever Jesus exercised his authority, though, he did so with love. The world values power and authority, and, in our human condition, it’s sometimes tempting to misuse authority.

Let’s always follow the example of Jesus and use whatever authority we have to do good.

Please help us!

Bring non-perishable food items and drop in the wagons inside the front doors.

Also, accepting pre-paid GIFT CARDS to Wawa and area grocery stores to help those in need.

Men's Softball

Father's Day Car Show

The Father's Day Car Show returns this June 20th to the Bear Campus. Stop by the welcome table and pick up a few rear visor advertising pieces to hand out and help us promote the event.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for the gentle way you lead us. Teach us to lead others with the same kindness and love. Encourage all of us to keep seeking your Holy Spirit’s guidance so that we might love more like you love. In Jesus' name. Amen.

- Pasto r Sharon

Weekly Newsletter April 2

Fri, 02 Apr 2021 01:01:44 GMT

Peace is won with blood, sweat, and tears
Peace! w ith Towels

Years ago, when people actually wrote letters, a friend of mine would always end with the phrase “Peace and Towels.” One day, I asked him why he used that closing. “Jesus teaches us to work for peace by serving others.”

Today is the day we remember Jesus saying, “Since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet.”

Really? We don’t wash other people’s feet. Especially in this day of crazy viruses. Clearly Jesus is teaching us to serve one another in the most humble ways. That’s not easy. It takes courage and love to wash someone’s feet. When you’re finished, you will remember whose feet you washed or who washed your feet. Washing someone’s feet creates an intimate bond with that person. I think that’s exactly why Jesus did it.

Jesus wants to be an intimate friend of us all. A great friendship is full of peace. And many times that takes blood, sweat, and tears, all of which Jesus literally gave so that you and I can have peace with God.

Nothing is too “smelly” or “dirty” for Jesus to cleanse. Nothing. Nothing will cause Jesus to run away from us. Nothing would cause Jesus to say to us, “You’re too filthy! Get away!” Jesus loves you including all the hidden parts you think no one else knows about. And Jesus died on the cross to forgive all of our wrong-doings which separate from God forever. Because of Jesus’ forgiveness, we are given the promise of new and everlasting life with God. That brings great freedom, joy, and peace to those who choose to believe it. I hope you are one of those people. I am.

Jesus served us ultimately through his death on the cross and brought peace between us and God. Jesus commands us to love others by serving them in His name. As we serve them, we will work for peace among us. Who can you serve today, in Jesus’ name, and work for peace?

Please join us!

Good Fri, Apr 2
Cross Walk 5:00 pm
Worship 7:00 pm
Prayer Vigil and Bonfire 8:00 pm

Friday Sunset to Easter Sunrise

Sat, Apr 3
Easter Egg-stravaganza 12:00 pm
Worship 6:00 pm

Easter Sun, Apr 4
Outdoors Sunrise Worship 6:30 am
Indoors at 9:00 and 11:00 am

NOTE: Face masks and social distancing to be observed

Undies Drive

Christ the Cornerstone and Sunday Breakfast Mis sion
See the Collection Vehicle in the Mall Area this weekend

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Heavenly Father, God of us all, thank you for caring for us. Sometimes we forget. Some people don’t know that you do care. We cast our worries and cares on you so that we can turn and love others as you love us. Fill us with your Holy Spirit as we follow you. We pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter March 26

Sat, 27 Mar 2021 15:45:03 GMT

Jesus Really Does Care for You!
Pressure!...Under Pressure!

“It's the terror of knowing what this world is about
Watching some good friends screaming "Let me out!"
Pray tomorrow takes me higher
Pressure on people, people on streets”

These lyrics of the song by Queen feel appropriate today as they did when they were written. I’m especially surprised that in every stage of life, we still feel great stress and pressure. The meaning of this song has been true since the beginning of time.

At Easter, we remember the pressure Jesus experienced during his trial and death. He gave up his life so that you and I can experience God’s love that actually does relieve pressure in our lives. We all know that pressure and stress are realities of life, and when we feel them, we have to choose to allow it to lead us to strength instead of destruction. God does not want us defeated in life. And for some people, experiencing that takes great effort.

Jesus’ disciple Peter said, “Cast all your cares on God because he cares for you.” Jesus cares for you. His love presses on life’s anxiety so that it strengthens us instead of destroying us. That’s great news. To experience that, all we need to do is humble ourselves to him, trust him, and cast our cares on him.

Freddie Mercury and David Bowie (writers of the song) also give witness to the power of love, which comes from God. They end their song with these words:

For love is an old fashioned word
And love dares you to care for
The people on the edge of the night
And love dares you to change our way of
Caring about ourselves

As we cast our cares on God and humble ourselves before him, we learn and experience God’s transforming love that allows us to care for others and not just ourselves. Let’s do that.

Here are some ways you can care for others:

Please join us!

Sat, Mar 27
Worship 6:00 pm

Palm Sun, Mar 28
Worship 9:00 am

Good Fri, Apr 2
Cross Walk 5:00 pm
Outdoor Worship 7:00 pm
Prayer Vigil and Bonfire 8:00 pm

Sat, Apr 3
Easter Egg-stravaganza 12:00 pm
Worship 6:00 pm

Easter Sun, Apr 4
Outdoors Sunrise Worship 6:30 am
Indoors at 9:00 and 11:00 am

NOTE: Face masks and social distancing to be observed

Easter Sunday, April 4

Outdoors at 6:30am
Indoors at 9:00 and 11:00am

Good Friday

Cross Walk 5pm
Worship 7pm
Prayer Vigil & Bonfire,

Friday Sunset to Easter Sunrise

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter March 19

Fri, 19 Mar 2021 18:23:02 GMT

Once we have received mercy, we are moved to be more merciful to others

Healing Mercy

On St. Patrick’s Day, 1998, I was involved in a serious car accident. Both myself and my passenger, a good friend, sustained injuries. My friend’s injuries were much worse than my own.

The accident was my fault, and I was filled with remorse that my error had caused harm to someone else. But my friend simply said to me, “They call it an accident for a reason.” She knew that the accident was unintentional. She knew that I was suffering from the guilt I felt. She was merciful to me, and I have never forgotten that.

The memory of that experience has come back to me many times. When I perceive that someone has wronged me, I try to always stop and think about the other person’s perspective. Most of the time, when someone has hurt me, I know that the hurt was not intentional. Because of my friend’s kindness and compassion toward me….in spite of her own pain…I learned a real lesson about mercy. My friend took into consideration what was in my heart, and she met me in my pain.

Our loving God is a merciful God. So many times, in our lives, our God, rather than giving us a punishment or dealing with us in anger, shows mercy toward us. God meets us where we are, and instead of turning away, welcomes us with open arms.

God even chose to send Jesus to suffer on our behalf, so that we could experience the full scope of God’s mercy.

We are all the recipients of that amazing love. This week, think about someone in your life who could benefit from you meeting them, in their own struggle, and showing God-like mercy.

Easter Basket Outreach

Easter Baskets return! Join Ginger Carroll and her team to generate smiles for children of women in area shelters. Now collecting thur March 28. Drop off anytime at the Bear Campus.

Outdoor Easter Sunrise Worship

6:30am Bear Campus
COVID precautoins apply

(wear mask and social distance)

COVID Vaccines

Over 50? We are pleased to announce we will be offering the COVID vaccine. Ca ll either church campus office at 302 836-2862 (Bear) or 998-4584 (Elsmere) to get on the list Or, use the link below to sign up on our website.

Dates and times yet to be determined.

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for the mercy you have for each of us. You are always seeking to meet us in our pain and sorrow. Encourage those who are broken-hearted and looking for compassion, and may your Holy Spirit inspire us to be instruments of your love, compassion and mercy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

- Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter March 12

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 14:12:43 GMT

What's for Dinner?

We share cooking responsibilities at my home, which includes four adults. None of us likes to cook all the time. We groan when anyone asks, What’s for dinner? I usually answer by asking, What are you hungry for? Cooking is much easier when you’re hungry.

I enjoy pizza (btw pizza does not include pineapple). I like it so much that I work to control my portions or I will eat far more than I need. It’s just one of those foods that satisfies me.

Jesus said “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for justice, for they will be filled.” That is great news. Think of the many injustices we experience in our world: abusive treatment of many kinds, poverty, homelessness, prejudice that causes all kinds of “-isms” and turns us into many kinds of “-ists.” Racism and sexism leads to racists and sexists. And just today I learned of the passing of a longtime and beloved brother in Christ. Ultimately death is the greatest injustice to life. We were created to live an abundant life.

The desire for justice is part of being human. Think also of this: If we are created in the image of God and we as humans desire justice, then God also desires justice. God is the one who brings justice and will bring justice to all people because he promises us the blessing of justice for those who desire it. And we rejoice that through Jesus, we inherit abundant life here and now that lasts for all eternity.

This weekend we’ll unpack some more ideas about experiencing God’s blessing of justice. For now, let me just remind you that God has set a feast of blessing for those who hunger and thirst for just. They will be filled up with it!

Here are some ways you can bring God's justice to our world:

Easter Basket Outreach

Easter Baskets return! Join Ginger Carroll and her team to generate smiles for children of women in area shelters. Now collecting thur March 28. Drop off anytime at the Bear Campus.

Kitchen Manager

for CtC School, Sr. Center & Church
Full Time

For job description click here

LOVE. Worship God with us.

In-Person at Bear Campus, Saturday 6pm and/or Sunday 9AM
In-Person at Elsmere Campus, Sunday 11AM
Online Campus, Sunday 9 & 11AM at ctcde.online.church

SERVE.

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts at
Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter .

ENGAGE.

Meet people with similar interests, needs, and passions. Contact Crissy Carroll .
Pray for others, encourage, and give care to others. Contact Pastor Vaughn .
Information for Children Ministries: Contact Toni Rayfield
Information for Student Ministries: Contact Daniel Carroll

Life-giving God, you created us like you to hunger for righteousness and justice, but we have failed to be all that you are. Forgive us for our selfishness and failure to treat others rightly and justly. Sometimes we get it right. Sometimes we fall miserably. We need your help. We commit ourselves to your ways, which are right and just. Give us your power to live as you want us to live in Jesus’ name. Amen.

- Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter March 5

Sat, 06 Mar 2021 17:20:46 GMT

Moses was the meekest...

Meek Does Not Mean Weak

Numbers 12:3 tells us that Moses was the meekest and most humble man on the face of the earth. Moses?? You mean the guy that killed an Egyptian? The guy who smashed the tablets with the 10 Commandments? The guy who ground a golden calf into dust and made the people drink it? Yeah, that guy. We sometimes confuse meekness with weakness. Let’s not make that mistake. Meekness might be best defined as “disciplined power”.

The kind of power that is in a rocket booster that propels astronauts into space, should not be used on your minivan. Humility is a key component in this. When we understand the power that comes from surrendering to God and allowing Him to be in control, we can face tough situations with confidence, knowing that He is working in us.

This weekend, we will continue with our series, From the Inside Out, with a message entitled, It’s Hard to be Humble. We will look at Matthew 5:5 and find out what it means to inherit the earth. We are live, in-person at 6pm Saturday and 9am Sunday at the Bear Campus, 11 am Sunday at the Elsmere Campus. Online Sunday at 9 and 11 am.

We are LIVE!

We are excited about the growth of our online ministry. We encourage you to check out the new website at http://www.ctcde.church

and interact with our online hosts.

face to facts Blessings Drive

Helping those in need. Thru March 25, we are accepting donations, at either campus, on behalf of Face the Facts Delaware. We are collecting:

Toiletries
Bras
Hygiene Products
Personal Wipes
Bottled Water
Non-Perishable Snacks

God, we thank you for the power that comes in surrendering to You instead of trying to remain in control of situations. Help us to know the power of surrendering completely to You to see you work in us. In Jesus name, Amen We hope to see you this weekend. God Bless you!

-Pastor Bill

Weekly Newsletter February 26

Fri, 26 Feb 2021 18:40:28 GMT

Sometimes God replaces our loss with something So much better!
Loss Can Lead to Blessing

In 2011, I was told that I my job at Wilmington Trust Company was being eliminated. It was a scary time. Now, truthfully, I didn’t love that job. But it was my security. It paid well. The benefits were good. And, honestly, it had become my identity. So, when my job ended, I felt a sense of deep grief, because my world had changed. I didn’t know what to do next.

But God had a plan. I had a strong sense that I should just trust what God had in mind. I became a youth director at my church, a Christian Education director, and ultimately a licensed local pastor.

God, in my time of grief, doubt and fear, led me to some amazing blessings.

When you’re hurting, always reach out to God. Ask someone else to pray for you and with you.

We all have times when our hearts are broken, and we are filled with sorrow. But, God is always ready for you to pour out all your pain and grief and rest in God.

We are LIVE!

The new site gives you access to ministries, small groups, events, and much, much more! You can connect with our online campus as well as view past messages. ctcde.ch urch

Monday, March 8

Our Elsmere campus will host a mobile food pantry in conjunction with New Castle Seventh Day Adventist Church. This ministry is designed to distribute to families in need. Registration is required.

Click Here.

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for the love you have for each of us. You are always ready to comfort us in our times of sadness and emptiness. Encourage those who are broken-hearted and looking for direction. May your Holy Spirit lead us to pray for those who are struggling with how to pray. In Jesus’ name, we pray these things. Amen.

-Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter February 5

Tue, 09 Feb 2021 02:56:03 GMT

How can we take the first step to sharing Jesus?

Get Off the Chair!

The first time I went skiing, I was really scared. I was so scared, in fact, that I did not get off the chair lift. It was very embarrassing. The staff at the ski resort had to stop the lift and help me off. (I didn’t know you weren’t allowed to ride back down!). When the lift got to the top of the slope, where we were supposed to launch, I simply panicked. I didn’t know what awaited me on the slope.

In some ways, the church is li the ski lift. Like the ski lift, the church isn’t a place meant for us to stay in the seat and enjoy the ride. Rather, the church is the launching platform for us to go out into the world and do ministry. And our primary ministry is to make sure that everyone hears the message found in Romans 5:6-8:

When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.

We are called by our baptism to be ministers to one another and to all. Pray for God to show you how to share the Good News with someone in your life, and how we all can be better equipped to get out of the seat and face the slope of ministry outside.

Join Us for Communion

Join us for Holy Communion the first weekend each month.

Elsmere: Sun Feb 7

Bear: Sat, Feb 6 & Sun Feb 7

Online Services

Our online Worship Service extends at 11am beginning on February 21st!

I’d like to finish with this prayer for you: Thank you, Lord God, for calling us to share Jesus with others. Bring joy to those hearing this message today and to their homes and families. Bring into our lives the people with whom you would have us share the good news of Jesus and give us the opportunities and the courage to do so. We pray this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

-Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter January 29

Fri, 29 Jan 2021 15:39:36 GMT

You Are That Pearl!

For what would you empty your bank account, sell your house, and change everything in your life? Jesus answered that question for us.

Life with Jesus "Is like a merchant looking for fine pearls." When he found one of great value, he went away and sold everything he had and bought it. You are that "pearl" of great value. Jesus gave his life so that you may be reconciled with God, given new life that begins now and lasts forever.

I'm well aware that we all still have struggles, pain, and tragedy in life even when we have faith in Jesus. But he is with us to redeem and make useful and troubles we have if we will trust him.

Will you take a thirty-second break, a deep breath, and say a short prayer? Here's a suggestion: Thank you Jesus, for giving your life so that I can have mine forever.

I hope to see you this weekend in person or online. Scroll down to see what's happening and how you can experience God's love and grace even more by engaging and helping others.

Have a prayer request? Get in touch with Pastor Roger today. Email rfrederick@ctcde.church

Can You Make a Change in Someone Else's Life?

Set a Table?

Fill a bag with groceries?

Clean up after a meal?

Encourage others?

Hope Table needs your help. Wednesday Mornings at the Bear Campus!Contact Lynn Poindexter: lpoindexter@ctcde.church

Donations Needed for Diaper Outreach Ministry

Now Accepting Donations!

Unopened packages or boxes of Diapers & Wipes
Sizes 0-6 for our Diaper Outreach Ministry

Drop off anytime in the Bear Campus Mall Area

3135 Summit Bridge Road, Bear DE

Here's a prayer for you...

Heavenly Father, just like the entrepreneur who gives it all for a business opportunity, you see us with great value. Thank you for loving us so much! Help us to trust and receive your Holy Spirit. Make us new today. Guide our thoughts, plans, and actions to love you by serving others in Jesus' name. Amen.

-Pastor Roger

Weekly Newsletter January 22

Fri, 22 Jan 2021 20:28:57 GMT

He will go all the way! Can't Stop This!

You can't stop him, you can only hope to contain him. That was a catchphrase used by a former ESPN newscaster, Dan Patrick. He was talking about a running back who couldn't be brought down or a shooting guard who couldn't miss a basket. He was drawing attention to a star athlete who couldn't seem to be stopped. That's the way the word of God is. Isaiah 14:27 says, "The Lord of Heaven's armies has spoken, who can change His plans? When His hand is raised, who can stop Him?

Get Involved!

Be part of God's plan for Him to be loved by every people. It's not too late to join us!

6 pm Wednesdays at the Bear Campus

Call Doug or Denise Kinnear at 315 576-9093 for more information or to sign up!

Donations Needed

Now Accepting Donations for unopened packages/cartons of Diapers & Wipes
Sizes 0-6 for our Diaper Outreach Ministry

Drop off anytime in the Bear Campus Mall Area

Here's a prayer for you...

God, help us to have faith in the unstoppable nature of the gospel and to know that you will accomplish your plans, no matter what that the circumstances look like.

-Pastor Bill

Weekly Newsletter January 15

Fri, 15 Jan 2021 20:47:47 GMT

How Has Jesus Worked in Your Own Life?

Sharing Our Personal Savior

Most people know that I am an animal person. I have two dogs and also a number are “rescues.” I have a friend who, on more than one occasion, has called me to say, “There’s a cat under my porch. I feel really bad for it. It needs help. Will you come get it?”

The last time she called with this request, I said to her, “I know you really care, and you would like to help this animal. How about if I teach you some ways to get the animal to trust you. I have many ideas that have worked for me, and I’m willing to share those with you.”

Jesus tells us in Matthew 28:20 that we are to go and make disciples. Making disciples means showing others who Jesus is, and how Jesus loves.

Sharing the way Jesus has worked in our own lives is one way we can encourage others to have a personal relationship with our Lord. I know how having Jesus in my life has made a difference for me, and by sharing our personal stories, sometimes we can open the eyes of others to see how Jesus is already working in their lives.

Get Involved!

Be part of God's plan for Him to be loved by every people. It's not too late to join us!

6 pm Wednesdays at the Bear Campus

Call Doug or Denise Kinnear at 315 576-9093 for more information or to sign up!

Serve

Volunteer to serve during weekend services. Contact Lynne Poindexter at lpoindexter@ctcde.net

What in the world are you here for? Discover your spiritual gifts by taking this free assessment.

Here's a prayer for you...

-Pastor Sharon

Weekly Newsletter January 8

Fri, 08 Jan 2021 21:08:39 GMT

Never Stop Doing Good

Stop Tickling Me! I Can't Breathe!

As the youngest of four, I was regularly teased as a child. My siblings all knew I was extremely ticklish, and they would tickle me non-stop. I couldn’t even grasp a breath to say, “Stop tickling me!” Of course I was giggling like crazy and enjoying the attention. Until my ribs hurt. Some things must stop. Like incessant tickling.

And we can’t enter into some buildings or roads. Also violence must stop. Injustice must stop. Disrespect of our nation’s just laws must stop. But this must continue: “Let us never grow weary of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.” Galatians 6:9

Let us never stop…

Doing good deeds for others.
Sharing with our neighbors.
Giving generously.
Praying for our nation.
Protecting those who are in danger.
Working for healthy relationships among all kinds of people.
And loving others unconditionally as God loves us.

We are not alone. Especially we who trust in Jesus Christ are surrounded by ages of faithful brothers and sisters. “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up.”

We easily slip away from the path of right living, but let’s quickly realize, confess, and return to the way God wants us to live. Never give up. I pray that you take a deep breath, inhale the life-giving Holy Spirit of God, and let your loving Creator refresh and renew you. I think you'll be tickled to death...and then to new life... if you do.

Let's continue to Love, Serve, and Engage the world with God's love...

Wednesday Lunch

Need some "hump-day" hope? Join us for inspiration, Holy Communion, and a simple lunch every Wednesday at 11:00AM at the Bear Campus.

Lunch is our treat!

Wednesday Evening Prayer

Pray With Pastor Vaughn & Gwen Montague every Wednesday, at 7PM, with Zoom meeting ID #362-309-9278. Call in from a land-line or join us from your smartphone, tablet, or computer.

Here's a prayer for you...

Our Loving God, we need you every moment. We need your hope. We need your peace. We need your presence to empower our righteous treatment of others. Bless our nation with correction where needed so that we can be a blessing to all people. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen. Let it be so!

-Pastor Roger

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How to Win by Giving Up Real Life Requires Death

Remember and Celebrate
"In Remembrance of Me"

How to Get Courage
For I am with you wherever you go!"

How to Sail Through Life
"They were filled with the Holy Spirit"

How to Play the Part Made for You
You Have a Purpose. God has the Plan.

How Do These Jeans Look ?
Over all, put on love!

Who Is Mr. Irrelevant?
God Has Chosen You!

Ancient Rocks and Old Sins
Jesus Always Gives New Life

How to Turn Anger to Good
"I can't take any more!"

How to Win by Giving Up
Real Life Requires Death